Imidlalo yokuzonwabisa kunye nemincintiswano - yile nto okufuneka uyibhiyozele usuku lokuzalwa lwabantwana ekhaya. Ukuzonwabisa kubantwana onokuzifumana okanye ukhethe kwizinto ezingezantsi. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ungqalelo kwingqalelo yeminyaka yobudala beendwendwe, kuba inyaniso yokuba abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu bayomdla, umntwana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala uya kubangela ukukhupha.
Njengomthetho, abantwana abaneminyaka engama-1-2 ubudala abanxaxheba kwiimidlalo ezidibeneyo, kwaye akufanele banikeze naluphi na ukhuphiswano lwabantwana. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba iholide ayiphumelelanga! Emva koko, iindwendwe ezincinci zihlala ziza nabazali bazo, oko kuthetha ukuba ufuna nje ukubandakanya oomama nootata.
Khumbula kwakhona ukuba akufuneki ukubandakanya kwimeko yeholide eninzi imincintiswano, kungcono ukwenza enye imidlalo enamandla kunye nokutya okulula, kwaye esikhundleni somthendeleko ukubonelela abantwana ukutya kwesidlo.
Iintlobo zemincintiswano yokuzalwa kwabantwana
- Iindwendwe ezincinci ziyakuthanda umdlalo "Teremok". Abadala ababini badonsa ingubo encinane malunga nemitha ngaphantsi komgangatho, kwaye bonke abantwana bafihla phantsi kwayo. Emva koko kuza "ibhere" (oku kuya kufuna i-suit okanye ubuncinane imaski yebhere) kwaye uzenza ngathi ngoku uya kutyumza indlu. Abantwana abane-squeal baleka kwaye bafuna ukuphindaphinda.
- Umncintiswano wokuphinda umqhudelwano kunye neentsimbi zilandelayo. Ekupheleni kwegumbi, kuyimfuneko ukubeka iphepha elincinane kwiphepha elisezantsi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - ekuqaleni - ukwakha amaqela amabini ebantwaneni, ubapha izitifiketi ezinkulu ezicacileyo kunye nabalinganiswa beemifanekiso ezihlukeneyo (umzekelo, "iiKota" kunye no "Masha kunye neBhere"). Abantwana bathabatha isitikithi esisodwa kunye nohlanga kwiphepha ukuze babalekele. Ithimba liphumelela, abadlali bayo baya kufakeka ngokukhawuleza onke amanqaku abo, kodwa intsingiselo yalo mdlalo iphela ekukhuliseni isimo sabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba. Ngoko ke, bonke abadlali banokubanika iimbasa zokukhuthaza.
- Ikhuphiswano "Ngubani na obeka bhetele?" Unomdla kakhulu. Kuye uya kufuna iimpawu kunye namaphepha amaphepha. Umtsalentshi ngeminithi yimizuzu eyahlukeneyo ichaza izinto okanye izilwanyana (inambu, ikati, i-suitcase, utshani, isirafu), kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba kufuneka babonise ngokucacileyo ngamnye wabo (kodwa kungekhona iileta!), Kwaye wonke amagama anikezwa ngokoqobo imizuzwana embalwa. Ekupheleni komzuzu, wonke umntu uqala ukudibanisa i-scrawls, ekhumbula into eboniswayo. Ngubani oza kuqikelela inani eliphezulu lamagama anikeziweyo, uyiphumelele.
- Ukhuphiswano "wethu uTanya uyakhala ngokukhawuleza" uya kudlalisa abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Amakhwenkwe kufuneka atshintshele ukuya kwisigaba esilungileyo kwaye uxelele le nkondlo eyaziwayo, ulandele iimeko ezahlukeneyo, xa:
- lezinyo zibuhlungu;
- Isitena sawa ngenyawo;
- uxosha inja;
- Ungumgcini wegosa leqela lebhola;
- unayo i-scabi, njl
Umnqoli nguye owamemezelayo njengento ekhohlakeleyo.
Ngaphandle kwalawo adwelisweyo, kusekho imincintiswano eyahlukeneyo eya kukunceda ube nomcimbi wokuzalwa wokuzonwabisa kumsebenzi weeholide lomntwana wakho.