Ngaba unalo iphupha elingenakuphikiswa malunga neentloni zokukhumbula? UDkt. Sigmund Freud uya kuphulaphula ngenyameko ibali lakho kwaye akuxelele ngobuntu bakho izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungabikho kwelo thuba, umntu unokufunda uluvo lwamaphi amaphupha amabi aphupha kwii-psychologists zanamhlanje kunye ne-psychoanalysts.
Kuthetha ukuthini amaphupha ashulayo?
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ube nephupha elidangayo, oku akuthethi ukuba awukho kwindawo elungileyo, abanelisekanga, okanye baneengxaki. Emva kwakho konke, iphupha libonisa nje imifanekiso kunye neengcamango ezikuvakathele usuku. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubona loo maphupha rhoqo, kunokuthetha ukuba unako ukunganeliseki ngolu hlobo kubomi boqobo. Ukuba amaphupha alesi siqulatho awubonanga kakhulu, akusikho isizathu sokukhathazeka.
Ngamaphupha, abantu bahlala bebona izinto ababengayi kusombulula ngobomi bokwenene: isondo kunye namaqabane amaninzi, ezinye iziphambeko, okanye wena ngokwesiqalo esingavamile.
Amaphupha ama-Erotic amaxesha amantombazana awanakukhokelela kwi-realgasm. Ngokuqhelekileyo oomama bavuyiswa kakhulu kwinto abayibonayo kwaye kusasa kusasa baqhekeza ukukrazula iqabane labo ngokuthanda. Kodwa amaphupha amakhwenkwe amadoda ahlala ephela ngokunyuka okwenene - kodwa oku kuqhelekileyo kumzimba wesilisa, kwaye akukho nto yokwesaba kule meko.
Ukuba amaphupha angamaqhinga akwenza ube novalo - ubona kubo ubundlobongela, ukuxhatshazwa, ukuguquka - kufuneka ujike kwi-psychoanalyst ukuba iiseshoni ezimbini zikwazi ukubona ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuphupha amaphupha angama-erotic kunye nomxholo onjalo. Ungesabi ukuya kwingcali-mhlawumbi oku kukubonakalisa uhlobo oluthile lomonakalo obuntwaneni olwenza luve.
Uyabona njani iphupha lokukhupha?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, into eyona nto ithetha amaphupha aphikisayo, kukuba ngaloo mini ubambe iliso lomfanekiso ukuba ingqondo yakho engqondweni ingabonwa ngesondo, okanye ucinga ngesondo.
Ngaloo ndlela, kunokwenzeka ukukhangela iphupha elidinga iqondo eliphezulu ngeqondo eliphezulu, ukuba ukhangele ifilimu yothando ngothando, khumbula imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo eyenziwe ngumbutho wakho. Umzekelo, unokwazi ukukhangela ikhathalogu yokugcina i-intanethi kubantu abadala okanye iilerie zangasese.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umzimba wakho uyawunqanda, akukho miqathango eya kunceda. Musa nje ukuxhomekeka kuyo - kwimeko apho uza kuba nethuba elingcono lokuphumelela. Kuyabonakala ukuba kumaxesha amantombazana abanobukroti aqhelekileyo kunamadoda - kwizesondo ezinamandla kunye nobudala, bancinci.