Ukuqala ngeminyaka yobudala, umntwana uqhubela phambili ngokuzimela. Yena ngokwakhe uya esikolweni nakusesikolweni, uhamba egcekeni kunye nabahlobo, ehamba kwiiklasi eziphuma ngaphandle kweeklasi kunye namanye amaxesha ahlala ekhaya kuphela. Ekuqaleni, kwenzeka ngenxa yobunzima, xa abazali, besithi, bafikile emsebenzini. Kodwa omdala umfundi uba, i-calmer ingasala ekhaya kuphela. Into eyona nto kukuba umntwana ehostlini uphephile, ungesabi ukuhlala wedwa kwaye wazi imithetho ethile.
Ukhuseleko lwekhaya lezingane kufuneka lufundiswe ngokukhawuleza, luchaze ulwimi oluthe lwabafundi malunga nemithetho yokuziphatha ekhaya kunye nokumisela ukukhutshwa kwezinye izenzo ezizimeleyo.
Amasu okukhusela abantwana angaboniswa njengemigaqo yemigaqo enxulumene ne:
- ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo zombane zombane;
- ukufikelela kwizifundo ezibonisa ingozi ebantwaneni (ikhomputer kunye ne-intanethi, ikiti yokuncedisa unyango lokuqala, iimpawu kunye nezikhisi, njl.);
- ukuziphatha kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo;
- ukunxibelelana nabangaphandle kwimeko yokutyelela kunye neefowuni.
Imigaqo yokukhusela yokuhlala ekhaya kubantwana
- Ungawuvuli igesi okanye isitofu sombane ngokwakho (ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukupheka okanye ukufudumala ukutya), i-heaters, isinyithi, i-dryers, njl njl.
- Musa ukudlala ngeemidlalo kunye nezikhanyisi. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba ezi zinto ngokubanzi azifumanekanga kumntwana osele ekhaya.
- Musa ukungena emanzini, ungazitshiyi uhlambe.
- Kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo (umlilo, inyikima, njl njl), sebenze ngokwemigaqo yokhuseleko apho umntwana sele esele ekwazi khona.
- Musa ukuvula umnyango kubantu abangaziwayo, ungaphenduli iifowuni, ukuba indlu ayibadala. Abazali mababe neenotshixo zabo kwindlu. Ukongezelela, umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba umama wakhe nobaphi na ngoku kwaye xa beza kubuyela ekhaya.
Isisombululo esifanelekileyo kukunika umntwana umsebenzi (ukufunda, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo okanye umsebenzi wendlu) ixesha lokungabikho kwazo. Kufuneka uthabathe phezulu, ukwenzela ukuba akanalo ixesha kunye nesilingo sokwenza. Ukubuya, qiniseka ukuba ujonga indlela aphelile ngayo umsebenzi kunye nodumo ngokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukukhusela ekhaya kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba ezininzi izingozi kunye nabantwana zenzeka ngokuchanekileyo ekungabikho kwabantu abadala. Zama ukushiya abantwana abangenabantwana abasesikolweni abangaxhaswanga, kwaye abantwana abadala kufuneka bafunde indlela yokusebenza kule nto okanye kuloo meko.