Ngubani omele aphile nomntwana, ukuze azive ekhululekile ukuba angaphuli amalungelo akhe? Oku kufuneka kugqitywe kuphela ngabazali. Kodwa, maye, kwenzeka ukuba awaziyo ukuyalela umntwana wabo. Ngoxa ubuncwane bakho abuyi-14 - kufuneka ibhaliswe kuphela ngabazali bakho. Nika intando yentsapho kwaneentsapho ezinokukhathalela.
Ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba kunikwe umntwana nomama?
Xa abazali beqhawule umtshato kwaye bahlala bodwa, ngaba umntwana kufuneka abhaliswe kuphela nomama? Akunjalo. Ubawo nonina mabavumelane ngokuthula baze benze isigqibo esisigqibo sokuba umntwana uya kuhlala kuso. Xoxa kunye nendawo apho umntwana wakho uya kuba ngcono: ingaba kuya kuba lula ukuqhuba i-crumb ukuya kwi-kindergarten, ingaba kukho imeko kwihostela yokuphuhliswa kwayo, ukuba kukude kangakanani ukuya kwi-polyclinic, nokuba ngaba ezinye iinzala-ugogo nomkhulu, oza kukunceda ukhulise unyana okanye intombi .
Kukho imeko abazali abahlala kuyo emtshatweni, kodwa ubaba womntwana ubhaliswe kwenye indawo. Ngamanye amaxesha izihlobo zenza isigqibo sokuba kungcono ukubhalisa umntwana kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo uyise. Ngokomzekelo, kule ndawo i-polyclinic yabantwana iyasondela okanye kulula ukufumana indawo kwi-kindergarten. Ukuba ulungelelanise le ngxaki kwaye ulungele ukubhalisa intombi okanye unyana kwindlu yepapa - ke unyoko kuphela kufuneka abhale ingxelo esivumayo.
Ukuba usenokwenza isigqibo malunga nomnye umzali, ngoko siza kuxubusha indlela yokubhalisa umntwana kunye nonina.
Umama ulungiselela amaxwebhu
Ukubhaliswa kwonyana okanye intombi encinane, unina uqokelela amaphepha alandelayo:
- iimvelaphi kunye neikopi zesitifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana kunye neepassports - uyihlo kunye neyakho;
- isatifiketi somtshato;
- sakho sicelo sokubhalisa;
- isatifiketi esivela kwindawo yokuhlala yeqabane lakho ukuba umntwana wakho oqhelekileyo akabhaliswanga kwindlu yakhe;
- isicatshulwa kwincwadi yekhaya kunye neakhawunti yakho kwidilesi yakho;
- kwaye, ekugqibeleni, isimemezelo sopapa, apho avuma ukubhalisa umntwana kunye nomfazi.
Ukubhalisa umntwana kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo unina, iya kwintloko ye-ofisi yezindlu, kwaye uya kuqinisekisa amaxwebhu akho. Emva koko ubazise kwiofisi yepaspoti.
Mhlawumbi, umama ubhaliswe kwigumbi, kodwa yena akayena umnini. Umbuzo uvela: Ngaba ukubhaliswa komntwana wakhe kule dilesi? Ngokomthetho, kuvunyelwe ukubhalisa umntwana kumama ngaphandle kwemvume yomnini.
Indlela yokumisela umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kumama?
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayalibazisa ngokubhalisa umntwana. Ngenxa yokunganakwa, unokufumana ubunzima, kuba awukwazi: ukufumana umgaqo-nkqubo we-inshurensi yezempilo, ufumane uncedo lwezinto eziphathekayo, ulungiselele umntwana, umzekelo, ngosuku lwezala.
Kwaye nangona umthetho ungasifaki ixesha lokumisela umntwana - silucebisa ukuba kwenziwe ngokukhawuleza. Umthwalo wale nto ulala nawe, bazali abathandekayo. Ngaphandle koko kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuxazulula ubunzima beentlalo eziphuhlisayo.
Ngaba usenayo isatifikethi sokuzalwa seemvumba? Emva koko unyuke uze uye kubhalisi. Emva kwakho konke, phambi kokuba ubhalise umntwana omncinci kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo unina, kufuneka uqale ufumane olu xwebhu.
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukubhalisa i-crumb, enyangeni nje, okanye nangaphantsi. Emva koko baya kuthatha kuphela inkcazo yomama. Ukuba ubhaliso lwenziwe xa umntwana wakho ekhulile - lungise esinye isatifiketi esivela kwindawo yokuhlala yipapa. Ngoko, ngokukhawuleza uyihlobisa umntwana, bhetele.
Ngaloo ndlela, emva kokuqwalasela umbuzo wokuba ngaba unako ukubhalisa umntwana ngokwahlukileyo kumama, safumanisa ukuba ukuba intombi okanye unyana ayi-14, ngoko ke unako ukubhaliswa kwindawo yokuhlala kwabazali. Kwaye mabazikhethele ngo-14, abaza kuphila nabo.