Ukunyanyiswa kukusabela kakubi komntwana kwizenzo okanye kwizenzo zabanye awakuthandanga. Impendulo ibonakalisa umsindo nentukuthelo ngendlela yamagama okanye impembelelo emzimbeni, umzekelo, impembelelo. Ukuba ulwaphulo lomntwana luxhaswa yimpembelelo ekukhuliseni, lunokukhula lube yintloni, njengendlela yokuziphatha. Indlela yokujamelana nokunyanzeliswa komntwana kwaye wakhe umgca ochanekileyo wokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye uya kuqhubeka.
Ukubonakaliswa kobundlobongela kubantwana
Ubonakaliso obuninzi bokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana abasenkulangazini ngumnqweno wokubetha omnye umntwana, umbize okanye uthathe umdlalo wakhe. Abantwana abanokuziphatha kakubi bavame ukuvusa abanye abantwana ukuba balwe, kwaye abantu abadala bayasuswa kwimeko yokulingana kwengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abanobudlova 'banomvumba' kwaye kunzima ukufumana indlela kubo.
Abantwana abanobugwenxa banqabile ukuba bavume iimpazamo zabo, benqabile ukuthobela imithetho, banokuthi banqabise. Esinye isibonakaliso sokuba nobukhohlakali kumntwana kukuphazamiseka kwezenzo zabanye abangayithandi umntwana. Ukuba uninzi lweempawu zokubandezeleka kumntwana zikhoyo, kungcono ukudibana nochwepheshe onamava oza kusebenza ekulungiseni.
Ukunyanzeliswa kwabantwana kufihliweyo, ingakumbi kwiimeko apho abazali befuna ukukukhusela, kwaye ukhethe iindlela ezingalunganga zezi.
Izizathu zokugonywa kwabantwana
Izinto eziphambili ezibangela ukuvela kobundlobongela kubantwana ziquka ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- izifo ze-somatic kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
- khuliswe;
- uhlobo lwesohlwayo sokungaziphathi kakuhle.
Inkqubo yemfundo ifaneleke ukuba umntwana akhule ngokuvisisana. Ngaphantsi kokufaneleka kuqondwa, okokuqala, ubunye beemfuno kwi-ababini abazali kunye nomzekelo wabo. Ngomzekelo wabo kuphela abazali bahlakulela izakhono zokuziphatha kumntwana. Izenzo nezenzo zabazali akufanele zichasane neemfuno abazibekayo kubantwana babo. Kwintsapho apho ulwalamano lubonakalisa ngokumalunga namanye amalungu, umntwana uya kuyibona njengesiqhelo.
Umntwana ubonisa ubundlobongela kwaye ngenxa yezijeziso zomzimba ezivela kubazali. Ukuphendula okufanayo kwenzeka nokuba ngabazali, ngokuchaseneyo, abanakucamngca umntwana. Ukuzama ukunqoba "indawo yakhe phantsi kwelanga", ubonisa lo mgaqo wokuziphatha.
Ukulungiswa kobugwenxa kubantwana
Ukuba umntwana usanda kuqalisa ukubonakalisa iimpawu zobundlobongela, abazali bangayilungisa le ndlela yokuziphatha. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuseka umoya ozukileyo kwintsapho ngokwawo. Isijeziso senyama kufuneka sigwenywe. Kwakhona, ungayihoyi ngokupheleleyo imbonakalo yengqumbo, okanye uyinqande ngokukhawuleza. Ukugqithisa okunjalo kuya kuba negalelo ekuphenduleni.
Umntwana kufuneka afundiswe ukujamelana nomsindo wakhe, echaza ngokucacileyo indlela umntu angakwazi ngayo ukuziphatha ngokungafaniyo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Kufuneka ummbambe rhoqo kwaye umbonise uthando lwakho. Iimvakalelo ezichukumisayo, ngokukodwa ebaleni, zibaluleke kakhulu kumntwana.
Indlela yokuphendula ngokufanelekileyo ulwaphulo oluvela kumntwana, abazali kufuneka bagwebe ngokusekelwe kwimeko. Ukuba umsindo ujoliswe kwizinto ezingapheliyo kunye nezinto, ingqalelo kufuneka ishintshelwe kwenye into okanye ukubonisa ngokucacileyo isenzo. Umzekelo, umntwana unako ukukrazula iphepha kumsindo, kodwa ngokudibanisa nale nkqubo, unokudlala nayo, ucinga ukuba ulungiselela i-confetti. Ukuba ubundlobongela bubonakaliswa ngokubhekiselele kubantwana okanye umntu omdala, umntwana unokushiywa yedwa ixesha elifutshane, aze amchazele ukuba kutheni kwenzeka. Ukuba ubonise umonde nothando ngokumalunga nomntwana wakhe, ugonyamelo luyakususwa ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ugonyamelo kubantwana bunzima, iingcali zonyango. Ngokuxhomekeke kwinkimbinkimbi yesifo, uqeqesho okanye unyango olukhethiweyo lukhethwa.