Uninzi lwabanini beenja babhekana neengxaki ezinjalo ukuba isilwanyana sazo siba. Ngesinye isikhathi isilwanyana sihlaba izandla kunye neenyawo zomkhosi ngexesha lomdlalo. Oku akuvumelekanga, ngoko kufuneka ufunde indlela yokulusa intsana ukuluma izandla kunye neenyawo zomntu. Indlela elula yokwenza oku ngelixa i-pet isaselula, ngoko kuya kuba nzima ukutshintsha into ethile. Okokuqala, qonda izizathu zezi mpawu zezilwanyana.
Kutheni iinyana ziluma izandla?
- basebenziselwa ukudlala nezinye izinja, bexana. Ukubamba izandla okanye iinyawo, isilwanyana simema ukuba udlale;
- Ingane inokuluma, ukuba awuvumeli, khuthaza imidlalo ngezandla zakho;
- zonke izilwanyana zide zinyama ezintathu, ngenxa yokuba amazinyo ayabetha.
Ukuba ukulila kwenzeka ngenxa yezi zizathu, ngoko akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Ngokukhuliswa kakuhle nokuziphatha, umntwana uya kukhangela ngokukhawuleza kule nto. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba inja iyaluma. Oku kuya kwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo kwaye kufuna ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza.
Kutheni i-puppy iyaluma umnikazi?
Kubonakala ukuba, ukususela ngomhla wokuqala wokuvela kwindlu wayiphathwa njengowona mkhulu, kwaye waziziva eyintloko. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngokuchaseneyo, abantu baziphatha kunye nesilwanyana ngokugqithiseleyo, bayibetha, kwaye bazama ukuluma - kukuphela kokuphendula okukhuselayo. Kwaye kukho nawuphi na umzekelo, ukuziphatha kwabanikazi kungalunganga kwaye kuphuthumayo ukufundisa inja .
Kuthekani ukuba intsana ihlaba izandla?
- xa eseseyincinci kwaye edlala, kuya kwanele nje ukuthetha ngelizwi eliqinileyo elithi "fu" okanye "kungabi", ukumisa umdlalo kunye nexesha elithile ukuba ungayithobeli;
- Njalo ixesha umntwana edlala izandla zakho, mnike ithoyilo ngokubuyisela, ngenxa yoko kufuneka ube neninzi kubo, kwigumbi ngalinye apho isilwanyana sikhona;
- Unokwenza umntwana ambethe izandla ezingathandekiyo, umzekelo, zenzele into enomsindo okanye unamathele iminwe yakho emqaleni;
- enye inja endala ingahlawuliswa. Kodwa akukhuthazwa ukuba ambethe nzima. Kungcono ukubetha iphephandaba eliphangelwe ngaphaya kwe-rump okanye ucofe kwimpumlo ngelixa linye libiza igama "lingenakwenzeka."
Ukuba intshontsho ibetha umnini ngezandla kunye neenyawo, ezaneleyo kwiingubo, mhlawumbi akayikunyamekela. Awukwazi ukukhuthaza oku, ukuguqula iingalo zakho, ukumemeza, kuba unokucinga ukuba udlala. Kulungile ukuyivala, tshela "fu" kwilizwi eliphantsi kwaye uhambe. Ungavumeli ukuba isilwanyana siphethe, nokuba mnene kunye naye, kodwa uqine. Ngokukhuliswa kakuhle, isilwanyana asisoze sinobudlova.