Kukho amaxesha apho umntu obathandayo eziphatha ngokumangalisa, akanakho isimo, akukho nto imthanda. Ukuze ungangonakalisi ngokuhlwa kwaye ube nexesha elifanelekileyo, kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokuphakamisa isimo sengqondo somfana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungagqithisi ukunyaniseka nokuguqula ngokubanzi imeko.
Unokuvuyisa njani umntu?
- Ukuphuhlisa umkhuba wokuhlangana nomthandi wakho ngokumomotheka. Ufanele uqiniseke ukuba uhlala umlindele kwaye ujabule ukumbona. Ndiyabulela kule nto, uya kuba nomoya omhle.
- Omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo - umntu olambileyo-indoda engendawo. Qaphela ukuba usoloko unento ekhethiweyo ilungileyo.
- Hlela ubusuku bokubukela ama-comedies ozithandayo. Myalelo i-pizza okanye wenze i-popcorn, uhlale kwaye ujabule ngokuhlwa kunye nomnye.
- Indlela efanelekileyo yokumnceda umthandi wakho kukumqinisekisa ukuba nguye owona mhle, oyingqayizivele kwaye oyingqayizivele. Ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela yale meko yintsilelo, ingancinci ukuzithemba kwaye, ngokwemvelo, ukunciphisa imizwa. Ngoko ke, mkhombise loo nto ukuba uya kuzuza yonke into, ngaphandle kokungabaza kwiinconywa zobuntu bakhe, ubulumko, ubulumko, amandla, njl njl.
- Akukho nto iphakamisa isimo sengqondo somntu onjengokuhlwa esichitha ukwenza into oyithandayo. Umzekelo, unokubukela umdlalo webhola, udlala kwikompyutha okanye ngokuhlwa kunye nabahlobo. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ujabule wakho umthandayo, into ephambili kukuba ngekamva akazange ayisebenzise.
- Sitshintsha imeko kwaye uye kwindawo ethile kunye, umzekelo, i-movie, indawo yokutyela okanye nje ukuhamba. Iindawo ezininzi zikunceda ukuphazamisa nokuphucula isimo sengqondo.
Indlela yokuvuyisa umntu ngamagama, ukuba ude na kuwe?
Ukujongana nale ngxaki, kuqala kufuneka ufumane isizathu. Akukho mfuneko yokuyibuza ebunzini, njengoko oku kuya kunzima kakhulu imeko. Ukuba ufuna, uya kukuxelela into embi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubonisa ingqalelo nokunyamekela.
Ukongeza, kwi-Intanethi ungayifumana inani elikhulu lemifanekiso kunye nemifanekiso ekhangayo, eya kwenza ukuba umntanakho uyamncoma.
Enye indlela onokuyenza ukuze ujabule - utshintshe isihloko sencoko, kodwa kufanele kube mnandi kumthandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuba kumnika iimvakalelo ezintle kwaye kunceda ukumphazamisa.
Enye indlela kwi-Intanethi yimilayezo ye-SMS. Ungabhala kuye into emnandi okanye ehlekisayo okanye ukuvuma kwakhona kwiimvakalelo, ngokunyaniseka, ububele kunye nokufudumala.
Ezinye iindlela zokuvuyisa umntu
- Phantse bonke abantu bathanda udumo. Mxelele ukuba uyona mhle, khumbula ukufaneleka kwakhe, iimpawu zendoda yangempela, njl njl.
- Mhlawumbi wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba i-sweet cheers up. Yiya kwisitoreji kwaye uthenge iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ongayifumana
othandekayo. - Mndulula. Kwindoda eninzi, isondo ngumntu othile. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kukhupha zonke iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo aze alahlekise imvakalelo embi.
- Cinga ngeeholide ezayo uze uqale ukucwangcisa iholide lakho kunye. Ngokuqinisekileyo makabe nxaxheba kule nto. Iingcamango malunga nekamva elihle kunye neeholide elimnandi liya kukunceda ukulibale kwaye uyilibale ngokungahambiyo.
- Mema abahlobo bakho kwaye ube neqela. Ukuze ujabule akudingeki ukuba ube nesisulu. Cinga ngento enomdla, umzekelo, unokudlala imidlalo yebhodi.
- Ncedise ukuphumla, umzekelo, ukwenza ukusilalisa. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuphelisa uxinzelelo kwaye akhohlwe ngento engalunganga.