Umkhosi waseMerika iminyaka ukufihla ebantwini ukuba ngoncedo lweenwele ezinde zingabikho ngokungafunekiyo.
Iimveli kunye neenkcubeko zabantu basekuqaleni ziba neentsingiselo ezinzulu kangangokuthi akukho mzini ongaphumelela ekufumaneni nasekumqondeni ekuqaleni. U-American Sally, umzekelo, wadibana nama-1990s kunye nokufumanisa okungaqhelekanga, emva kweminyaka emininzi wayekwazi ukuvavanya nokuxelela abanye abantu ukuba amaNdiya ahlala efihlile kubantu abangabazi.
Owesifazane waseMerika olula wayesazi njani imfihlelo enkulu yaseNdiya?
Ekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlulileyo, uSally watshata nesazi sezengqondo esinelayisenisi esisebenzayo kwisibhedlele sezempi sase-VA VA, esaphatha amagosa aphezulu asemkhosini ekuchaphazelekileyo ngexesha lokulwa eVietnam. Emva kokuba ebone ukutshintsha kwekhadikhadi kwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha:
"Ndiyakhumbula ngokuhlwa ngaloo ndoda xa umyeni wam ebuyela ekhaya evela emsebenzini ephethe ifolda enkulu kunye eneenkcukacha ezandleni zakhe. Kwakuqulethe amakhulu kumaphepha ophando olwenziwe ngu rhu lumente. Watshitshiswa yinto ayifunayo. Ekugqibeleni oku kuguqula ubomi bethu! Umyeni wam, owayengumlondolozo wobomi bakhe bonke, wakhula iinwele zakhe kunye neendevu. Aze aphinde abuye kwi-hairdresser! Ngaphezu koko, abasebenzi be-Medical Centre base-VA, apho basebenza khona, balandela. Kwaye abo baninzi kakhulu abantu. Xa mna ndafunda la maxwebhu, ndaqonda ukuba kutheni. "
Ziziphi iimfihlakalo amaNdiya azifihla kubantu abangaziwayo?
U-Sally, umfazi wendlu olula, kuthathe ixesha elithile ukuqonda ubunzulu bokuhlakanipha kwe-Indiya. Njengabantu abaninzi, wayevile ngaphambi kokuba amazwe amaninzi kumaxesha amandulo anakekele ngokunyamekela izinwele, kwaye ngakumbi - ukugcina ubude bawo. Ama-Gaul kunye namaCelt ayekholelwa ukuba iinwele - isimboli sokuzimela kunye nenkululeko, kunye namaTshayina bakholelwa ukuba iinwele zabo zilingana ne-castration. AmaSamamu aseJapane kwaye kwafuneka enze i-hara-kiri, ukuba umntu wayenqunqothula iincwele zakhe.
Kodwa abameli bezinye iintlanga babegqitywa ngamaNdiya. Imfihlo yolondolozo eyashiywe emva kokuba imfazwe yaseVietnam iqale ngeenkcukacha ezithe nkcukacha zeenkolelo zala bantu, ababenomdla wokulinda zabo ... iingubo zezinwele. Amaxwebhu athi ama-Indiya awabheka njengento eqhubekayo kwinkqubo yesantya, ngoko bavuma ukuwasika kuphela ngosuku lokuzalwa lomntwana.
Ngexesha leMfazwe yaseVietnam, abantu baseMerika bafumana ukunqongophala kwamagqabi abanamakhono kunye neengxaki, kwaze kwaba yilapho enye yamagosa asemajoni aphezulu yagqiba ukuyijonga phakathi kwamaNdiya. Abo babe nekhono elibalaseleyo lokulandelelanisa intshaba kunye nokungabikho komntu ongenakuguquka kwintlango. Ukongezelela, amaNdiya awanqanda izifo ezithathelwanayo kunye nokukhathala ngokukhawuleza - nje isikhali esihle.
Abantu baseMerika babekhokelela ngokukwenkqisa, benza ikhomishini yeengcali ezikhethile ezilungileyo kakhulu kumajoni. Abadala besizwe babengenalo ithuba lokunqaba ukunikezelwa kwabahlali bamazwe abo - kwaye bavumela ukuthabatha amadoda angama talente anesakhono esizweni sabo.
Inkambo yoqeqesho bonke bahamba ngokugqithiseleyo, ngoko amaMerika awathatyisela ukulungiselela inkonzo. Ngaphambi kokungena kuwo, wonke amaNdiya ayehlanjululwa ... kwaye emva koko le nqubo bonke abaqashiweyo baye balahlekelwa ngamandla abo amangalisayo. Urhulumente waseUnited States akakwazanga ukukholelwa ukungaphumeleli kokusebenza, kuba phambi kwamehlo abo, amajoni ezayo avelisa iitalente ezikhethekileyo, kwaye ngoku awakwazi ukufihla kwiintshaba. Ubukhokeli belizwe abuzange balondoloze amawaka eedola ukufumana imbangela yale nzeka - kwaye yafunyanwa!
Ubungqina bokuba iinwele ezimfutshane zibangelwa sisulu kunye nokuhluleka
Oogqirha baqaphela ngokukhawuleza isizathu esiyintloko sokuba kuphele ukutyekela kwetalente ye-scout kuwo wonke amaNdiya afunde. Idatha eboniswe ngabo ibonise ukuba kufuneka ithathwe njengempahla yeenwele zomkhosi: abaqeshwe bavale iintloko zabo ngaphambi kokuba bangene kwinkonzo. Ukukwazi kwabo ukulahlekelwa amaNdiya, kunye neenyawo ezide, ezikhazimulayo, emva kwesizwe esizijongayo babini nababhinqa. Bona ngokwabo abazange baphike ukuba baphelelwa yimvakalelo ye-intuition emva kokutyelela umnwele.
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziqinisekisile ukuqikelela kwezenzululwazi: ukufikelela kwiinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo ezivela kumaNdiya zavaliwe ngokunyuka kweenwele. Abo baqeqeshwe ngomqondiso "ogqwesileyo", kwixesha elizayo babengeke "bawanelise". Iingcamango zavavanywa kamva kumaYurophu naseMerika. Amava aqhelekileyo abonise ukuba umntu olele ngeenwele ezinde uhlala evuka ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba umfokazi asondele, ongenakuthiwa ngabo balala ngephulaphu ezinwele kwaye abazange bavelele. AmaMelika, eqinisekiswe ngokuchanekileyo kwezenzululwazi, bakhetha ukuba akukho mntu wayazi malunga nokufumanisa okuvelayo.
Izinwele ziyakuthi ziqwalaselwe ngokuqhubekayo kwinkqubo yesantya yomntu. Umoya wabanika kuye, ukuze abe "ne-antenna" zakhe zokufumana ulwazi oluninzi kwimo engqongileyo kwaye aguqulele kwingqondo. Ngoko ke, ukugqiba kweenwele ezimfutshane, umntu ngokupheleleyo ulahlekelwa uxhulumano oluqinileyo kunye nehlabathi langaphandle.