U-2018 waqala kuphela, oko kuthetha ukuba bonke abantu baya kuba nexesha lokwenza uluhlu lweenjongo zonyaka ozayo. Yaye uyazi ukuba kutheni abantu abaninzi becinga ukuba uludwe olunjalo lulolu hlobo kodwa luyinto yokumisa?
Ewe, kuba abazange baphumelele ukufezekisa oko bekukululuhlu. Isizathu salesi sidima asikho ekungabikho kwenjongo, enye inqabileyo inhlanhla, kodwa ekuphunyezweni kakubi kweenjongo ezibekwe. Ixesha lokulungisa imeko. Nazi izizathu ezi-25 zokuba ungayiqondi kuphela ukuba kutheni uluhlu lwangonyaka ophelileyo lwezicwangciso zonyaka luhlala kwiphepha, kodwa unokukwazi ukuqhubela phambili ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso zakho.
1. Sihlawula izinto ezininzi ngexesha elilodwa.
Uninzi lwezicwangciso zicebisa ngokukhawuleza ukuthatha ukuphunyezwa kwento ethile kwihlabathi. Ndikholelwe, ngokukhawuleza uqale ukufezekisa le njongo, nje ukuphosa lo mbandela ngokukhawuleza. Efanelekileyo: imihla ngemihla ukwenza okuncinci, nangona kungabonakali kakhulu, amanyathelo okufunayo. Le nkqubo ingafaniswa, umzekelo, ngokutya ikhekhe. Ngoko ke, okanye ulahla ucezu olukhulu, ucoce ama-pastries amnandi, okanye ngomzuzu uzodla yonke i-dessert kwaye ngenxa yoko awuyi kuvuya kwaye ukwanelisekile, kodwa kuphela ubunzima esiswini.
2. Siyeka ngokukhawuleza.
Ngokukhawuleza xa i-motivation iqalisa ukutshabalalisa, khawuleza ujonge kwi-notebook, apho ekuqaleni kwonyaka baveze injongo yabo ngokubanzi. Ngokomzekelo, ekupheleni konyaka ufuna ukuthenga imoto entsha, ukulibala malunga nokuqhuba ukuhamba kwezithuthi zikawonkewonke. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kunzima ukusebenza ngaphandle kweeholide, ukufumana. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuyeka, uthathe imali oyifumene kwaye uye eholide. Ngexesha elinjalo, kulungile ukuba ukhangela kwi-glider yakho, apho iya kulandelwa khona, kutheni ufuna le mali, yintoni oyigcina nayo nendlela ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ngayo ngokuthenga imoto.
3. Sigxininisa kuphela kwiimpawu ezimbi.
Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukunyuka ukuya ehlobo ngefomu ephilileyo, ukulahla iipounds ezimbini. Ngoko, ukuze ulondoloze ubomi bakho kwizinto ezimbi (kule meko zigqithise kakhulu), kubalulekile ukongeza ixesha elihle kulo (kungadla uqeqesho lokudansa kwi-pylon).
4. Sifuna kakhulu malunga nathi.
Ekuqaleni sithembisa ukuba sinokutya okuncinci kangako. Emva koko silahlekelwa yimpembelelo yethu, izandla zethu zehla ngokukhawuleza, xa ungazenzi, ngo-23: 00 uhlala phambi kwekhompyutheni yakho kunye ne-Napoleon plate. Ngenxa yoko, ziba nomsindo, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukuba kungabikho nto. Vumela isiqhezu sento enobungozi, kodwa sihle kakhulu. Thatha ikhefu elifutshane uze uhlalutye ukuba kutheni ufuna ukutya ukutya okuncinci kangako, oko kuza kukunika, ukuba oku kuya kutshintsha njani ubomi bakho. Ndikholelwe, kwixesha elizayo, amandla aya kukubulela.
