Abantwana bethu bakhula ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye abantwana basebusuku bevelile baba ngabantwana abavukelayo. Lo mbhikisho ungabonakaliswa kuyo yonke into, kubandakanywa nomnqweno wokwakha igumbi loyilo ngokuthanda. Ungazivumeli kule nto. Emva kwakho konke, ukubonakala kwegumbi lentombazana inokutsalisela malunga nembono yakhe yehlabathi, malunga neembono ezintsha kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa.
Xa uhlaziywa ngaphakathi kwegumbi lesigqirha ngemvume yakhe, kufuneka ususe zonke iidyski ezingenasidingo. Nangona kunjalo, abanye, ngakumbi amantombazana, bangathanda ukushiya isilwanyana sabo esithandayo. Ukongezelela, lixesha lokutshintsha iphepha lodonga kunye nemidwebo yabantwana "abaninzi".
Ebudaleni, abantwana kufuneka banikwe inkululeko yokuzikhethela. Emva kwayo yonke into, kubonga inkululeko eyenziwa ngumntwana osemtsha, kwaye abazali babonisa ukuba abayithandi nje kuphela, kodwa bahlonele oko kubaluleke kakhulu kumntu okhulayo. Nangona kunjalo, inkululeko enjalo kufuneka ukuba ibe phantsi kwemida evumelekileyo.
Ukuba umntwana osemncinci wayemthanda iphepha lodonga okanye eliqhelekileyo, mcebise ngenyameko ukuba akhethe abanye, uchaze ukuba ukuhlala kwigumbi elinomdaka obushushu akuyi kuba nzima ngaye. Musa ukuthenga amaphephadonga abizayo. Mhlawumbi kungekudala iinqununu zomntwana wakho ziza kutshintsha, kwaye ukutshintsha iphepha lodonga elingabizi luya kuba lula. Inketho efanelekileyo kwigumbi leshumi elivisayo liyindonga yee-pastel tones ezikhanyayo. Ziya kuba yimvelaphi ephezulu kwimfenitshala, izixhobo ezahlukeneyo kunye neefowers, apho umntwana oza kutshabalala ekudongeni.
Ukwakhiwa kwamakhethini ekamelweni elisakhulayo linempawu zalo. Akufanele kube nje ukuhlobisa kwefestile, kodwa ukhuseleko olusebenzayo ukususela emini nasekukhanyeni kwenyanga, ilanga ebusuku.
Kulo gumbi le-adolescence kufuneka kube neendawo ezimbini eziphambili - ukuphumla nokusebenza. Ukuba ugqiba ukuthenga ibhedi, kungcono xa kunomthi womathambo wama-orthopedic. Kungenzeka ukuba intombazana ithenge ityala, emele ibe nzima, kodwa ikhululekile kwaye ilula.
Endaweni yomsebenzi, faka ideskiti enkulu yekhompyutheni kunye neeshalafu zeencwadi kunye neencwadi zezifundo. Uluhlu olunjalo lomsebenzi lubekwe bhetele kufuphi nefestile. Awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwengubo yokugqoka apho izambatho zentombazana ziya kugcinwa.
Ukuyila kwamagumbi amantombazana asetsheni
Igumbi lentombazana engenakukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwetafile yokugqoka okanye isifuba sabadwebi ngesirrho apho intombazana leyo izakugcina izimonyo, iziqholo, iinwele zeenwele kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko. Unako ukuxhoma isibuko esilungileyo esilungileyo eludongeni - i-fashionista yakho iya kuvuya kakhulu ngayo.
Bonke abantombazana bathanda izinto ezintsha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banempahla eninzi. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela kwangaphambili apho unokubeka khona ikhabhinethi enekhono ukwenzela ukuba ifikelele ngaphakathi kwendawo yangaphakathi yegumbi.
Njengentambo, intombazana inokunyula ibhedi eliqhelekileyo, kunye nebhedi ephindwe kabini okanye kwinqanaba elilodwa: konke kuxhomekeke kumakhono akho kunye nendawo yokukhulula ekamelweni lentombazana.
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Ukwakhiwa kwegumbi lesigane kwinkwenkwe
Ukwakhiwa kwegumbi le nkwenkwe kufuneka kube nzima ngakumbi. Nangona iingubo zenkwenkwe kwaye zingabalulekanga njengentombazana, kunjalo, i-closet kufuneka ibe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwigumbi lenkwenkwana. Ingaba ikhestile ekwakhiwe, okanye ungathenga imodyuli ekhethiweyo, equkethe ibhedi kunye nendawo yokugcina izinto kunye neengubo.
Umbhede womntwana osemtsha kufuneka ukhethwe ngokunyanisekileyo, kuba kule minyaka abafana bakhula ngokukhawuleza.
Indawo yokuqeqesha kufuneka ixhotywe ngamashalofu, idesktophu enkulu yekhompyutha kunye nesihlalo, ulungelelaniso ekuphakameni, ukuze xa umntwana ekhula, akudingeki uthenge entsha.
Isikali sombala eklasini lentombazana isenokuba yimpunga, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ebomvu , eluhlaza, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Iyakubonakala imbala imibala eyahlukileyo: omnyama nomhlophe, obomvu-olune-orange, i-emerald grey.
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Ukwakhiwa kwegumbi lomntwana osemtsha
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abafana kunye nodade banyanzelekile ukuba bahlale kwelinye igumbi. Xa udala uyilo lwegumbi elinjalo, kufuneka uqwalasele iimpawu zomntwana ngamnye. Ukuze kube lula kakhulu, kungcono ukwahlula imimandla yenkwenkwe nentombazana eneskrini, isalathisi okanye ikhefu. Kwi-closet efanayo, ngamnye umfana kufuneka athathe amashalofu akhe, abambathe ifilimu yembala eyahlukileyo.
Inketho ebalulekileyo kwigumbi eliselula liya kuba yindalo yoyilo kunye nephepha lokudonga eludongeni. Abantwana abaselula abanokukhetha imifanekiso abayithandayo.
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