Inqanaba elisondeleyo livumela iimvavanyo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezivumela amaqabane ukuba ahlekise. Ngamanye amaxesha umnqweno wokuzama into entsha kwizo zesini kukhokelela ekubeni kukho abantu abangaphezu kwezibini ebhedini. Le meko ibizwa ngokuba yi-swing.
Yintoni ejika?
Ukuba ukhangela isigama sesigqeba esisigqeba, u-swing ngokuqhelekileyo ubizwa ngokuba yixesha elilodwa okanye ukungatshintshi ngokungaqhelekanga kwamaqabane phakathi kweembhangqwana ukwenzela ukungena ebuhlotsheni obusondeleyo . Olu hlobo luquka imeko apho kukho isibini kunye nentombazana okanye intombazana ebhedini elinye. Abantu abaninzi badibanisa ingcamango yokuguga ngokwesini kunye nokuqulunqwa kweqela, kuba le ngcamango ifana, kwaye kwimeko yokuqala into eyenzeka ngesivumelwano sabathathi-nxaxheba, kwaye wonke umntu uchaza ukuba yeyiphi into eyenza isenzo sezo zesondo singasetyenziselwa kuye kunye naziphi ezingekho.
Ukuxoxa ngesihloko - ngubani oguqayo, kufuneka kubonakaliswe ukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi zobudlelwane. Ukuguquka okuhlambulukileyo kubonisa ukuba amanye amaqabane abandakanyeka kuphela kwi-prelude, ngezinye izihlandlo kubandakanya isondo somlomo, kodwa ukungena kwesisu akufakwanga. Izinto ezinjalo zongeza i-spice kumanyano. Ukuguquka kwe-swing kuthetha ukuba izibini ezintsha zilala ngesondo ngaphandle komnye. Uhlobo olulandelayo luyi-swing evulekile, apho abathathi-nxaxheba balala ngesigumbi okanye kwibhedi enye, kwaye iquka ugugu.
Ukuguquka - luhlobo luni lolwalamano?
Ababini abenza isigqibo malunga nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwabanye abalingani bathi bafuna ukuvalelwa kwintswelo kwaye banike iimvakalelo ezifanayo kwisiqingatha sabo. Baphinde bathi ukuguquka kukubanceda bafezekise. Abathandi abaninzi bezololu hlobo zesondo baqabane. Iimbini ze-Swinger zikholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye namanye amaqabane kukuba isigaba ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane babo kwintsapho. Ziba zivulekileyo ngakumbi kunye kwaye zingabinqandeli iimvakalelo zabo kunye neminqweno, ephakathi kwezi zibini eziqhelekileyo zidla ngokubangela imbambano.
Ubomi bebagugu
Kukho isiseko esithile, esifanele sithathwe ingqalelo, ukwenzela ukuba impilo yokuguqula ingabangela ukuphuka. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ucinga ukuba iqabane liyokuqala, kwaye amaqabane amatsha kuphela abathathi-nxaxheba kumdlalo. Ngaphandle kokuqwalasela lo mgaqo, udidi lomdlalo oyintloko loqhagamshelwano olunzulu lulahlekile. Ukuqonda ukuba ngubani othungayo, kuyimfuneko ukuba acinge ukuba ezo zihlobo zisekelwe kwimithetho ethile:
- Ungazami ukungena kolunye ulwalamano kwaye nangakumbi utshabalalise umtshato.
- Kubalulekile ukulandela yonke imigaqo yeentlanganiso kunye nokwazisa kwangaphambili malunga noshintsho olunokwenzeka.
- Abanentsapho abaxhamliyo kufuneka bangabi naluphi na uxinzelelo kumlingane wabo.
- Intlanganiso yokuqala yintlanganiso yokuqala, kwaye xa kuyimfuneko, ungesabi ukuchasa kwiimeko.
- Kusoloko kuyimfuneko ukukhusela ukungabonakali kwabagugu ngaphandle kokutyhila amagama abo.
- Kubalulekile ukunamathela kwimimiselo yokucoceka nokubonakala.
- Abagijimi bangakwazi ukuzibekela imigaqo ethile yokuziphatha, oko kukuthi, yintoni eyamkelekileyo nento engekho. Ngamava, uluhlu lwemithetho lungatshintshwa.
- Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukwamkelwa ukulahlwa kwaye ungaboni njengento yokuthuka.
I-Swing - i-pros and cons
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuvisisana phakathi kobudlelwane bobulili kuyinto ebalulekileyo yomtshato, ngaphandle kweyodwa ingxaki. Njengokohluko, ezinye izibini zithatha isigqibo sokutsala abanye abathathi-nxaxheba kumbhede wabo. Abaninzi bayayiqonda into ebalulekileyo, ngokombono wabo, inzuzo yokuba umthandayo akafuni ukutshintsha kwicala, njengoko efumana yonke into kunye nesiqingatha sakhe sesibini.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ngokutshintshana amaqabane, i-swingers iphezu kwaye umphumo ovela kulolu vavanyo lunokukhetha ezimbini. Kwimeko yokuqala, ulwalamano lunokutshintsha ukuba lube ngcono, kwaye kwimeko yesibini, iimvakalelo ziyanyamalala kwaye inxalenye yesibini. Ukungahambi kakuhle kwe-swing kunokuba kubangelwa kukuba ngezinye iinkanuko umnqweno wokukhangela izinto ezibangel 'umdla kukukhokelela ekubeni kuya kubakho utshintsho oluqhubekayo lwamaqabane, oluya kubachaphazela kakubi ubudlelwane bentsapho.
Ukuguquka njengesifo sengqondo
Bonke abantu banokuhlulwa ngamacandelo amathathu: abo "ngenxa yokuzama ukulala ngesimo sengqondo", abo bangathathi hlangothi kwabo kunye nabo babecinga ingxaki yengqondo. Kukho uluvo lokuba abathandi be-swing abavalelwa imizwa yomona, uthando nokuzixabisa kwaye baqhutywa kuphela ngumnqweno wesini ngesilwanyana. Abathandi benjabulo enjalo bazibona beqhelekileyo, babonisa ukuvuleka kwabo nokungabi nokwesaba.
Indlela yokuba yindwangu?
Ukuba umntu unomnqweno wokuzama ukulala ngesinye umntu, ngokokuqala kufuneka uxoxe nomlingane wakho ukuze uqaphele ingxaki kunye neengxaki, kwaye uphephe imiphumo emibi. Akuyena wonke umntu okwazi ukugcina ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba umntu obathandayo ulala ngesinye nesinye iqabane. Umzekelo, ungasebenzisa amabali abanye abagugu, funda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwaye ubukele ividiyo. Abanqamlekileyo bakha ubudlelwane babo ngesiseko senkululeko yesenzo, ngokupheleleyo ukuthembela nokunyaniseka.
Ukuba isibini sinqume ukuzama, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukukhangela amaqabane afanelekileyo. Oku kunokwenziwa ngoncedo lweewebhu ezizodwa okanye ungaba ilungu leeklabhu ze-swinger. Emva kokuba kufunyanwe isibini esifanelekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba uvumelane kwintlanganiso apho kuya kubakho ukucacisa zonke iinkcukacha kunye nokubeka imithetho yezonxibelelwano zesondo.