Amantombazana amaninzi akhalazela ukuba abanalo ixesha elaneleyo ngokwabo, emsebenzini, nakwiintsapho zabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba sinokuqwalasela iingcebiso ezininzi ezinokuba njani ukuba ngumfazi omhle kunye nenkosikazi , zonke iingxaki zixazululwa ngaphandle kwengxaki ekhethekileyo. Into ephambili ukulibala ngobuvila kwaye uvule isimo sengqondo esihle.
Indlela yokuba ngumfazi omhle kunye neengcebiso zekosikazi
Kakade, kufuneka uqale ufunde ukupheka kakuhle. Ngenxa yokuba, kungakhathaliseki ubudala kunye nefashoni, akukho mntu kwihlabathi ongathandi ukutya okuzenzekelayo. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ukusombulula ingxaki yendlela yokuba ngumfazi ongcono, ngaphandle kokuqonda izinto ezisisiseko zokupheka aziyi kusebenza. Kodwa kungcono ukwenza ngaphandle kokuvavanya, ukhetho lokuphumelela kukupheka izitya zomntu wakho ozithandayo.
Amanye amathiphu ancedo malunga nendlela yokuba ngumfazi omhle:
- Musa ukuwashiya iisetyenzi zendlu - inokusindisa ixesha elininzi, uququzelele kakhulu umsebenzi wakho.
- Ungabi sisipelisi. Ewe, unelungelo lokuchitha imali ethile kuwe, kodwa kungekhona kwingozi yemali echazwe ukutya okanye iintlawulo zesevisi.
- Yeka ukukholelwa kumandla okucocwa ngokuqhelekileyo kanye ngonyaka - kukulungele ukuhlambulula kwaye ngokukhawuleza yonke inkunkuma ayinako. Kungcono ukucoceka imihla ngemizuzu embalwa, ukuchitha ubuncinane imizuzu eyi-10.
- Yenza abahlobo kunye noluhlu: ukuba uhambo oluya kwivenkile lwenze enye, ukucwangcisa imibandela yezoshishino ngeveki - enye, kwimenyu yentsapho-yesithathu, ukwabiwa kohlahlo-lwabiwo-lwesine.
- Ungakulibali malunga nenduduzo-endlwini kufuneka ibe neentyantyambo, iitrhebhe etafileni, iitriti ezithandekayo ekhitshini, njl njl.
- Thatha ixesha lomyeni wakho - uthetha naye, buza indlela ohamba ngayo imini, unike iingcebiso, cebisa ukusilalisa . Kodwa ungesabi ukumcela uncedo endlwini kwakhona - kufuneka abe nomuvo wokuthi uyimfuneko kwaye uyimfuneko endlwini.
- Qiniseka ukuba uthathe ixesha kunye nawe, ngenxa yokuba ukhangele kakuhle kwaye unqwenele ngumntu othandekayo, kufuneka ukhangele ukubukeka.