Okwangoku, abazali abanothando ukususela ekuqaleni kokufundisa abantwana esikolweni banzima ukubanceda bafunde kakuhle. Emva koko, ukuba umntwana ufunda nje "olungileyo" kwaye "obalaseleyo", ufumana ukuzithemba kwaye uzama ukuphumeza iziphumo ezingcono. Uncedo kunye nenkxaso kumama nobaba kule ngxaki enzima kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abaselula kunye nabantwana abadala.
Kule nqaku, siza kuthetha malunga nabazali abangayenza ukuze bancede umntwana waluphi na umdala afunde kakuhle, zombini njengomntwana osemtsha kunye nomgcini wokuqala.
Yintoni enceda abantwana ukuba bafunde kakuhle?
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ixesha lokufunda esikolweni lalilula kwaye luxolo ngenxa yakho kunye nomntwana wakho, iziphakamiso ezilandelayo kufuneka zigcinwe:
- Ukususela esemncinci, thetha nomntwana wakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Inkulumo yokubhala ibaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhliseni okuchanekileyo nokuzalisekileyo kwanoma yimuphi umntu, ngoko ke, nokufunda ngokuphumelelayo. Ukususela ekuzalweni komntwana, kuyimfuneko ukuphuhlisa izakhono zeemoto ezilungileyo, ezenza ukuba kubekho intetho efanelekileyo. Xa usukhulile, xubusha nomntwana wakho konke okwenzekayo, kwaye ungamthinteli ithuba lokuvakalisa uluvo lwakhe. Xa sele eselula, nceda uzame ukuzisa umntwana ukuba axoxe, acele ukuba yiziphi iingxaki azikhathazayo ngaye, kwenzekani esikolweni sakhe. Xa kunzima ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo, kubazali kufuneka benze okusemandleni abo.
- Ukongezelela, kuyimfuneko yokwandisa imeko yomfundi nesigama sakhe. Yiya kwiimyuziyam, kwiindawo zemiboniso, kwi-cinema, ukutyelela imiboniso kunye nezinye iziganeko zenkcubeko. Ukubandakanya umntwana ekufundeni okwenene, kungekhona iincwadi zombane. Ukuba kukho umnqweno kwiimvuthu - funda kuye ngokuvakalayo. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, unako ukumnika umntwana ukuba abuyisele umxholo ngeeklasi zokwakha kwifom edlalwayo.
- Into ebalulekileyo yokuphumelela isikolo kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo ngumsebenzi olungiselelwe kakuhle ekhaya. Fumana idesksi ekhethekileyo,
enokuthi iguqulwe ngokuphakama kuye kuxhomekeke ekukhuleni komntwana, kwaye ifake isilathisi setafile, apho itafile iya kukhanya. - Ungalibali ngokutya. Ukuze ufunde kakuhle, umntwana kufuneka afumane zonke izondlo ezifunekayo, amaminerali kunye namavithamini. Ngenkathi yebusika, kunokunceda ukusela i-multivitamin amalungiselelo. Ukongezelela, umntwana nangaliphi na ubudala udinga ukuhamba imihla ngemihla. Zama ngeveki yonke intsapho ukuphuma ngaphandle kwaye uchithe ixesha kwi-air fresh.