Nayiphi na imifanekiso ebonwe kwiphupha isoloko inentsingiselo, kwaye ayibonakali nje. Xa utolika amaphupha, kukufanelekile ukuqwalasela isalathiso sonke, ukuqwalasela zonke iinkcukacha kunye neemvakalelo eziye zenzeka.
Kutheni uphupha umhlambi weenkomo?
Ukuba izilwanyana ephupheni ziziphatha ngokuzinzileyo, ngoko ngobomi bokwenene konke kuya kulungeleka, kwaye kuzo zonke iimbambano uza kuphumelela. Inkomo ephazamisayo ibonisa ukulibaziseka kokwenza isigqibo esibalulekileyo ngokwenene, esinokuchaphazela kakubi ubomi bakho. Ukubona umhlambi weenkomo kwiphupha elihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza luphawu lokuba kwixesha elizayo umntu uza kubonakala ebomini oya kubhenca ubomi ngemibala eqaqambileyo kunye nemibala. Uthando lwentando luya kuphelisa ngobudlelwane obungapheliyo.
Ukuba ubona ukuba inani elikhulu leenkomo lihamba njani lathiso lwakho - lo luphawu olubi oluqikelela iingxaki ezibalulekileyo emsebenzini, kwaye kukho iingxaki apho ungalindelanga khona. Ngomfazi, iphupha apho wabona khona umhlambi weenkomo, uya kuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe ziqala ukunqoba phezu kwengqondo. Iingcaciso zephupha zicebisa ukuyeka isikhashana, kuba ukuhlaselwa okunjalo kunokusongela iqabane. Ukuba iinkomo ezazisasazeka kwiindlela ezihlukileyo kwiphupha, kuthetha ukuba ebomini bokuba kubalulekile ukulungiselela ukuthengiswa kwiindawo zabantu abasondeleyo. Enye iphupha ilumkisa ukuba unokuba neengxaki ezinzulu kwintsapho, enokubangela ukuhlukana .
Iphupha apho uhlambila khona iinkomo, uya kukuxelela ukuba ngokwenene uya kukwazi ukukholisa abahlobo bakho abasondeleyo kunye nezihlobo. Ukuba ubetha izilwanyana kukubonakalisa oko kusasa elizayo uza kufumana iziphakamiso ezininzi eziza kutshintsha ubomi kwaye zivumele ukuba uqale yonke into esuka kwiphepha elicocekileyo. Iphupha apho umhlambi weenkomo neenkomo zihamba nge-swamp isilumkiso sokuba impilo yakho iya kuhlahloka kakhulu kwaye yonke into inokuphela kwisibhedlele esibhedlele.