5. Asiyazi sonke indlela yokwenza iinjongo zethu ngokuchanekileyo.
Kukho umqondo "wokujolisa umgomo" (iinjongo ze-SMART). Kule binzana i-SMART yisigcawu, isichazwa njengolu hlobo: oluthile, olulinganiswayo, olufikelelekayo, olufanelekileyo, olufanelekileyo. Ngamafutshane: zibuze izizathu ezichanekileyo oza kuzifezekisa ngexesha elithile.
6. Ukucinga okungalunganga.
Ukuba uceba ukuyeka ukutshaya, kodwa ekhaya okanye emsebenzini uhlala ufumana uxinzelelo, kuya kuba nzima ukuphumeza. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale nayiphi na utshintsho, phelisa izinto ezimbi ebomini bakho.
7. Siphutha ekulawuleni ixesha lethu.
Sonke sahluke, kodwa kuba oko kusebenza kwimpilo yomnye, omnye umntu akanakunceda. Kodwa, ekupheleni, ngamnye wethu unamahora angama-24. Ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo kwiintanethi zentlalo, ke lixesha lokulibopha. Mhlawumbi uyayichitha kwimidlalo yevidiyo okanye kwiingxoxo ezingenanto kunye nabantu abanetyhefu? Lahla abadli bexesha lakho.
8. Sodwa.
Inxalenye eyona nzima kunokwenza yedwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi into enikezelwa ngayo, abantu abathanda umoya bafuna ukuthetha nabanye. Khangela umntu oya kuhamba nawe ngendlela efanayo. Ndikholelwe, kulula ukuba zibini ukunqoba ubunzima.
9. Imithintelo yezemali.
Ngokuqhelekileyo sikholelwa ukuba ukuze unciphise umzimba, kufuneka uqale ukuhamba ehholo elibiza. Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezincinci zokufikelela kwiinjongo.
10. Sivame ukuphazamiseka.
Ukuba sifuna ukugxila kwizinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene, lixesha lokuphelisa izinto eziphazamisekile rhoqo. Nantsi yonke into iyahla ukuya phambili. Iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo: nantoni na engakunceda ukufezekisa injongo, ukulibazisa ukuphunyezwa kwayo, ikubuyisele kwisinyathelo esinye.
11. Akukho cwangciso esicwangcisiweyo ngokucacileyo.
Xa ungeke ukwazi ukufezekisa oko ufuna, kukho isilingo esinzima sokuzinikela, sishiye yonke into. Ukuze kuphephe ukungahoywa i shishini ngexesha lokuqala lokuphelelwa lithemba, inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kufuneka inikwe inceba. Isicwangciso esicatshulwa kakuhle siya kukuvumela ukuba wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Ngamanye amagama, xa iSicwangciso A singasebenzi, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukukhuphela.
12. Zininzi izicwangciso zengxaki.
Ewe, kwenzeka kwaye kunjalo. Kukho abo abangenaso isicwangciso esisodwa, kodwa kukho abantu abanokuba babeshumi kubo. Kuvela ukuba ukwakhiwa kwenani elikhulu lokukhethwa kwindlela, sinika ukhetho kwiindlela ezilula ukuphumeza okufunwayo.
13. Musa ukucwangcisa nantoni na.
Esinye isizathu sokuba kutheni iinjongo ezininzi ziphupha. Ukuba awufundi ukucwangcisa, uya kuphumelela. Bhala phantsi kwiphepha lamaphepha elinokukunceda utshintshe ubomi bakho, liguquke libe yinyani. Kubalulekile ukucacisa yonke into, ungayikhohlwa isimiso se-SMART (bona inqaku # 5).
14. Sigxininisa ukusilela kwethu.
Ukuba wenza iimpazamo, ngoko uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo. Iingxaki kulabo abangazange bahluleke. Nantsi kufanelekile ukukhumbula amagama kaWinston Churchill: "Impumelelo yikhono lokuhamba ekuphumeleleni ukungaphumeleli, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngumdla," ngoko ke gxininisa ngamandla akho. Cinga iimpazamo njengento ebalulekileyo yokuphila.
