Xa ubona iphupha onokulikhumbula kakuhle, qiniseka ukuba uqwalasela iingcamango zakho, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo . Njengomthetho, babonisa intsingiselo yakho yangaphakathi, ilizwi le-subconscious. Kwaye kwiinketho ezininzi zokutolika, kufuneka ukhethe enye impendulo eziseduze ngqo kuloo mvakalelo owakwazi ukuyikhumbula. Ngoko, makhe sibone oko umntwana ephuphayo.
Umntwana omncinci uphuphayo
Kwincwadi yephupha yowesifazane, umntwana, owabonakala ephupheni, uphathwa njenge-harbinger yesiganeko esingalindelekanga kusasa. Qinisekisa ukuba ingaba isiganeko esihle siya kuba, okanye akunjalo, uya kuncedwa yizikhumbuzo zemvakalelo oye wazibona ephupheni.
Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ukubona umntwana omncinci ephupheni, umntu olele uqonda ukuba ukhona. Kule meko, qaphela: unokumangalelwa ngokunyanzela ukuziphatha kakubi kwabanye abantu.
Ukuba unenhlanhla ukubona umntwana ekuhlambuleni, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufumana indlela ephumelelayo kuyo nayiphi na ingxaki.
Usana - intombazana
Kukholelwa ukuba intombazana encinci iphupha ummangaliso, oko kukuthi, kuyothusa. Ukuba le ntombazana igqoke, le nto impawu ezilungileyo, kodwa ukuba icandelo libi.
Ukuba ibhinqa liyabona ephupheni, njengoko intombazana ibeleka, kubalulekile ukukhumbula iimvakalelo zakho: ukuba intlungu kunye nentlungu, kuya kuba neklasi yokuthintela; ukuba ukuzalwa kudlula ngokulula kwaye ngokuvuya - kuthetha, phambi kwebhodi elikhanyayo ebomini.
Ukuba ubona intombazana ongaziyo ephupheni, mhlawumbi, iyinxalenye yeendaba. Khumbula ukubukeka komntwana: ukuba le ntombazana ihlambuluke kakuhle kwaye iqulethe, iindaba ziya kuba zilungileyo, kwaye ukuba umntwana ubonakala engalunganga, iindaba ziya kuba nzima.
Usana - le nkwenkwe
Ukuba ubona umntwana usana, le nto iphupha kwiinguqulelo ezininzi zibonakalisa iimeko ezilungileyo, iziganeko ezivuya kunye nenhlanhla.
Ukuba ibhinqa ibona ephupheni, njengoko yazala umntwana, ngokukhawuleza ubomi buza kukunika ithuba lokutshintsha yonke into kwaye uqale ubomi obutsha. Into ephambili ayikulibala leli thuba. Ukongezelela, eli phupha libonisa isisombululo kuzo zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo, ukuphucula iimeko kunye neemeko zobomi.
Ukuba ngaphambi komtshato intombazana ibona indlela ebeletha ngayo unyana wayo, ngoko kufanelekile ukunyamekela abahlobo bayo: phakathi kwabo kukhona abantu abanomona abavakalisa izinto ezimbi ngamehlo.
Ukuba inkwenkwe iphupha lentombazana engatshatanga, kufuneka ihlonishwe, kuba idumela layo lisongela.