Ubutsha bubungqina bokuguqulwa komntu ngamnye. Umnqweno wokubonakalisa ukuzimela kunye nobudala, i-maximalism yabantwana iqhubezela umntwana ukuba enze izenzo eziphosakeleyo, kuquka ulwaphulo-mthetho. Ingxaki yobundlobongela bentsha yenye yezona zinto ziphuthumayo kuluntu wanamhlanje, kuba ithatha ubuninzi obukhulu.
Iimbangela zobundlobongela abaselula
Xa sele bekhulile, abantu bathambekele ekugqibeleni ukugcinwa kunye nokulawulwa ngabantu abadala kwaye bazive bekhulile. Iintsholongwane zibonisa ukuba ngokuxelisa ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle - ukutshaya, ukusela utywala, ukulandela imfashini nokukhetha iindlela zokungcebelekanga ezingabantwana.
Izizathu zokwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho zikho kwiimpawu zengqondo zentsholongwane ezifuna ukuziva zixabiseke kwaye zixabiseke. Kwaye ukuba akaphumelelanga kwimidlalo, ukufunda okanye ubomi bentlalo, okanye ekhula kwintsapho engathandekiyo, umntwana uyaziwayo ngobomi besitrato, apho efumana ukudibanisa "efanayo". Kukho ulawulo lwalo, i-psychology ekhethekileyo, eqhubezela ulwaphulo-mthetho olutsha. Phakathi kwabo kukho imithetho yabo, ngokubhekisele kuyo eyona nto iqineleyo, kunye nenkcaso yintlanga enobudlova yindlela yokuphila.
Uninzi lwabaphuli beentlokwenkwe zenza ulwaphulaphulo ngenxa yelukuluko kunye nokungalunganga, kwimeko yobunxila okanye utywala, ukuzakhela emehlweni abo ontanga, ukubonisa amandla abo nokuphakama. Omnye uphonsela igunya kunye nomzekelo wobudala be-underworld ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Kodwa ulutsha luyakhathazeka kwaye luwela phantsi kwefuthe elibi. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, iinjongo zobugovu, inzondelelo kunye nenzuzo yabekwa phambili, kwaye ulwaphulo-mthetho luyacetywa. Iintsholongwane zivakalelwa, kwaye oku kubangele ukuziphatha kakubi. Ngelishwa, ngokugqithisa kwexesha imeko ibuhlungu kakhulu. Kwaye izizathu zokukhula kobugqwetha bentshaba kukungonakaliswa kwimeko yezoqoqosho, ukuveliswa kobuqili obungabonakaliyo kwimidiya yeendaba, ubuqhophololo kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni kunye nomnqweno "wokulula" inzuzo.
Ukuthintela ukutshatyalaliswa kwabantwana
Amanyathelo okukhusela kufuneka ayenziwe kwinqanaba likarhulumente. Kubalulekile ukukhusela isizukulwana esincinci kwimpembelelo enobungozi yamanqaku kunye nemidlalo yekhompyutheni, ekhuthaza ubundlobongela, inkohlakalo, ukungabikho kwemali, kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukudala amanqaku amaninzi ezemidlalo kunye neeklabhu ngokunokwenzeka, ukwenzela ukuba abantwana abaselula banomsebenzi onomsebenzi, kwaye bangashiywanga.
Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukudala imisebenzi yabantwana. Ababuyiselwe kwiindawo zokuvalelwa kufuneka baphuculwe kuluntu ngokuthintela ukuphindaphinda.
Ukuthintela ulwaphulo-mthetho phakathi kwabaselula, kubalulekile ukwandisa inethwekhi yamaziko okhuseleko loluntu anika uncedo lwengqondo.
Kwaye ke, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza izithethe zabantu, igunya leentsapho kunye nobulungisa bezenhlalakahle ngendlela efanelekileyo.