Yintoni eyathuthuzela umntwana osandula?
Amathoyizi amasha, abizwa ngokuba ngabaduduzi, atyathwa ngumama osemva wase-UK Suzanne Cannizzo. Intombazana yayinzima ixesha elide kunye nomkhwa wonyana wakhe osandul 'ukuzalwa ukuba athathe emlonyeni wakhe izinto ezahlukeneyo - iehokethi, iingubo, iingxowa, izindandatho njalonjalo. Ngenxa yoko, ufumene enye into - wayenza umdlalo oyingqayizivele ngezandla zakhe, kamva wafumana udumo oluqhelekileyo nabanye oomama baseYurophu.
Ukusuka kwimbono yangaphandle, induduzo inokufana nebheyi, i-bunny, indlovu kunye nantoni na enye into edibanisayo. Ingcamango yayo ekhethekileyo kukuba umdlalo ugcinwa kwifuba lomama ixesha elithile ngexesha lokutya ukuze likwazi ukuzaliswa ngephunga elimnandi. Kamva, xa i-crumb iya kulala, intuthuzelo ifakwe kwindawo esondeleyo kuyo, ngenxa yoko umntwana evakalelwa kukuba ungowabo kunina.
Iimveliso ezinjalo zenziwe ngekotoni kunye nokongezwa kwezinto ezincinci, izinto zokufakelwa okanye i-cotton. Nangona ezi zilandelayo zibiza kakhulu, zidibana nazo zonke iimfuno zokhuseleko kunye nobungqina bendalo, ngoko ke, kukulungele ukuba oomama abancinci bawukhethe.
Namhlanje, induduzo yabantwana ithengiswa kwiivenkile zezinto zezingane kumazwe amaninzi, kuquka uRashiya ne-Ukraine, kwaye iindleko zezi zixhobo zifikelela kuma-30-35. Iintsapho ezininzi zicinga ukuba imali enjalo ayinakulungeleka kwaye ayifuni ukuthenga intuthuzelo, kuba ayayiqondi isizathu sokuba kuyadingeka. Enyanisweni, ngokobuninzi besidumbu sezingane, le nto yokudlala iyinzuzo enkulu kulutsha olusandul 'utsha kwaye kuyisisityebi esihle sokulihlisa.
Ekubeni uninzi lwabathuthuzi luxhotyiswe nge "busiza" ezikhethekileyo zokusana, zihlala zihlala zizaliswe ngokutsha ngokupheleleyo kweengono kunye neebhotile. Ekuqaleni kobomi bentsana, amathoyizi anceda umntwana ukuba azinqabile aze alale ngokukhawuleza, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa baba yindlela yokutshitshisa izigulane ezivuthayo.
Emva kokuba umntwana afinyelele kwiminyaka emnye, induduzo iba ngumsebenzi omtsha-uba ngumkhuseli, uqhube izinto ezahlukeneyo, izinkumbulo ezimbi kunye namaphupha amabi. Kwezinye iimeko, abantwana banamathele kakhulu kule nto yokudlala abayicinga ukuba ngaba ngumhlobo wabo wenene kwaye abayikuyeka ukulala embhedeni wabo kude kube seminyaka esixhenxe okanye yesibhozo ubudala.
Ngaloo ndlela, kuyacaca oko kuyimfuneko yokuthuthuzela, nendlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo. Kwimeko apho abazali abancinci abakwaziyo ukuthenga le fowuni, ootitshala bezilwanyana bancomela ukuba oomama bazenzele bona, kuba oku akunzima kakhulu.
Indlela yokwenzela induduzo kwiintsana?
Ukuze ududuze ngezandla zakho, kufuneka uzigcinele ngendwangu yendalo. Ngokuncedwa kwipatheni, nayiphi iitokethi ezithambileyo ezidalwe kuyo, umzekelo, i-bunny. Xa zonke iindawo zentuthuzelo ezayo zilungele, kufuneka zizaliswe nge-sintepon, emva koko zicwangcise ngokucophelela zonke izinto kwaye zitshintshe iiplanga zangaphandle. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, i-"spouts" ekhethekileyo yokunywa yenziwa phezu kwendawo yokudlala, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ayifuni ukuba umntwana sele ekhulu ngokwaneleyo.