Ukuzonwabisa okunjengezo zesini, abaninzi banqwenela ukusolula, bachulumancisa umlingane. Kodwa ngexesha elizeleyo wonke umntu uhlaziya ukuya kwesini, kwaye oku akusiyiyo yonwabe ngakumbi kunomdla oqhelekileyo kumbhede okhululekile. Kwaye abanye bakhetha "ukwenza yonke into ngokukhawuleza," ukunika i-caresses ethandekayo yothando kwindawo yesibini kwimenyu yokuthanda. Ngoko ke ziphi iingenelo zokuzithengela ubomi obusondeleyo?
Iinkonzo zokugonana ngokukhawuleza
Ubomi bentsapho buya kutshatyalaliswa ngesondo ukuya kolunye uhlobo lokuzibophezela, umsebenzi ongenakugwema ujikeleze indlu. Kule meko, ngokukhawuleza, ukulala ngesondo apho uthanda khona, kuya kusinceda ukukhulula ubudlelwane phakathi kobudlelwane, okwenza ubomi obusondeleyo buphinde bukhangele. Olu khetho luvunywe ngumntu wonke, kwaye ukufudumala iqabane lakho, izitolo zesondo zizele ngeengubo zangaphantsi ezinobucayi kunye neengubo ezidakayo zokudlala imidlalo . Kodwa ubulili besinye isinye esinye isisetyenziso - ngokungaqhelekanga, ngokoqobo ngobusuku obunye. Enyanisweni, abaninzi banokugweba le mpawu, bambiza intombazana ixothwe, kodwa akukho mntu unokukuthintela oku kuwe. Ukongezelela, ubulili besinye ubusuku bunamathuba amaninzi.
- Unethuba lokuba nguwe . Ngomntu esinezicwangciso zokudlala ixesha elide, simele senze indima, kuye sonke sifuna ukuba yiyona nto ifunayo. Kwaye akukho nto imfuneko yokwakha nantoni na, uyasindisa isidingo sokuchitha kwizinwele zakho, iingubo zangaphantsi ezinxibe kunye nengubo entsha. Awudingi ukukhathazeka ngenxa yobukhulu becala besifuba, i-cellulite kunye nokubonakala kwesisu. Kwakhona ulapha unokukhetha iindawo ezininzi, ubeke isigqi sakho kwisigqi, ngokuqhelekileyo, uhlawule ngokugqithiseleyo ukuzonwabisa kwakho.
- Okukhethwa nguwe! Abafazi bavame ukugqoka njengoMnyaka omtsha, balindele ukuthanda abantu. Kwaye ngoku awukwazi ukulinda nantoni na ukhethe kakhulu, ngaphandle koko, ukuba umntu uhleli echasene nomzimba womzekelo, kutheni ungachithi ngokuhlwa?
- Awudingi ukunyamekela ukuzonwabisa kumlingane . Ngabantu abathandekayo, sikulungele ukujika singabonakali kwaye senze izivumelwano ezahlukeneyo, kodwa apha akuyimfuneko. Konke okufunekayo kuwe kukuphumula nokuzonwabisa. Yaye ukuba ngaba kungenjalo, awukwazi ukuthuthuzela nabani na, kodwa yithetha oku ngqo.
- Ukufezekiswa kweengcamango . Ukuba uye wahlala ulangazelela ukulala ngesondo kunye nomntu ohamba naye ngesinye isithuthi, kwakungekho umoya okwaneleyo wokuthandana naye echibini, indiza, kwikhabhi yokutshintsha iimpahla kwiindawo eziselunxwemeni okanye kwindlu yangasese yebhula, ngoko ukulala ngokwesondo kuyindlela enkulu yokuziqonda zonke ezo maphupha. Ngamnye wethu unoluhlu lwakhe lweengcamango ezithandanayo, kungekhona zonke ezo zinokunikezelwa kumlingani osisigxina. Ngaphambi kokuzimela ngokukhawuleza ngobungqina babo, awuyi kucela uxolo ngokuqinisekileyo.
- Ukufunda i-Kama Sutra . Ukulala ngokwesondo kunye nomlingane ongathandana naye kunokukunceda kwaye uzibonise, kwaye ufunde kuye. Ukuba unethamsanqa, kukho ithuba 'lokucima' umgcini wezinto ezihle kakhulu ezonwabisa kwiindawo zakudala zaseNdiya.
- Phonsa i yangaphambili yam entloko . Umlingane omtsha
- indlela efanelekileyo yokulibala ulwalamano olungaphumelekanga olungakhange lulethe uvuyo ebhedeni, kwaye yangaphambili ekuphenduleni i-caresses yakho ayizame ukwenza nantoni na.
Ukulala ngesondo ngokungaqhelekanga kunomlinganiselo owodwa obalulekileyo: akunakusetyenziswa ngokupheleleyo kwiikhondom. Ngenxa yoko, emva kokuqhagamshelana nokungakhuselekanga, kuyafaneleka ukuthatha amanyathelo okukhusela - unyango lwezilwanyana eziphathekayo kunye nezidakamizwa ezonakalisa intsholongwane, umzekelo, i-chlorhexidine okanye i-miramistin.
Ekubeni ininzi "izilonda" ezithathelwa ngesondo zinexesha lokutshatyalaliswa kweeveki ezintathu, emva koko le nto ifanelekile ukutyelela i-gynecologist kwaye idlulise iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko - ukunqanda kulo mzekelo akuyonto.