Indoda yinyani ifuna ukuba yinkokheli, umntu othembekileyo. Kodwa njani ukuphumeza oku? Ewe, kuyimfuneko ukuba uqale ukufaka ezi mpawu ukususela ebuntwaneni. Kwaye umsebenzi awuqhutywanga nje ngoncedo lwamagama, ukuziphatha nokucebisa. Okokuqala, ukuhlobisa i-nursery ngokufanelekileyo, apho umntwana uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka, usencinane kakhulu. Kungenxa yokuba uyayibona njani, ukubunjwa kobuntu bendoda ezayo kuza kuqala.
Ifenitshala yabantwana yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwana
Ewe, kuvela kwibhedi apho ukuqhelana nehlabathi kuqala ngolutsha. Kodwa njani ukuba ube yinkokheli, xa ulala okanye uqala ukukhawula? Apha abazali kufuneka babe ngababuqili. Musa ukwenza igumbi lomntwana "likhule". Yenza umcabango wengqondo yomntwana kunye nomkhumbi okanye umbhede-imoto. Vumela udonga olusondele kwisibhedlele lubekwe kwinqanaba elwandle okanye kwipirate. Okanye amafu ajikeleza phezulu, neentaka zihamba ngaphandle.
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Ifenitshala yefomily yefowuni
Yintoni elungileyo ngefomily modular? Ingane yakho ikhula. Ukhula, udinga indawo engaphezulu, okanye kukho isidingo sokongeza iimpawu zomsebenzi wegumbi labantwana - umzekelo, udonga lwaseSweden kunye nedeski. Yaye ifenitshala yefomula, ekwazi ukuguqula, ifaneleke ngokupheleleyo kwizicwangciso zakho zokuguqulwa kwigumbi likamfana.
Ifenisha yeModular ihlelwa ngokutsha, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ingqibelelo yomfanekiso. Oku kutyalo-mali olunenzuzo kakhulu, ukukhusela abazali kwi-headache iminyaka emininzi. Le yintenitshala yabantwana bobabini kunye nabantwana besikolo.
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Ubuntwaba bubunzima, kwaye ufuna unyango olulodwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukulungiswa kwakhona kwigumbi labantwana akunakuphetshwa. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, musa "ukutyalomali ngokugcwele" kwaye uqale ukugqithisa okukhulu. Njengoko ungenayo ixesha lokubhenqa ngeliso, uya kuba nomntu omdala osemdala oya kufuna ukuguqulwa okungafaniyo kwendawo yakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na egumbini lentombazana, thintana naye. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba umqinisekise ukuba zonke iziphakamiso zakhe aziyizi nto ezintle kwaye ziyikrakra. Oku ekugqibeleni uya kuqonda. Kodwa hayi, akunjalo ukuba uhlale kweli gumbi.
Uncedo lwakho oluphambili ekuhlobiseni igumbi lungaba luncedo ekukhetheni isetyenzi sefenitshala esisebenzayo. Kule minyaka elukhuni, zonke iikhabhinethi, iikhabhinethi kunye namashalofu afunekayo kuphela ukukwazi ukulala kulo okanye apho kwakukho ukukhupha into. Umzekelo, iqela lamaCD, iincwadi kunye nezinye izinto ezingaqondakali ngokupheleleyo kubazali bakhe.
Kufuneka kubekho indawo ekhululekile yokufumana iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo. Kodwa ukuba igumbi lincinci, kungcono ukushiya inqanawa encinci, kodwa ubeke ibhedi ekhululekile ukuze i-hormone ikwazi ukufumana ubuthongo obuhle nangona iphupha eliphupha njengeyule.
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Ifenitshala ephakanyisiweyo yabantwana yenkwenkwana
Ifenitshala ephothiweyo yimibala eqaqambileyo isisombululo esikhulu. Okokuqala, imibala egcweleyo iya kukukholisa umntwana oneminyaka engama-11 ubudala, uya kuhamba, afunde imibala engundoqo. Kwaye kudlala kwiindawo zokulala kunye neenqwelo zezixhobo ezithandekayo kunokuba abantwana bangathathi hlangothi.
Okwesibini, ifenitshala epholileyo iya kuhlala ixesha elide. Emva kwakho konke, nokuba umntwana osemtsha akayi kukhangela ifenitshala eyahlukileyo eya kubonisa ubuntu obunjani bentombazana ehlabathini, kwaye okokuqala, kubahlobo bakhe. Kwaye ukuba unayo ibhajethi enkulu, fumana isowula yokumodareyitha. Inkwenkwe ngoncedo lwakho inokudala idibaniso ehlukeneyo yezinto ezithambileyo.
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