Iminyaka eyi-11 ngomntwana ithathwa njengenguqu yenguqu ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala ukuya esikolweni kwaye ibonakalisa iimpawu zokuphuhlisa ubuntu. Utshintsho olubalulekileyo kweli xesha lucinga. Umntwana ufunda ukucinga ngokuqingqiweyo, ngokusekelwe kwimeko ehlangeneyo kunye nokuhlalutya ulwazi olufunyenwe ngaphambili kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo. Umntwana uqala ukwakha imbono yakhe, izigwebo, isimo sengqondo ngaye, ihlabathi kunye nezinto ezithile.
Ngokuphathelele uphuhliso lwengqondo, lukhokela. Umntwana ufunda ukuqhuba ngeengcamango ezingabonakaliyo, usebenze ngolwazi, ulungelelanise kunye nokugqamisa into ephambili. Inendima ebalulekileyo kule minyaka ibelwe ukubunjwa kwentetho, ngomlomo nangobhaliweyo, kunye nokufunda nokubhala. Esikolweni, umntwana oneminyaka eyi-11 unokufaka isisusa esitsha-ukuzifunda, oko kukuthi, umnqweno wolwazi olutsha. Umntwana uzama ukufumana nokufunda ulwazi ngaphaya kwezinto ezichazwe kwiincwadi zezifundo. Kubalulekile ukubonelela ngemithombo emihle yolwazi.
Kodwa enye imeko iyenzeka, ukuba inkqubo yexabiso lemntwana ingaphuhliswa kakuhle kwaye i-hierarchy yayo iphukile, isisusa sogxininiso asiyi kuhola kwimisebenzi yemfundo. Izikhuthazo eziphambili kwimfundo yomntwana onjalo ziya kuba amanqaku esikolweni kunye nomnqweno wokuphepha isigwebo. Oko kukuthi, uya kufundisisa ngokufanelekileyo njengoko kufunekayo ukuba "abazali bangacingi." Kwaye kwizinto eziphambili ziza kuthi, imidlalo yeekhompyutheni okanye iikhathuni kubantwana abaneminyaka eli-11 ubudala.
Ngaloo ndlela, sibona ukuba le minyaka ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye kwiinkalo ezininzi ezithatha ubomi ebusheni. Abazali, ke, akufanele baphuthelwe kulo mzuzwana kwaye bahlawule ingqalelo ngokwaneleyo kubantwana, bahlalutye kwizifundo zabo kunye nobomi bentlalo.
Kuyaziwa ukuba amantombazana anokwenza ngengqondo ngaphambi kokuphuhliswa kwamakhwenkwe, ngoko xa uneminyaka eyi-11, oku kulandelayo kungeniswa apha ngasentla:
- umdla kumntu wesini esahlukileyo;
- isimo sengqondo esibalulekileyo ngokubonakala komntu;
- ukuqala kokuphuhliswa ngokwesondo kunye nayo yonke imiphumo ehambayo ye-hormonal outbursts: i-jumps of mood, i-aggressiveness, isolation.
Ngoko ke, ukuba intombazana eneminyaka eli-11 ubudala ikhula kwintsapho yakho, kufuneka uqaphele ngakumbi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bayo. Inendima ebalulekileyo kule minyaka ibukela iTV, okanye iifilimu, imiboniso yeTV kunye neekhathuni. Ungavumeli ukuba inkqubo ihambe ngokwayo, ivuyisa ukuba umntwana uhleli phambi kwesikrini kunokuba "u-shasting" kwisitalato. Thatha ukulawula oko intombi yakho ikhangele khona.
Ziziphi iikhathuni ezenza amantombazana abheke iminyaka eli-11 ubudala?
Akufanele lilibaleke ukuba ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa, zonke iintlobo zeetoto zimele zizaliswe kwaye zifundiswe, ukuphuhlisa imisebenzi. Kule minyaka, iipatto ziyakwazi ukufundisa abantombazana imodeli yokuziphatha kunye noontanga, ukuphuhliswa kwenkcubeko, ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kobuhlobo, ukufunda okuhle, ukunceda abazali nokuhlonela abadala. Ngaloo ndlela, iikhathuni zamantombazana eneminyaka engama-11 kufuneka zikhethwe ngokucokisekileyo.
Izifundo zibonise ukuba abathandwayo abathandayo abakhwenkethi abaneminyaka eli-11 ubudala banamakhosazana, ama-fairies, izilwanyana zasendle. Amantombazana amancinci akhangwa ngumntwana, ihlabathi lemilingo elizaliswe ngabalinganiswa bebalabala, apho ubuhle bukhohlakele ngokugqithiseleyo ububi kwaye wonke umntu ufumana oko akufanelwe.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungayibona ntoni intombazana eneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, khawuqwalasele iindaba ezindala zeDisney ezifana ne "Cinderella", "Ukulala Ubuhle", "i-Beauties neSilwanyana", "i-Snow White kunye ne-7". Ngokumalunga neekhathuni zanamhlanje, uchungechunge lwe "Winx Club", "Barbie", "Bratz" luthandwa kakhulu.
Siza kukunika ingqalelo iipatto ezi-10 eziphambili ezithandekayo kunye nomxholo wesithwankathelo samantombazana eneminyaka eli-11 ubudala:
- Umoya Ophelile.
- Monster High.
- AmaFairies.
- USabrina ungumlumbi oselula.
- Magic Pop Pixie.
- Charlotte Strawberry.
- Iingelosi zobugqi.
- AmaFairies: amaqabunga emilingo.
- AmaFairies: ilahlekelwe ubutyebi.
- Rapunzel: ibali elincomekayo.