Ngelishwa, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kukho iimeko apho abazali befuna ukuqulunqa ukwenqaba komntwana. Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezikhuthaza abantu ukuba bathathe isinyathelo esinjalo. Kodwa ukuba isigqibo sele senziwe sagqityiwe, kuya kuba luncedo ukuqhelana nomgaqo wezomthetho wale ngxaki kwaye ufunde indlela yokwenza umyalelo wokwenqaba komntwana.
Ikhowudi yeeNtsapho yangoku ayilungiseleli nqaku "Ukukhanyela umntwana." Enyanisweni, ngokomthetho, akunakwenzeka ukushiya umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, abazali banelungelo lokubhalela isikhalazo sokwenqaba komntwana, ngenxa yokuba balahlekelwa ngamalungelo abo omzali.
Ukunikezelwa kwamalungelo kumntwana akuthethi ukukhululwa kwimisebenzi. Ukuba uyise okanye umama unqume ukushiya umntwana, abavunyelwanga ngokusemthethweni kwiimbopheleleko zokuthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo yakhe yokukhulisa nokunika inkxaso ngenkxaso.
Ukukhanyela umntwana ngumntwana esibhedlele
Ukuba lona wesifazane wenze isigqibo esinjalo, kufuneka abhale ingxelo malunga nokukhanyela umntwana esibhedlele. Kule meko, onke amaxwebhu adluliselwa ukusuka kwikhaya lokubeletha kubaphathi bamagada, kwaye umntwana ufakwa endlwini yentsana. Ngokushiya ngokuzithandela komntwana, umama akayithinteli amalungelo omzali kwiinyanga ezintandathu-ngomthetho unikwa ithuba lokucinga kwaye, mhlawumbi, utshintshe isigqibo sakhe. Ekupheleni kweli xesha, umgcini unokumiselwa umntwana.
Ukuba unina akazange amthathe umntwana esibhedlele, ngoko ngoko kwisigqibo sabaphathi bamagada, uyise, kwindawo yokuqala, unelungelo lokuthatha umntwana. Ukuba uyise, naye, akayithathi umntwana, ke le lungelo lifunyenwe ngoogogo, oomkhulu kunye nezinye izihlobo.
Ukunyuswa kwamalungelo omzali kuthatha iinyanga ezintandathu. Ngethuba eli xesha umntwana useziko lombuso.
Ukukhutshwa komntwana nguyise
Ukukhanuka komntwana nguyise kwenziwa enkundleni. Ukuba uyise wenza isigqibo sokumshiya ngokuzithandela umntwana, ngoko kufuneka abhale isicelo esifanelekileyo evela kumanothi. Kuyo nayiphi na i-ofisi engummangali, umzali unikezwa isampuli kwifomu yokulahlwa komntwana. Ukwenqatshelwa kwenkcazo yomzali evela kumntwana kufakwa enkundleni, kwaye ijaji inquma ukunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali.
Ibhinqa linokumangalela ukunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali kabazali kula macala alandelayo:
- Ukuba uyise wayenelisekile ekufezeni imisebenzi yakhe yokukhulisa umntwana;
- ukuba uyise unenkohlakalo kumntwana;
- ukuba uyise unxilisayo okanye umlutha weziyobisi;
- ukuba uyise wenza isigwebo ngokumelene nomntwana.
Amanqaku apha ngasentla, nawo, ayimfuneko yokukhanyela amalungelo omzali kamama.
Ubaba ongenamalungelo omzali akhululwa kwimbopheleleko yokuhlawula i-alimony. Ukuba umntwana oye walahlwa nguyise uyamkelwa ngumnye umntu, ngoko kulo mcimbi yonke imisebenzi inikwe umzali owamkelayo, kunye nobazali be-biological akhululwa ekuhlawuleni i-alimony.
Kuphela emva kokulahla uyise okanye unina wamalungelo omzali, abaphathi bamagcino banokumisela
Ukukhanyela umntwana owamkelweyo
Ngokomgaqo weNtsapho, abalamkeli banelungelo lokuba namalungelo afanayo nabazali ngokupheleleyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba ummangali wenza isigqibo sokwenqaba umntwana owamkelweyo, inkqubo efanayo yokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo yenziwa. Ummkeli, njengomzali, kweli phepha aliswanga kwimisebenzi.
Izizathu zokulahla abantwana
Ngokwezibalo, abazali abaninzi banqabileyo abantwana babo esibhedlele. Isizathu salo mzekelo ngokuqhelekileyo ukungakwazi ukubonelela ngezinto eziphathekayo kumntwana, ukungafuni kukabawo ukuthwala uxanduva, umama omncinane kakhulu.
Kwezinye iimeko, ngokusesikweni, ukunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali kubazali banxilisayo kunye nezilonda zonyango kwenziwa.