Ezinye iintsana zivela kwimibandela eyahlukeneyo ekuhambeni, kwaye yonke impendulo abazali bayilungiselele yona, sele sele benemibuzo emithathu malunga nale nto okanye esinye isihloko. Ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo zonke ezi zinto "Kutheni? .." abantwana babuza umama babo kunye nabagadi kwiimeko ezingalunganga kule nqaku ngexesha.
Ukucacisa kumntwana inkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yomzimba okanye yezinto eziphilayo ukuze aqonde ukuba kunzima kakhulu. Umzekelo, nantsi indlela yokuphendula iimvumba, kutheni isibhakabhaka sibhakabhaka, okanye kutheni umoya uvuthela onke amaxesha? Ukuba uqala ukulahleka, ukuza ngeenkcazelo ezahlukeneyo, umntwana ngokukhawuleza "zasyplet" unemibuzo eninzi. Emva koko, sikubonelela ibali elifutshane kubantwana, apho banokuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni umoya uvuthela.
Indlela yokuchazela umntwana, kutheni umoya uvuthela?
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ibali lakho, chaza kumntwana, okanye bhetele ukubonisa lo mzamo - ukuba unommeli wezinwele unina uphahla ibhaluni, iya kuba yongezwa ngakumbi kwaye iza kuqala ukuphakama. Ukuba, emva koko, bayifake kwifriji okanye bakhuphe ebusika, kuya kuphinda kwinciphise ngobukhulu kwaye bawa phantsi.
Ukuqonda okufikeleleke ngakumbi, unokwenza udibaniso lwamanzi. Wonke umntwana ubuncinane wabuya wabona amanzi aphuma emlanjeni. Kwaye umoya - oku kufana nemifula efanayo, umoya kuphela, ohlala ujikeleza ngehlabathi lonke.