Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu buhlobo. Kulungile, xa kukho umntu oya kuvuya ngempumelelo yakho kunye nempumelelo kwaye uya kunceda xa amafu ehlanganisene. Ubuhlobo buhlolwe ixesha, umgama kwaye kaninzi kuxabana. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu akusoloko bungafi. Ukukhuliswa okuhlukileyo, inqanaba lophuhliso, ubunjani kunye nemilinganiselo yobomi kubangela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanakufumana ulwimi olufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukungavumelani akufanele kube ngumqobo phakathi kwemiphefumlo ecaleni komphefumlo womntu. Nangona ukungaqondi kakuhle kukuphazamisa ulwalamano lwakho, unokuhlala uvuselela ukudibana okulahlekileyo. Into ephambili kukuba unqwenele ukuseka ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kwakhona.
Indlela yokuxolisa kumhlobo?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi indlela umntu angaxolisa ngayo kumhlobo. Ukukhethwa kwendlela ethile kuxhomekeke kwimbambano yongquzulwano , uhlobo lwentombi, intambo yokungavumelani, njl.
Cinga iindlela ozikhethele ngayo ukuxolisa ngokufanelekileyo kumhlobo:
- Kudla ngokwaneleyo ukuthetha okuqhelekileyo "ukuxolela", ukwenzela ukuba loo ntombazana ijonge kwaye ubuhlobo buya kubuya. Amagama okuxolisa kufuneka alula kwaye ayanqwenela.
- Chaza iimvakalelo zakho malunga nento eyenzekayo kwaye kutheni kukho amazwi akhathazayo. Unokuxelela malunga nomoya wakho ngaloo mini okanye iingxaki ezenza ukuba uziphathe ngale ndlela. Oku kuya kunika intombazana ithuba lokutshintsha ingqalelo kwizikhalazo zakhe kunye novelwano kunye nawe.
- Akuyimfuneko ukuchaza ukuxabana, ukuqala kwakhona ixesha elibi kwimemori yethu, elowo wonke umntu angathanda ukulibala.
- Kucetyiswa ukuba uxelele indlela oxabisa ngayo ubuhlobo bakho, kwaye uluhlobo luni oluvakalelwa ngumhlobo wakho.
- Musa ukuzibamba kwaye uzixolele. Ukuba uziva unetyala, kungcono ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo. Ukuxolisa kunokuthi kunentsingiselo: "Kukho izizathu zokuba ndiyenzile oku, kodwa akuncedi. Ndilinetyala phambi kwakho. "
Enye into kufuneka icatshangelwe: abanye abantu badinga ixesha lokuzola, kwaye kungcono ukuba kusetyenziswe ngokukhawuleza, ukuze loo mntu akhulise isikhalazo sakhe.
Ndingacela njani uxolo kumhlobo wam omhle?
Iingqungquthela - ngokuqhelekileyo into engathandekiyo, kodwa xa ingxabano ichithwe nentombi engcono kakhulu ayikho into emnandi. Nangona akunzima ukudibanisa kunye nabahlobo abakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukuba naluphi na ofuna ukupheliswa kobuhlobo. Omnye ucinga nje ukuba lobu buhlobo abuyi kusaba khona, njani umkhosi ufumane isisombululo.
Musa ukucinga ixesha elide, indlela yokuxolisa kumhlobo wakho omhle. Yena, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukhathazekile kwaye ufuna ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle. Vele ubize okanye ufike kunye namacandi uze uthi uyazisola okwenzekayo.
Ukuba awufumani amandla okuthetha oku kwintlanganiso, ungasebenzisa iinkonzo zentanethi. Bhala incwadi uze unamathele umfanekiso wakhe ngamazwi okuxolisa.
Ngaba kukuhle ukucela uxolo kumhlobo?
Ukuba umhlobo uxabisa ukuqala kunye nokungaqhelekanga, unokusebenzisa uxolo olungagqibekanga:
1. Thenga isipho. Ingaba ithoyizi elithambileyo kunye nekhadi leposi apho amagama okuxolisa abhalwa khona, okanye into leyo intombazana ephupha ngayo. Okanye mhlawumbi ushokolele ngokwaneleyo, othi "Uxolele intombi yakho ..."
2. Bhala i-SMS kwivesi. Umzekelo:
Andizange ndifune le ngxabano,
Ndixolele - masibe ngabahlobo.
Andiyithandi imibambano nawe
Kwaye ndiya kuxabisa ubuhlobo.
Okanye:
Ndikucaphukise - ndixolele,
Ukungaqondani - vumela umoya.
Andifuni ukuxabana, kodwa ndifuna ukuba ngabahlobo,
Nibani nemihlali, nicula iingoma, nihlabe ...
3. Yenza umboniso okanye wenze ifayile apho ungayichazela ngobuhlobo bakho kwaye uxolise ngomzuzu ongathandekiyo.
4. Dweba umfanekiso okanye wenze i-collage, eya kuthetha ngokuguquka nohlobo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthembeke ngamazwi akho kwaye uxolo. Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bubalulekile kubo bobabini, ngoko uya kuba nakho ukubuyisela ubudlelwane obuxabisekileyo.