Namhlanje, sinethuba lokufunda malunga nombono ngomhla wokuqala kunokwenzeka usebenzisa iindlela zokuxilonga zanamhlanje. Kwaye ookhokho bethu baphoqelelwa ngumbonakaliso ongathanga ngqo, kaninzi bengabi naluphi na umtshato wesiganeko sokubamba, ukukhetha ukuba ngaba umfazi usekwimeko, okanye cha, nokuba yintoni isini umntwana oza kuba. Kukho imiqondiso yabantu ebonisa ubungqina bokuqala kokukhulelwa ngaphambi kokulibaziseka.
Iimpawu zomntu zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili
Isikhundla senkcazo kunye nezithethe zenkcubeko zabantu abahlukahlukeneyo behlabathi baye bafaka umqondiso wabo ekuvelweni kwempawu kunye neenkolelo. AmaYuda acetyisa ukuba abafazi bahamba ngotshani obude. Ukuba izityalo emva kokuba zihlala zingqongqo, kwagqitywa ukuba lo mfazi ukhulelwe. KwiYiputa yamandulo, izifundo zanikwa isiselo esilungiselelwe ngesibhakabhaka somfazi owazala unyana kunye nomthi obizwa ngokuthi "budu-ka". Ukuba unesihlwili saqala ukuhlambalaza ukuhlanza, samqinisekisa "imeko enomdla". Kodwa amaTaliyane ayekholelwa ukuba umfazi owayephethe umntwana phantsi kwesifuba sakhe wayeya kuhlala ephosa isiqhumiso nemore ukuba wayongeza ezi zimbini kwiindawo zokuhlala waza wahlala eceleni kwakhe.
Namhlanje ungazifumana iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa ngaphambi kokulibaziseka kunye nawe, ukhokelwa yimpawu ezinjalo:
- Kwisitya kunye nomchamo, gweba i-drop of iodine. Ukuba le nkunkuma isasazeka, akukho ukukhulelwa, kodwa umfazi ohlala kwindawo ye-iodine ahlala engatshintshiyo emzimbeni. Unokwenza uvavanyo olulolo hlobo: yenza umxube wephepha kumchamo uze uyiphonsa kwi-tip kunye ne-iodine efanayo. Ukutshintsha umbala obomvu okanye i-lilac kuya kubonisa ubukho bezityalo, kodwa okwesibhakabhaka kubonisa umphumo ombi.
- Ibhinqa elifuna ukufunda ngeemeko zalo kufuneka ithathe iibhubhu ezimbini, khumbula ukuba ngubani na oya kuthetha ukukhulelwa, nokuba yintoni engekho kwaye angene emanzini. Ziziphi iintsiba ezikhulile ziya kuba ziphakamileyo, eziza kuphendula impendulo.
- Ngokwemiqondiso yabantu, iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa kufuneka zifunwe ngamaphupha abo. Ukuba umfazi uphupha intlanzi kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo: ukubamba, ukupheka, ukondla, njl., Ngoko sinokulindela inzala.
Iimpawu zeentlanga zokumisela isondo somntwana ekukhulelweni
Indlela yokuvavanya ixesha kukuthatha isangqa sokubandakanyeka, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani, uthabathe umtya omde kuyo kwaye ulixhome ngesandla sakho sokunene phezu kwesandla sakho sasekhohlo. Ukuba umhlobiso uqala ukuguqula entendeni yesandla sakho, kuyafaneleka ukulinda ukuzalwa kwentombi yakho, kwaye ukuba uwela umnqweno wakho. Ukongezelela, isondo somntwana esizayo sasisoloko siqwalaselwa ngesimo sesisu. Ukuba ujikeleze, ububanzi kwaye bukhulu, ngoko ulindele intombazana, kwaye xa ibukhali, ingabonakali ngenxa yemva, yinkwenkwana. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba iminqweno kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngumfazi okhulelwe ziguqulwa kakhulu kwaye ngokuyininzi ngenxa yeempawu ezifana nokukhulelwa kwangaphambili kunqunywe ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo.
Ukuba ibhinqa litsalwa ekudleni kunye neesitya, kwakucatshulwa ukuba umntwana wesilisa ukhula ngaphakathi kwakhe. Ubuninzi ekudleni kweebhaka, iipesele kunye neziqhamo kubonisa ubukho bomntwana