Umfazi ngamnye ngexesha lokukhulelwa ubuncinane kanye, kodwa uya kuhlala ecinga ngesihloko sokuzala nomyeni wakhe. "Ingaba uthatha umyeni ngokubeletha?" - umbuzo ungangqangi, kwaye ukugqiba, kunjalo, kuphela wena. Siza kuqwalasela kuphela ezinye iinkalo zale mpikiswano.
Ukusebenzisana nomyeni wakho
Ukuzalwa ngokubambisana sele kusandula kakhulu. 2/3 yabasetyhini ekubelekeni ngoku bakhetha ukuya kumntu osondelene nabo ngexesha lokubeletha. Akufanele ukuba yindoda. Omnye ukhululekile ukuzala nomama, udade, umhlobo okanye umkhwekazi. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengomlingane ekuzalweni konke okufanayo indoda iyasebenza. Yena, ngenxa yobuchule bakhe, uzama ukwabelana ngesimo esinzima sowesifazane, uzama ukumnceda kangako, kunye nemizamo edibeneyo yokuba 'abelethe' umntwana. Kwaye ke, xa umntwana ezalwa, ubaba unethuba lokuhlala kunye nomntwana osandul 'umntwana kwilungu lokubeletha, ukunikela ubungqina bokuqala kwemizuzu yobomi beemvuthu. Kwaye kwakhona ukwabelana noMama ngoku kunesivakalelo esikhulu. Ngoko unako ukuchaza ngokucacileyo inkqubo yokuzalwa komlingani. Kodwa yonke into efanayo ayiyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo yokuqwalasela kunye nemigqomo engakumbi yokuncediswa yindoda kwiintlobo.
Ingaba indoda ifuna ukuzalwa?
Asiyi kuba yintlandlolo, ukuba sithetha ukuba zininzi zibini, iingcinga ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi unako ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba athathe umyeni wakhe ngokuzala, kwaye okokugqibela akuyi kuvuyela ngcamango enjalo. Ngokuchaseneyo, umyeni ufuna ngokwenene ukuba abe khona ekuzalweni komntwana wakhe, kwaye loo ntokazi ivakalelwa kukuba ngaphandle kwayo iya kusebenza ngokubhetele. Ukugxininisa nokunyanelana komnye akufanelekanga. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokugqibela, kufuneka ufunde ulwazi oluninzi njengoko lunokwenzeka kwaye ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Emva koko, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukulahlwa kwamalungu okuzalwa kwabalingani kubangelwa ukungabikho kolwazi (okanye ukufumaneka kweedatha ezingamanga).
Indlela yokulungiselela umyeni ngokubeletha?
Okokuqala, wena nomyeni wakho kufuneka nixoxe ngale ngxaki kwaye nifunde ukuba ukuzalana kwamaqabane kuyisifiso esifanayo. Ukuba ubuncinci omnye umfazi uyachasene (kwaye oku kungaba yindoda nomfazi), ngoko kungcono ukushiya lo msebenzi.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, okwesithathu, ngenxa yobukho bomyeni ekuzalweni, kufuneka udlulise iimvavanyo. Uhlobo luni lovavanyo olufunekayo ukuba uluthathe, kungcono ukufumanisa oogqirha esibhedlele apho uya kuzala khona. Kwenzeka ukuba kwizibhedlele zokubeletha kweso sixeko esinye sineemfuneko ezahlukileyo zokuhlalutya kweqabane. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi uzakufuna ukwenza u-fluorography kwaye udlulise uhlalutyo lwe-staplocloccal.
Abantu abaninzi banomdla kulo mbuzo: "Kubiza kangakanani ukuzala nomyeni wam?" . Siya kunika ukuqinisekisile. Kwiindawo ezininzi zokubeletha kwabazali bezabelane ngokungezelelweyo akufuneki ukuhlawula ngaphezulu.
Yintoni indoda ifanele iyenze ngexesha lokubeletha?
Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokuphuhlisa iziganeko:
- Ukubonelela ngoncedo olusebenzayo. Oko kukuthi, yenza ukusilalisa kwinqeni (okanye indawo umama ayifunayo). Bonisa indlela yokuphefumula, inkxaso ngenkcazelo engokoqobo nangokomfanekiso. Biza ababelethisi kunye noogqirha. Beka i-cushions, uhlambe ngamanzi abandayo, uzisa isiselo, njl. Iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga nazo zonke ziya kuxelwa kwiikhosi.
- Uncedo olusisiseko. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iimeko xa ibhinqa lilungiselela ukuzala nomyeni wakhe, wafundisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zoncedo, kodwa kwinkqubo ibhinqa licela iqabane ukuba lisebenzise nje isihlalo kwaye lingaphazamisi. Ndikholelwe, ukuba umfazi ucela oko, kungcono ukuba ungamthinti. Kodwa kwelinye ingcamango yokuba umyeni wakhe usekufuphi, kwaye kwimeko yongxamiseko iza kuhlangula, sele ilula.
Kukho imbono eyahlukeneyo malunga nokuzalwa kwabalingani. Abanye babhala ukuba emva kokuba umyeni ekhona ekuzalweni kwakhe, walahlekelwa ngumntu wakhe wesini. Kwaye umntu ochasene naye uthetha ngoncedo oluxabisekileyo, ngaphandle kokuba yintoni umfazi engayi kuyenza. Ngoko ke, igama lokugcina lenu, ngubani, ukuba akunjalo wena, uyazi indoda yakho engcono.