15. Siphelelwa yimonde.
Akukho mntu ufezekisa injongo zakhe ngobusuku. Ngaba uyazi ukuba amaxesha amaninzi uThomas Edison wasungula i-bulb? Hayi, kungekhona okwesibini kwaye kungengowesithathu, kodwa ukusuka kwiwaka. Khumbula oku kwaye musa ukukhawuleza ukuthukuthela xa, emva kweveki okanye iinyanga, awukwazi ukufezekisa oko ufuna.
16. Siyesaba ukungaphumeleli.
Kakade, awukwazi ukuzama. Emva koko awuyi kuphelelwa, awuyi kuhlala ehlanjeni elingaphazamiseki. Kodwa unokuqala nje, zama ukuphumelela. Okanye ufuna ukuhlala ubomi bakho endaweni enye, isikhalazo ngobomi kwaye ungazami ukuyitshintsha ibe ngcono?
17. Sithintela ubuchule bethu.
Awukwazi nokuba uyakwazi. Amandla abantu apheliyo. Yonke imida iphezulu ezintloko zethu. Ngomnqweno nokuzithemba yedwa, unokukwazi ukujika iintaba ngokulula.
18. Asizithembekanga ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha asikho into esiyifunayo, kodwa yiyiphi indibano esishukumiselayo okanye isenze abantu abathile. Kubalulekile ukujonga ngaphakathi kwakho, ukuqonda iimfuno zakho zokwenyaniso. Ngubani owaziyo, kodwa mhlawumbi awukwazi ukufikelela kwinjongo ethile, kuba ibekwe ngumphakathi? Qonda ukuba ufuna ntoni ngempela.
19. Gxininisa into enye.
Iingcali zengqondo zentlalo azidinanga ukuphindaphinda ukuba amandla okuba ngumthombo ongezantsi. Yeka ukuyiphula ngakwesokudla nangobunxele. Ixesha lokugxila kwinto enye.
20. Sizifanisa nabanye.
Khumbula ukuba ngubani ofuna ukuzithelekisa yena, unako nakwexesha elidlulileyo. Sonke sahluke, sonke sinamava okuphila kwethu kwaye ngamnye wethu, ukuze sifune ukuphumeza, sifanele sinqobe izithintelo ezahlukeneyo.
21. Siyazibona thina zimbi kuphela.
Yeka ukuzijonga njengomntu ongenako ukufezekisa oko akufunayo. Khumbula ukuba iingcamango zakho zithonya zakho iinkolelo, eziza kwenza izinto ezifanelekileyo. Sondela kwisibuko. Ngoku umntu ophumelelayo ukhangela wena, ulwandle luya kugxotha. Zinqumle wena ekhaleni.
22. Senza isimiso somhla.
Ukungahambisani naye akufanele ukulawula usuku lwakho. Liza kudlala ihlaya elibi kakhulu ekufezekiseni injongo. Okwangoku, thabatha ipeni kunye nekhasi lephepha. Yenza isicwangciso senzathelo esilinganiselweyo ngomso.
23. Asikwazi ukuthi cha.
Andifuni ukuthetha kakhulu apha. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela into eyodwa kuphela. Ngoko, abantu abadla ngokuthi "akukho, bayaxolisa, kodwa kungekhona namhlanje", baphumelele kunabanye.
24. Asifuni ukuthatha uxanduva.
Utshintsho luqala kwaye luphela kunye nathi, izenzo zethu, iingcamango. Musa ukulinda elwandle ngenxa yemozulu. Nguwe kuphela ongatshintsha ubomi bakho. Yeka indlela ebuhlungu ngayo, kodwa ihlabathi lonke alikhathaleli indlela onokuvuyisa ngayo. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Musa ukujonga iinjongo kwabanye. Thatha uxanduva lwakho lobomi.
25. Sijolise kakhulu kwisiphumo.
Xa ugxininisa kwizinto ofuna ukuzifezekisa, kulukhuni luya kuba luhambo lwakho ukuya kwiinjongo. Jabulela yonke impumelelo encinci, zonke, nakuba zingabalulekanga, ukunqoba. Awuyi kubona ukuba uya kufezekisa ngokukhawuleza into oyifunayo.