Ngamanye amaxesha oomama nootata baqaphela ukuba umntwana wabo uyakhala ephupheni, engakhange avuke. Kwimeko enjalo, abazali abaqondi into eyenzekayo kumntwana, kwaye baqala ukukhathazeka. Abanye bavuke phakathi kobusuku, kanti abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bayothuswa kwaye bazame ukungachukumisi. Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela ukuba kutheni ngezinye izikhathi umntwana uyakhala ephupheni kwaye akavuki, kwaye yintoni efunekayo kuyenzeka kulo mzekelo.
Kutheni umntwana ekhala ephupheni, engavuki?
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabonisa ixesha elide lokuba abantwana abaselula baqala ukubona amaphupha emva kokuzalisekisa iinyanga ezintathu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ubangelwa ubusuku obukhalayo, apho umntwana engasayi kuvuka khona, uphupha amaphupha athile . Le nto ibonakala ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye ibonakalisa kuyo yonke intsana yesibini. Kukho negama elikhethekileyo - "ukusila ebusuku", ebonisa into efanayo.
Ukongezelela, ukuba ngelixa umntwana usenokufumana ezininzi izinto ezintsha, ungamangalisi ukuba ebusuku uya kuphazamiseka ebuthongweni bakhe. Kulo busuku ukuba ingqondo yomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa isebenza zonke izakhono kunye nolwazi alufumene. Zama ukungavumeli ukuba kwisiqingatha sesibini sosuku iimvuthu zifumana iimvakalelo ezingadingekile, tyelela iindawo ezixakekileyo ngaphambi kokuhlwa kwasemini, ngokuhlwa, uchithe ixesha elithile ngokuzinzileyo.
Esinye isizathu sokuba umntwana ngezinye iinkomo akhale ephupheni, engavuki, angaba uhlobo lokukhangela, kukho umama osondeleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyaphawula ukuba umntwana uyaxolisa ephupheni kwaye akavuki, musa ukukhawuleza ukugibela embhedeni - kwiimeko ezininzi, umntwana uya kukwazi ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba oku kungenzeki, zama ubuncinci ixesha lokulala nomntwana, mhlawumbi, umntwana akakwazi ukulala ngokulala kwedwa lakhe.