Ukucwangcisa umtshato ngokuqhelekileyo kuqala ngokukhethwa komhla ofanelekileyo. Kwaye ke iimpawu zabantu kunye namasiko ahambelana nomtshato zikhunjulwa ngokungabikho , kwaye, okokuqala, izithethe zokukhetha inyanga. NgoMeyi, kuphela abo abangathathi ukukholelwa ekukholweni. Kodwa inxalenye enkulu, siqala ukukhumbula iimpawu ezilungileyo nezimbi zomtshato.
Umtshato ngenyanga
Makhe sibone ukuba yiphi inyanga efanelekileyo ukuthetha "uyayivuma".- NgoJanuwari akusonaxesha elifanelekileyo lomtshato, kuba uthembisa ukufa kwangaphambili komnye wabatshatileyo;
- Kodwa ngoFebhuwari , ngokuchaseneyo, uthembisa ubomi obude kunye obonwabile kunye;
- Umtshato ngo- Matshi ungathembisa ubomi kwilizwe langaphandle;
- Ulonwabo lwabo batshata ngo- Apreli lunokufaniswa nemozulu eguqukayo kule nyanga;
- Kwangathi uMeyi uyaziwa ngokuba yindoda enhle yeentyantyambo, kwaye ilinga ithemba lezithombe ezimnandi kunye nemozulu efanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, imiqondiso yabantu isilumkiso: umtshato ngoMeyi ungaguquka kwaye uphile ubomi obunzima;
- Umtshato kaJuni uthembisa u-honeymoon ngexesha lokuphila;
- Julayi - utshintsha. Ulonwabe luya kuhamba kunye neziganeko ezibuhlungu;
- Ngo-Agasti inyanga enhle yomtshato, ayinalo uthando kuphela, kodwa ubuhlobo obunyani phakathi kwabafazi;
- ukhetha umtshato ngoSeptemba , ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo, uqinisekisa ubomi bokuzola kunye nokulinganisa;
- Oktobha , ngokuchaseneyo, ibonisa ubomi obunzima obugcwele iingxaki ezinzima;
- abo bajoyina ngomtshato ngoNovemba , baya kuphila ngokuvuya nangobuninzi;
- umtshato ngoDisemba ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, ubonisa uthando olungayi kuphela kuphela, kodwa luya kuqina.
Ziningi kangakanani iinkolelo eziphikisanayo. Ngokomzekelo, kwakukholelwa ukuba umtshato wasentwasahlobo uthembisa ukuba abasandul 'ukutshata uthando olungunaphakade kunye nobomi obonwabileyo. Kwaye iimpawu ngeenyanga azixeli ukuba imitshato yamatshato iyinto enhle.
Ngendlela, ookhokho bethu bavame ukukhetha ukudala iiseli ezintsha zoluntu ngexesha lokuzola kwezolimo. Ngoko, umzekelo, ihlobo laseNdiya kunye ne-Shrove ngoLwesibili bezityebi kunye nemitshato exhaqisayo. Enye yeyona mpu melelo yomtshato yayiyimthendeleko yoKhuselwa kweNtombi. Ukuba sithetha ngeempawu ngolo suku, ngoko-ke into efanelekileyo kakhulu yi-3.5, 7 ne-9 yenani.
Iimpawu kwimozulu emtshatweni
Naliphi inyanga okanye usuku owukhethayo, awuyi kuba nakho ukuchaza kwangaphambili imozulu. Kwaye, ke, abantu banemiqondiso ekhethekileyo yemozulu emtshatweni:
- imvula nekhephu ukuphumelela ubomi;
- kodwa isiqhwithi okanye isiphepho - ngelanga;
- umoya - utshintsho oluguqukayo kunye nobomi obungumoya;
- iqhwa elibi - owokuqala uya kuba namandla kwaye abe nempilo.
Phakathi kwabaninzi bathatha umtshato kukho ezo zihambelana nesambatho:
- phambi komcimbi obalulekileyo, umtshakazi akafanele azibone ngokupheleleyo.
Xa uzama ngengubo, ungagqoki, umzekelo, iglavu; - Ungavumeli intombi yakho igqoke ingubo yakhe, nangona kunjalo bayayithanda;
- Utshintsho oluthatywayo ekuthengeni kwanoma yintoni into yomkhwa womtshato, musa ukuchitha iinyanga ezintathu;
- Ingubo ngokwayo (kunye neengubo zangaphantsi) kufuneka ibe nemibala ekhanyayo. Gwema ubomvu, obomvu, obuluhlaza okanye obomvu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sele uqaphele ukuba umtshato uyimfumba yonke yeembono ezahlukeneyo ezimbi kunye ezilungileyo. Qaphela, nangona kunjalo, ungaxhoxiswa - awuyi kukunyamekela wonke umntu!