Ukongezelela, abafazi ubusuku nemini basebenzisana nokulawula umntwana, banokhathala ngokukrakra, kwaye ukuphaphama kwabo kuphazamiseke ngokucacileyo. Yingakho iimeko eziqhelekileyo xa umntwana ewela ekuphakameni okukhulu, umzekelo, ukusuka embhedeni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo oko kwenzeka rhoqo phakathi konyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana, xa eqala ukusebenza ngokungaqhelekanga, uqala ukujika kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo aze azame ukuhamba kwindawo eya endaweni. Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela ukuba wenzeni ukuba umntwana omncinci awele ebhedeni ezintandathu kwiinyanga .
Kuthekani ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala ewele ebhedini?
Ukuba umntwana uwile embhedeni kwiinyanga ezi-6, umama ufuna, okokuqala, ukuba ahlale ethule, nangona oku kunzima. Ininzi yamantombazana kule meko ixhala, iqala ukuzihlambalaza ngokwayo, yakhala okanye ikhale. Musa ukulibala ukuba ikati yintsana eneminyaka ezintandathu inokubamba ngentsholongwane nayiphi na utshintsho kwimvakalelo kunye nenhlalakahle yomama, ngoko le ndlela ayiyi kumnceda kuphela umntwana wakho, kodwa iyanciphisa imeko yakhe.
Enyanisweni, ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-50 ubudala uwile ebhedeni kwaye unomonakalo obonakalayo emzimbeni, umzekelo, isilonda sokuphaphaza, ukuvuvukala okukhulu okanye isikhundla esingaqhelekanga, okwenza kube lula ukukrokraza ukuphuka, kufuneka ufune ngokukhawuleza ukuba i-ambulensi.
Kwezinye iimeko, kufuneka ubukele ngokuzinzile. Ukuba umntwana uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, emva kokuwa kwesitya, wabuya wakhala, kodwa ngokukhawuleza wagxotha, mhlawumbi, wayethusa kakhulu. Ukungabikho kokulila kule meko, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka uqaphele unina kwaye ube yisizathu sokunyanga okuthe ngqo kwirejista.
Nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba umntwana akasakhathazeki, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kungcono ukuya kwiziko lempilo elisondeleyo kwaye uqhube i-ultrasound yengane yakho yengqondo. Ngelishwa, imiphumo embi kakhulu yokuwa ingabonakali kwimbono yangaphandle kwintsana, kodwa iya kuthintela umgangatho wobomi bomntwana kwixesha elizayo.