Ukunyuswa kwamalungelo omama kamama

Iimbopheleleko zabazali kunye namalungelo aqala ukusebenza emva kokuzalwa nokubhaliswa komntwana wabo. Le mi sebenzi ibandakanya ukukhuliswa kakuhle kunye nonyango lomntwana, uncedo ekufumaneni imfundo, ukubonelela ngeemeko zokuphila ezifanelekileyo, ukutya okunokulinganisela ngokupheleleyo.

Ukuba ubuncinane omnye wabazali abahlulekayo ukufezekisa umsebenzi wabo kumntwana, okanye ubeka ingozi ebomini nakwimpilo yengane, oku kungasisiseko sokunciphisa amalungelo omzali, kunye nokulinganiselwa kwabo.

Ukunyuswa kwamalungelo omzali kamama: izizathu

Bobabili ubaba nomama womntwana banomthwalo ofanayo phambi kwakhe. Inkqubo yokulahla umama wamalungelo omzali awafani nendawo yokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali kayise. Izizathu zizenzo eziphula amalungelo kunye neminqweno yomntwana, njengale:

• ukukhutshwa komsebenzi wezoxanduva lwabazali, kubandakanywa neendlela ezingenakunyulwa kwentlawulo yokugcinwa komntwana;
• utywala okanye utywala;
• kubangela ingozi kumntwana - ngokomzimba okanye kwengqondo;
• ukwenqaba, ngenxa yokuba akukho sizathu esicacileyo, ukuba uthathe umntwana wakho kwidilesi yokubeletha, esibhedlele, esikolweni okanye nakwezinye iziko;
• ukuphathwa kakubi kwamalungelo omzali - ukunyanzelisa ukusela utywala okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi, ukunyanzelisa ukwenza izenzo ezingekho mthethweni;
• usongelo ebomini, emzimbeni okanye engqondweni yengqondo yomlingane okanye umntwana.

Indlela yokunciphisa umama wamalungelo kamama?

Ukuze ukunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo omzali, kubalulekile ukubonisa enkundleni inqina obunzima bokungaphumeleli ukuzalisekisa ubuncinane inqaku elilodwa, ukusuka kuluhlu lwemisebenzi enikwe umama.

Kuphela abantu abalandelayo banokumangalela ngokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali:

1. Umzali wesibini osemthethweni womntwana.
2. Abameleli bamagcisa kunye nabaphathi be-trusteeship.
3. Umtshutshisi.
4. Abasebenzi beSebe lemicimbi yabantwana.

Vala izihlobo okanye abanye abantu abanomdla ekukhuseleni umntwana bangabhala isicelo kwisigqeba sokugcinwa kweso sipala okanye kwisebe kubantwana malunga nokuphulwa kwamalungelo neemfuno zomntwana ngabazali bakhe. Esi sicelo kufuneka siqwalaselwe ngabaqeshwa abagunyazisiweyo kwiintsuku ezintathu, kwaye kwenziwe isigqibo. Icala liyakuthunyelwa enkundleni okanye intsapho inokulawulwa kunye nabazali abanyanzelekile ukuba balungise ukuziphatha ngokumalunga nomntwana.

Ukuba isicelo sifakwa ngumzali wesibini womntwana, kufuneka aqokelele la maxwebhu alandelayo:

1. Ukuba umtshato phakathi kwabazali bomntwana uye wabhaliswa ngokusemthethweni-isatifiketi somtshato okanye ukuchithwa kwayo.
2. Isatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana.
3. Isenzo sokuhlola iimeko zokuphila zabazali bobabini okanye izindlu, apho umntwana uya kuhlala emva kokuba kwenziwe isigqibo.
4. Amaphepha eqinisekisa ilungelo lomzali kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo umntwana.
5. Iimpawu zobungqina bommangalelwa kunye nommangalelwa ukusuka kwindawo yamarobhothi.
6. Ulwazi malunga nomvuzo wommangalelwa kunye nommangali.
7. Izatifikethi zonyango eziqinisekisa izifo ezingahambelani nokukhuliswa okuqhelekileyo komntwana ngummangalelwa.
8. Izigqibo zolawulo lolawulo kunye ne-trusteeship okanye isebe lemicimbi yabantwana.
9. Impawu zobuntu kunye neempawu zabazali zommangalelwa kubamelwane, ootitshala, ukufundisa kwiziko lemfundo lomntwana.
10. Isatifiketi esivela kumapolisa okanye kwinkundla eqinisekisa ukulimala kumntwana okanye iqabane lakhe ngummangalelwa.

Kodwa kunye nokubonelelwa kwazo zonke ezi maxwebhu akuqinisekisi ukuba impendulo enhle evela enkundleni, kwimeko yokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuthintela kwamalungelo omama kamama.

Ukuba umama ulinganiselwe kumalungelo, akakwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhulisweni komntwana, kodwa unokuthi, nangemvume imizimba yomgcini, yibone. Imbopheleleko kwiintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana zigcinwa.

Ukunyuswa kwamalungelo omzali omnye ongumama kwenziwa ngokuhambelana nenkqubo eqhelekileyo.

Ukukhutshwa kwamalungelo omama kamama

Kwilizwe le-CIS, akukho namalungelo omzali. Into kuphela enokuyenza kukuba ubhale ingxelo kwiimvume zokumkela umntwana ngabanye kunye nokumqinisekisa ngumbhala wencwadi.

Ukwamukelwa komntwana kunokwenzeka kuphela emva kweenyanga ezintandathu kwisigqibo sokunciphisa amalungelo omzali, tk. ngeli xesha ummangalelwa angakwazi ukufumana amalungelo akhe.