Umfazi omhle uhlala ekhangisa amehlo abanye, kwaye umonakalo wakhe unokuthetha ngokuzithemba kwakhe nangendlela awajonga ngayo abanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo yindlela yokuphila echaphazela inyaniso yokuba akusoloko intombazana enhle ihamba kakuhle kwaye ihamba kakuhle. Ngoko umntu angayifunda njani indlela yokuhamba kakuhle, ukwenjenjalo ukuba ukuhamba kunye nokunyuka kokuhamba komfazi ngexesha lokuhamba akubonakali kwaye ungammeli ekukhanyeni okungahle kwenzeke phambi kwabanye?
Indlela yokwenza ubuhle buhle?
- Into yokuqala kufuneka uyibeke ingqalelo kwisithuba esifanelekileyo - isiseko senzuzo entle. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ulungele umva wakho. Amagxa aphakanyiswa kangangoko kunokwenzeka, uwabuyisele kwaye uwahlalise. Isiphumo sifanele sibe sisithuba esilungileyo nesihle.
- Kwakhona kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba i-chin iphakanyisiwe, isifuba siqondiswe, kwaye isisu siyaphindwa.
- Kwindlela yokuhamba kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokubeka unyawo ngokuchanekileyo. Uhlala ehamba ngokukhawuleza, awela esithende aze athuke ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwintwane. Ukuba oku kwenzeka ngeyona ndlela ngeenxa zonke, ke ukuhamba akuyi kuba lula kwaye kulula.
- Akukho mfuneko yokuthatha inqanaba elibanzi. Kule nto, umzimba kunye nentloko ziya kuguquka kakhulu. Inyathelo kufuneka ibe yincinci, iisentimitha ezimbalwa ngaphezu kweenyawo zakho.
- Kwintsimi yayinganyanzelekanga, ukuhamba kwezandla kufuneka kube kwisigqi sokuhamba, kwaye kungekhona nje ukuxhuma okanye ukuhlala kwiipokotshi zakho.
- Musa ukwenza iinqabunga ezinamandla, zizenze nje.
Mhlawumbi, abanye baya kubuza umbuzo, kodwa njani ukuhlakulela umgangatho omhle ngezithende? Okokuqala, bambalele kuzo zonke iingcebiso ezingentla. Nangona kunjalo, sifanele sidibanise ezinye ezimbalwa kule nto:
- Qala ngokulungisa ukuhamba kwakho ngokusebenzisa izenzo ezilula. Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo ihamba nencwadi entloko.
- Ukuqala, funda ukuhamba ngezicathulo ezisezantsi okanye iqonga. Kumele ukuba zikhululekile kwaye zinganyanzezeli unyawo lwakho.
- Okokuqala kufuneka ufunde ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukhawuleze inyathelo.
- Imisongo ifanele ibekwe ngokulinganayo kwaye ingayi kuguqa ngamadolo, ngaphandle koko iya kubonakala ingenangqiqo kwaye ibuhlungu.
- Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule shishini kukuhlakulela ukunyamezela kunye nokulinganisela, ukunyuka kwesisindo esivela kwisithende ukuya kwizwane. Oku kuya kwenza kube lula ukuhamba kwizithende zakhe.
Khumbula ukuba ukuqhuba rhoqo kuya kukukhokelela ekuphumeleleni kwesi sizathu esihle.
Kulo mfazi, i-gait enhle ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba igxininisa zonke izicwangciso zayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba uhlale uzinzithemba kuyo nayiphi na indawo, ukuba ubeqhelekileyo kwimeko yendawo okanye abantu abasemphakathini.