Kodwa, maye, kungekhona wonke umntu olala naye kwimeko yesimo sengqondo. Iintsapho ziyaqhekeza , kwaye akusoloko umthandi waso ekwazi ukugcina unxibelelwano oluxhasayo okanye olunobungane, ukuvumelana ngokuncedisana ngokuxhamla kunye kunye nezibophelelo ze-alimony zomnye wabazali, ngokubhekiselele kubantwana abazalwa emtshatweni. Ngenxa yoko, abantwana abalimeleyo bahlala, kuba bengabanjwanga kuphela intsapho epheleleyo, kodwa nabo bahlelelekile ngemali.
Kuloo matyala, umpempe kwiintsapho zeentlanga uba ngumthetho olawula izizathu zokuvela, ukupheliswa kunye nemali yezibophelelo ze-alimony zabazali nabantwana. Makhe sihlale kulo mbandela ngokubanzi.
Ziziphi izizathu zokuvela kweembopheleleko zokuxhasa abantwana kunye nabantwana?
Ukhuseleko lwezinto eziphathekayo yinto ebalulekileyo apho ixesha elizayo lomntwana lithembele. Ngoko ke, unina noyise, abatshatileyo okanye emva kokutshatyalaliswa kwakhe, banyanzelekile ukuba baxhase abantwana babo abancinci. Njengomthetho, emva kokuqhawula umtshato, abazali ngokwabo bavumelana ngokumalunga nokuhlawula iintlawulo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba oko akukwenzekayo, ngoko kwi-suit yeyodwa yabazali abashiywe ngumntwana, imali iqokelelwa komnye umzali kwinkqubo yenkundla.
Ukongeza, ilungelo lokufaka ibango ngu:
- umgcini, umphathiswa;
- bazali;
- mabhunga olawulo kunye ne-trusteeship;
- Ulawulo lweziko apho umntwana uphathwa khona okanye ukhuliswe.
Kwakhona, umthetho ulawula imeko xa abazali befuna uncedo lwabantwana abanamandla. Emva kokuthatha umhlalaphantsi, ukuqaphela ukukhubazeka komsebenzi okanye ukugula, kuze kube sekufeni, abazali nabazali abamkeleyo banelungelo lokufumana i-alimony.