Xa umntwana ekhula, ufunda ukugqoka yedwa . Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kuza ixesha apho ejongene nomsebenzi wokubopha ama-shoelaces kwizicathulo zakhe. Omnye uzama ukufunda, kwaye abanye abantwana kufuneka baqhutywe kule nyathelo. Abazali kule ngxaki baqala ukuzibuza ukuba bafundise njani umntwana ukubopha i-shoelaces.
Ukuze umntwana afune kwaye adibanise i-shoelaces kwiingwele zakhe, kuyimfuneko ukuthobela imithetho emininzi:
- qwalasela ubuncinane bomntwana. Ixesha elifanelekileyo kakhulu lokuqeqesha liyiminyaka emine ukuya kwimithandathu;
- khumbula ukuba amantombazana aphuhlise abafana ekuphuhlisweni kwabo, ngoko ke xa kunomdla kwinxalenye yentombi, ungammema ukuba azame ukubopha iintambo ngaphambi kokuba aphendule iminyaka emine ubudala. Yenza oku ngentando yomntwana kuqala;
- Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba imilenze yokunene neyekhohlo;
- Kufanelekile ukhethe indlela enye yokukhwela izicathulo, ngaphandle koko umntwana uya kudideka kubo;
- Xa ukhawuleza, kufuneka uphinde uphinde uphinde ufunde amaxesha afanayo, ukuze umntwana wakho akhumbule aze afunde kakuhle;
- ukukunceda ukubopha iilesi ezintle zihleli emva okanye kwicala;
- ukuba umntwana unqabe ukufunda ukubopha izicathulo, kubalulekile ukuba angagxininisi, ukwenzela ukuba angabangeli ukuphikisa okuchaseneyo, xa umntwana eyeka ukufunda ukuqhuba.
Izinketho zokudibanisa ama-shoelaces
Iindlela zokuzibophelela ngokufanelekileyo iintsimbi, zihlukene ngokwaneleyo kwaye umzali angakhetha ukona olufanelekileyo kumntwana wakhe.
Indlela engcono kakhulu ngumzekelo wakhe. Njengoko abantwana bathanda ukuxelisa abantu abadala, bebona indlela obopha ngayo izihlangu zakho, ngexesha, umntwana uya kuqala ukubonisa umdla kule nkqubo kwaye ucele ukuba avunyelwe ukukunceda ubophe izicathulo zakho.
Kufuneka ukuba uhlale eceleni komntwana, ufake izicathulo phambi kwakhe, uchaze kwaye ubonise ukuba loop ufanele ukwakhiwa kuphela kwi-lace eyodwa, ngelixa iintambo zesibini zidluliselwa kwi-loop efunyenweyo, kodwa ingapheli. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuba "isaphetha".
Ukuba umntwana uya kukhwela izicathulo kunye nento ebizwa ngokuthi "ikhwezukazi kagogo", xa i-loops ezimbini zenziwa ngokukhawuleza, emva kwexesha loo nto iza kukhulula ngokukhawuleza.
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Emva kokuba umntwana efunde iindlela ezilula kunye nezithandwayo zokudibanisa izilwanyana, unokuzama ukwenza amaqhina aqinileyo.
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Imidlalo yokudibanisa i-shoelaces
Umntwana ogqithiseleyo uthatha ulwazi kumdlalo, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba athenge itekisi ekhethekileyo yokudlala. Iimidlalo ezinjalo zinganikwa abantwana abasusela kwiminyaka emibini. Kwizitolo, iintambo azibonakalwanga nje ngeendlela zezicathulo, kodwa nangendlela yezilwanyana, imifuno kunye neziqhamo, apho kufuneka udlulise inambuzane emdeni. Le midlalo enokuphuhliswa iya kuvumela ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, ukufundisa umntwana izakhono zokudlulisa intambo emhadini.
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Abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba ukudibanisa i-shoelaces yinkqubo eyinkqubo eyinkqubo efuna ixesha elininzi lokuqeqeshwa kunye nomonde kwinqanaba elingaphandle kwabazali kuphela kodwa nangomntwana.