Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana kwiinyanga ezi-5

Usana lukhula kwaye lukhula ngokukhawuleza. Kubonakala ngathi ngoku kutshatyalaliswa kwakhe, kwaye ngoku sele ebona uMama noTata, bamomothekayo, bajika baze bazame ukudlala ngeeysys. Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-5 kuzaliswe izinto ezingalindelekanga, ezimangalisayo, ezingabonakali kuphela kwicala lomzimba, kodwa nakwi-psychoemotional.

Ukuphuhliswa komzimba komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-5

I-carapace yale minyaka ikhula ukusuka ekuphakameni kwayo ngexesha lokuzalwa malunga ne-15 cm, kwaye ubunzima bayo bunyuke kabini. Ihamba ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kwinqanaba le-backback ukuya kumbhobho kwaye ibambe iithayi eziphethe. Kwaye akukho konke. Ukukhula komzimba kwinyanga ezintlanu zobomi kunokubonakaliswa ngale ndlela:

• i-crumb izama ukwenza amanyathelo amancinci ukuba ithathe isifuba sakhe;
• iphakamisa amahlombe akhe, elele emva;
• Unokujika ukusuka emva ukuya emathunjini nasemva;
• uzama ukufikelela into okanye umdlalo onomdla kuye;
• uthembele ngokuzithemba kwizibambiso okanye izibilini, elele esiswini sakhe.

Ukuphuhliswa kakhudlwana komntwana ezinyangeni ezi-5, ootitshala baqulunqa imidlalo engekho nje kuphela eyenza umsebenzo wezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa ukuvumela nokuphuhlisa ukucinga, ukubona kunye nokudibanisa. Umdlalo oqhelekileyo kukuba umntwana unikezelwa ukukhetha into. Ukwenza oku, umntwana ufakwa kwisisu sakhe kwaye amathoyizi ambalwa afakwe kwiindawo ezimfutshane ukusuka kuye. Inkwenkwe ayiyi kufika kuphela into ayithandayo, kodwa iya kuzama ukukhwela kuye.

Izithethe zengqondo zentuthuko yabantwana ezinyangeni ezi-5

Kulo nyaka, usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, olutsha, aluqhelanga kuye iimvakalelo neemvakalelo. Ngoku sele kulula kakhulu ukuyikrakra, i-crumb iyabaphulaphula ngakumbi izinto ezizungezile, ifunda ukuphulaphula nokuhlula izandi. Inyanga yesihlanu yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana kule ndawo ingabonwa ngamanqaku aphambili:

• I-crumb ihlukanisa phakathi kwemisindo evulekileyo ethule;
• unokukwazi ukwahlula imibala, nangona i-blue, yellow and red isala eyokuqala;
• inkunzi iyakwazi ngokulula abantu abamkhathalelayo kwaye, njengomthetho, bamomothekayo;
• I-karapuz inokuyikwesaba ngabangaphandle, ngokukodwa xa bemthatha ezandleni zabo;
• Uphulaphula ngokucophelela amagama alula kunye nezandi;
• i-agukaet, i-gulit, ihleka, izama ukubiza izandi zomsindo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwamkelwa kwabantwana kumama, unokuva imibuzo emininzi malunga nokuba umntwana uyaphuhlisa ngokufanelekileyo kwinyanga yesi-5 yobomi kunye noko akumele akwazi ukukwenza. Ndifuna nje konke ukuzola kwaye uchaze ukuba akukho mida ecacileyo yokuphunyezwa kwemimiselo ethile. Ngamanye abantwana ngabanye kwaye abanye abantwana bafunda indlela yokujika, umzekelo, kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kuba bahlala bengenalutho, ngelixa abanye bancipha, kuba ezi ziqhekeza zizolile.

Khuthaza ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-5 kwaye uqonde oko kufuneka kwaye unokwenza umntwana wakho, uya kunceda imidlalo elula:

1. "Yazi mna." Oku kumnandi kulula ukwenza. Ukwenza oku, kukwanele ukuba ube nemaski okanye ezimbalwa ezikhanyayo ezinemibala embala. Umsebenzi oyintloko kukufumanisa ukuba umntwana uphendukela njani kwintlobo yomhlobo, kwaye umntu onobuso ongaqhelekanga kuye. Ekuqaleni ufika kwisibhedlele kwaye umncinci kufuneka akubulise ngokumomotheka, uze uphenduke uze uzibophe kwisiqhekeza okanye ugqoke imaski uze uzibonakalise kumntwana. Ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo komntwana - akayi kukubona.
2. "Ngubani othetha njalo?". Yintoni enokuthi umntwana oneminyaka engama-5 ubudala, kwaye ingaba ukhulisa ukuva, ingqwalasela kunye nenkumbulo ngokuchanekileyo, kuya kunceda ukucacisa lo mdlalo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ulungiselele amathoyizi eminwe okanye iincwadi ezinemibala. Injongo yolonwabo kukuzisa izambatho kwizandi ezilula. Ukubhekisela kumfanekiso, umzekelo, kwinkukhu, umama uthi: "Pi-pi", kwikhaya: "Tu-tu", njl. Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, ukuxhamla kunye nokuzonwabisa kuya kuphulaphula izandi ezintsha kunye nokuphatha imifanekiso engaqhelekanga okanye amathoyizi.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengane engaphambi kweenyanga ezintandathu

Kulo nyaka, abatsha abazalelwa ngaphambi kweeveki ezingama-38, bephantse babambisane neontanga zabo, zombini ubunzima kunye nokukhula. Bona, kunye nabanye abantwana, banomdla, zama ukujika ukusuka kumqolo ukuya kumva, kwaye uhambe kunye nenkxaso yabantu abadala. Njengabahlengikazi bachaza, akukho ziphoso ezinzulu ekuphuhlisweni kwazo ezivela kwiintsana ezazalelwa ngexesha, njengommiselo, ezingagcinwanga.

Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka engama-5 ubudala, okokuqala, bafuna ukunakwa kunye nothando lomama nobaba. Xa ujikeleza kunye nokunyamekela xa udlala nayo, unokubukela imihla ngemihla umfundi ufunda ukuvakalisa izandi, ukuveza iimvakalelo zakhe nokwenza iminyango emitsha, ukunyamezela kunye nothando olungenammiselo.