Izingane ziyaziwa ukuba zikhule ngokukhawuleza. Kwizinto ezingengabantu abangaziwa kuphela, kodwa nakwabo. Kwaye kamva kamva kufika umzuzu onjalo xa umntwana wakho ecela ukuba atshintshe igumbi lakhe kwiindawo zokugcina izilwanyana zibe ngumntu omdala. Ngamnye wethu unengcamango ethile yegumbi labantwana (apho kukho iiclowns ezininzi kunye neebhere ze-teddy), igumbi elidala (ngokuqhelekileyo elincinci), kodwa ngokubhekiselele kwigumbi lesibini, akukho nto ifika engqondweni ngaphandle kweenkwenkwezi zesicwangciso kwiindonga kunye nomculo ongapheliyo. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba umzali uya kubeka nje imeko enjalo. Emva koko, udinga ubuncinane uzame ukuhoxisa umonakalo ekamelweni lentsha ibe "ngamehlo ahloniphekileyo".
Yintoni esiya kuyenza nawe.
Ukwenza igumbi eliselula
Yiyiphi imbala eya kuba yintloko kwikamelo le-adolescence, kungcono ukufumanisa kuye kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kufuneka ukuba umamele uluvo lwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, eqaqambileyo kwaye kubangela ukuba imibala ibe nefuthe elibi kwinkqubo yeentlanzi. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna, umzekelo, ukuba iindonga egumbini zibomvu, kungcono ukukholisa intombazana ukuba ibe nemibala engaphelelanga. Futhi obomvu benza izinto ezithile zokubhabisa.
Indlela yokulungiselela igumbi lomntwana osemtsha?
Enyanisweni, indawo yenkampu yenkwenkwezi yeyona nto igxininiswe ngobukhulu beli gumbi ngokwalo, kunye nobuchule bezimali babazali. Kodwa nakwiklasi elincinci kumntwana osemva, le mimandla ilandelayo kufuneka inikwe:
- indawo yokuphumla nokulala;
- indawo yokuqeqesha;
- indawo yokuzonwabisa kunye nokufumana iindwendwe.
Kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo ukuba le mimandla ichongiwe ngokomqondo welizwi, kodwa ukuba akukho nzekayo, ke umntu kufuneka azame okungenani ukuba azilungiselele kumacandelo ahlukeneyo kwigumbi.
Ngoku masithi amagama ambalwa malunga nendlela yokubonelela ngayo igumbi lomntu osemtsha kunye nefenitshala:
- Okokuqala, makhe sixoxe ngombhede. Ayikho igumbi ngalinye lentombazana elingafaka umbhede, alikwazi ukulingana apho. Kwaye kutheni ufuna umntwana? Kunene, akukho mfuneko! Ngako oko, kungcono ukhethe i-sofa, oku kuza kugcina isikhala esongezelelweyo esingasetyenziselwa imidlalo. Kwaye xa kuyimfuneko, i-sofa inokuhlala ikhuliswa.
- Emva koko, xubusha kwikhabhinethi. Ikamelo lokugcina i-closet livala. Akayithathi indawo enkulu, kwaye ngokwemigangatho yokuhlala, akayikho ngaphantsi kwekhabhinethi eqhelekileyo. Kodwa asiyi kukucebisa ekamelweni eliselula ukuba wenze umnyango wesibuko kwiseyile. Ewe, ubukeka bumnandi kwaye bubiza kakhulu, kodwa xa udlala nabangani bakho umntwana angakwazi ukusiphulaphula kwaye aphumele. Kwaye, kufuneka uvumele, akukho mfuneko kumntu.
- Ngoku masithethe ngetafile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, luhlobo luni lomntwana ongenayo i-PC okanye i-laptop. Ngoko ke, ukhetha itafile, qwa lasela ukuba ngaphezu kokufundiswa, umntwana wakho uzakudlala okanye adlale kwikhompyutha. Ngaphezulu kwidesika sincoma ukuba sibhengezele iincwadi zokubhala. Kwaye nangona umntwana wakho engafuni ukufunda, ngoko uya kuba neencwadi zesikolo. Kwaye kufuneka bagcinwe kwindawo ethile. Amashalo angasetyenziselwa ngumntwana oselula ukuba agcine impahla yakhe (amathoyizi, iincwadi zoonwabo, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo)
- Idizayini yefowuni kwigumbi lomntwana. Ukukhanya ekamelweni elisakhulayo kufuneka libe yinto eninzi, ngoko ke izinto ezingenanto ezivela kwiwindow ziyakususwa. Ukugqithisa
Siza kufaka kwakhona into enjalo njengelitye. Kufanelekileyo ngakumbi kwigumbi lokulala, okanye iholo, kodwa kungekhona ekamelweni lentsha.
Iingcamango kwigumbi le-teen
Ngoku ifenitsha yokuguqula iyathandwa kakhulu, kwaye iya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo ekamelweni lentombazana. Umzekelo, indawo yokulala ingafakwa kwindawo engaphezulu kwendawo yokusebenza. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuthanda le ngcamango. Okanye unako ukufihla idesksi kwikhamera. Oku kuya kukhulula isikhala kwigumbi, kwaye kuya kucwangcisa indawo yokusebenza kunye nendawo yokuphumla. Kodwa phawula ukuba kule meko kuyakufuneka ukuba unikeze ukukhanya okwaneleyo ngaphezu kwedeski.