Ngaba ndinokufumana umntwana omncinci ngaphandle kwendlu?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa kwenzeka ukufa kwelungu losapho okanye ukwahlula kwipropati, okanye nje kwisigqibo sokwandisa indawo yokuhlala, imeko ivela apho enye yezihlobo kufuneka idayise ikhaya apho umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18 ebhalisiwe. Ukuthengiswa kwepropati - ngokubanzi kwinkqubo enzima kakhulu, kuba kufuneka ulungiselele inani elikhulu lamaphepha kwaye ungaphambuki mzekelo welizwe elinye. Ngokudibanisene nokudibanisa okunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuthengisa indlu.

Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukubhala umntwana omncinane kwindlu yokuhlala, kwaye ziziphi iimeko ezi zinto zigqitywe kuphela yinkantolo.

Okokuqala, kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba awuvumelekanga ukuba unqande umntwana ongaphantsi kobhaliso ngaphandle kokuwubhalela kwenye idilesi. Isimo esiphezulu apho ukukhutshwa komntwana kunokwenzeka khona kunikezelwa ngamaphepha kwaye, ngokukodwa, ipasipoti yezobugcisa kwipropati ekucetywayo ukuba ibhalise kuyo. Ngexesha elifanayo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba ngenxa yale "ukulungiswa kabusha" amalungelo omhlaba womntwana awachaphazelekayo, kwaye izimo zobomi azibi nakakhulu.

Xa ucinga ukuba umntwana omncinci unokukhutshwa kwihostlu, indima ephambili idlalwe yidilesi yokuhlala kwakhe kunye nendlela yobunikazi bepropati ephikisanayo. Ngoko, umzekelo, umntwana oneminyaka engama-18 ubudala, uhlala kwindlu kamasipala kunye nonina, kwaye ubhalisiwe kwizindlu zikamasipala kunye noyise. Kule meko, umntwana unokukhululeka ngokukhawuleza, ngokusekelwe kwisiseko sokufumana.

Kunzima kunzima ukuxazulula umba kunye neendlu ezifihliweyo. Kwaye kukho okukhethwa kukho ezimbini - kwelinye lalo lincinci lubhalisiwe kwinqanaba elisezantsi lomnye umntu, kwaye kwelinye - umntwana ngokwakhe unengxenye yesakhiwo kwindlu. Masiqonde nganye kwezi ziko.

Ingaba umnikazi wezindlu angabhala umntwana omncinci?

Okokuqala, yonke into ixhomekeke kukuthanda kwabazali. Ukuba izalamane zikwazi ukuvumelana, ngoko umama okanye uyise womntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-14 (emva koko kubakho ubuqu bakhe) kufuneka afake isicelo kwideskiti yepaspoti kunye nesicelo sokususwa komntwana omncinci kwiRejista. Ukongezelela, kuya kufuneka ukuba unikeze isatifiketi sokuzalwa, ipasipoti yomzali omnye okanye bobabini, kunye namaxwebhu ehostela apho umntwana uya kubhaliswa emva kwenkqubo. Kufuneka ukuba ube nepasipoti yezobugcisa kunye ne-warrant yale ndawo yokuhlala. Isicelo esifanayo siqwalaselwa kwiintsuku ezi-3 zoshishino.

Ukuba ngaba abazali bahlukunyezwa ngokuzithandela umntwana, kwaye umnini wefestile unyanzelisa, umba uphendululwa kuphela ngokubandakanyeka kwamagunya okugweba. Kule meko, inkundla iya kuhlalutya ngokubanzi izinto ezininzi-indawo apho umntwana ehlala khona, iimeko zokuhlala kwidilesi yohlala kubazali bobabini, ubuhlobo bentsapho yomntwana kunye nomnini wezindlu, njalo njalo.

Indlela yokubhala umntwana omncinane kwindlu, ukuba yena ngokwakhe ungumnikazi?

Ekubeni bethu ubomi, iziganeko ezahlukeneyo zenzeka, kwaye izihlandlo zihlala zidinga ukubhala abantwana abancinci xa bethengisa indlu, nangona bekade bezinikezwa isabelo kwipropati kuyo.

Ngokubanzi, umyalelo wezenzo apha awufani neemeko zangaphambili, kodwa umzekelo wokuqala oya kuwatyelela ube ngumzimba wokugcinwa kunye ne-trusteeship body. Leli liSebe lokulondoloza eliqala ukuvavanya amaxwebhu kwaye linike imvume yokuthengiswa okanye ukukhishwa. Ukugatywa kwamagunya okugcinwa kunye ne-trusteeship izibheno zinokubhenela kumagunya okugweba.