Abantwana bathanda ukudweba. Imidwebo yabantwana ibalulekile kuba iqulethe ingqalelo nje ngobuchule bokubukeka komntwana kunye nobuchule bakhe bobugcisa kulo msebenzi, kodwa nangenxa yesimo sengqondo nesengqondo. Ukutolika imidwebo yabantwana kungekhona ukuba ibe yingcali yengqondo. Ukuba unqwenela, isiseko soluhlalutyo lunokwenziwa ngumzali okanye umntu osondeleyo kumntwana, apho kuyimfuneko ukuqonda into yokuba umntwana uvakalelwa, yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuye kwimbono yakhe yehlabathi, yiziphi iingxaki ezithintekayo kuye.
Faka umbala kumzobo
Isibonakaliso esibaluleke kakhulu sengqondo kunye nomvakalelo womntwana ngumbala. Umgaqo wukuthi ukuba umntwana usebenzisa imibala emi-5 ukuya kwezi-6 kumfanekiso. Ukuba umntwana usebenzisa imibala emininzi, oku kubonisa ukuvakalelwa kwakhe kwaye, mhlawumbi, izibonelelo zobugcisa. Ukuba i-palette yomfanekiso ibuthathaka, ngoko umntwana ufumana impembelelo embi okanye ebomini bakhe akwanele ukubonakala okucacileyo.
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I-predominance ebomvu nelomfusa ibonisa ukuba umntwana ulungile kakhulu ngehlabathi elikujikelezile. Umbala obomvu ngumlinganiselo wokungabikho kokuxhatshazwa kunye nobudlova . Ngokomzobo oluninzi oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - usana olunamava ngaphakathi, oluhlaza - umntwana uzizwa engakhuselekanga kunye nokukhathazeka ngokukhuseleko lwakhe. UBrown ubonisa ukukhathazeka okukhathazayo, kwaye abamnyama ubonakalisa ukudandatheka, ukungathandabuzeki, ukungaqondi kakuhle kunye nokwamkelwa kwabathandekayo.
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Umfanekiso wabantu nezilwanyana
Yileyo ndlela umntwana abonisa ngayo abantu, kwaye ngezinye izilwanyana zithetha ngokucacileyo ngeemvakalelo azivelayo ngabantu abathandekayo, indlela abona ngayo ubudlelwane obukhoyo. Ukucetyiswa ukuba udwebe i-school school okanye umfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo samabanga aphezulu, uya kuqhuba uvavanyo olulula. Ukuba umntwana akayi kubamba nayiphi na ilungu lamalungu omndeni, oku kubonisa ukuba isihlobo asixolisi kuye. Umntu osondeleyo kumbhali womzobo uza kutsalwa ngokulandelayo, kwaye umbala weengubo zakhe uya kufana nombala wengubo yengane. Ubungqina obuhle, xa ubukhulu bomzobo ngamnye buhambelana nokukhula kwabantu bokwenene. Ukuba upapa ulenga phezu komntwana omncinane emfanekisweni, ngoko ngokwenene umntwana uyamoyika umzali wakhe. Xa umntwana ebonakalisa ngaphezu komntu wonke, kwanamalungu omdala osapho, ngoko ke uphawu oluphazamisayo: i-egoist ephindwe kabini! Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana ubonisa intsapho yezilwanyana. Chaza lo mdwebo ngendlela efana nomfanekiso obonisa abantu. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba iimpawu zobuso, iinxalenye zomzimba zithathwa. Ukuphakanyiswa kwezandla, izibhulu ezininzi, amazinyo ahlambulukileyo, iinwele ekugqibeleni - konke oku kubonakaliswa kobugwenxa. Amehlo amancinci abonisa ukwesaba, ukungabikho komlomo - akunakwenzeka ukuthetha. Ukuba umntu akanalo indlebe, lo ilungu lentsapho aliva abanye.
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UkuDatha Iinkcukacha
Iinkcukacha ezininzi zomfanekiso zibonisa kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana ubamba amafu amnyama, iintaka ezimnyama, ngoko ke kunzima ukufumana iinkqubo ezimbi ezenzekayo kwintsapho. Ngaba kukho iindonga okanye izinto ezisemfanekisweni? Ngenxa yoko, kukho ubunzima obukhulu ekuqondeni phakathi kwamalungu entsapho. Iintyatyambo ezimhlophe, iibhobhofri, iintaka ezinemibala - umntwana unethemba, iziganeko ezivuyolayo ebomini bakhe. Kukhona ingxabano malunga nendlela yokuchaza umfanekiso weselanga. Emva koko, kwimidwebo yabantwana abakhuliswa kwintandane, le yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu. Uninzi lweengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukuba ilanga livela kwimidwebo, apho ubukho balo bubulungisa, kwaye ubukhulu beempawu ezikhanyisiweyo ziyinyani, ngoko umntwana uziva ekhululekile. Ubungakanani obukhulu belanga kunye nokubonakala kwayo kwimidwebo, apho akufanele kube khona (umzekelo, kwigumbi), kubonisa ukuba umntwana uvakalelwa kukunqongophala kobushushu bomama.
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Uhlobo lwemizila
Uxinzelelo olutyikityo lubonisa ukungazinzi kwengqondo, uxinzelelo olunzulu, kunye nokunyaniseka ukuba umfanekiso "awufanelanga" kwimida yomfanekiso - umntwana unobundlobongela, ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokungenazintlu zokubonisa ukuba umntwana uyashukunyiswa, athambekele ekuqhubheni komsindo. Imigca echanekileyo kunye neqondo eliphantsi lokunyanzeliswa kubonisa isimo esinobuchule kunye nesigxina somntwana.
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Umntu omnye akanako ukutyhila ngokupheleleyo imeko yomntwana. Emva kokuqwalasela i-isorabot embalwa, eyenziwa ngamaxesha amancinci, sinokugqiba malunga nesimo sengqondo somntwana. Ukuba kukho ezininzi iinkcukacha eziphazamisayo kwimidwebo, zama ukucinga kwakhona ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho, ukuqondisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu entsapho ngendlela efanelekileyo.