Yintoni yokwaneliseka komfazi, kwaye njani ukuba ngumfazi onjalo ngaphandle kokuphosa intonga? Yonke le yimigca efihlakeleyo yokuzinyameka kwabasetyhini, eyahluke kakhulu kwindoda. Siza kuthetha ngeendlela zokuba ngumfazi onelungelo kwaye ugcine ezi zinto namhlanje.
Ubuncedo bokuphila ngokwaneleyo
Okokuqala, siya kuqonda ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ngokwaneleyo. Eli gama lithetha ukukwazi ukuma ngokuqinileyo kwiinyawo zakho kwaye uzive ungaphansi komhlaba. Le ngundoqo yecala ngaphakathi kwakho. Oku kukuphelela okuya kuvumela ukujonga ngesithunzi kunoma yintoni imeko. Kuyavakala kukuthakazelisa, kodwa yintoni ekulindele wena, emva kokuba ube ngumntu onelanelekileyo:
- Awudingi ukujongana nokunye ukusilela, baya kuqala ukukusebenzela;
- akudingeki ukuba unqobe abantu abaninzi, baya kuthandwa ngumbane wakho ongaphakathi;
- Uya kusindisa amaninzi amaninzi kunye namandla, ngenxa yokuba uyeka ukumona nokuzonda;
- uya kuhlala ufezekisa injongo yakho.
Indlela yokuzinyamekela
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuba nokwanele ukutshintshela kwi-self-service. Kufuneka uzinikezele kwaye usombulule zonke iingxaki zakho, ngaphandle kwalokhu, akusayi kuba nokuzinako.
Zithande kwaye uzikhathalele. Ukuziva ubutyebi bakho ngaphakathi, kufuneka uyaneliseke ngokubonakala kwakho.
Ungazibandakanyi kwisangqa soqhagamshelwano "abantu abayimfuneko". Unabohlobo, kodwa abanalo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ufunde ukwenjenjalo ukuba iingxoxo kumbuthano onobungane ziqhutyelwe kwizihloko ozifunayo kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo kuwe.
Umntu onelisayo unoloko unomgomo - nangomso, nangenyanga, nangonyaka. Ukuba ungeenjongo, uza kuphila ukuze uzalisekise ezinye iinjongo zabantu kunye nobomi bomnye umntu. Iinjongo zakho ziza kwenza ixesha lakho lakheke kwaye ubomi bakho buya kwindlela efanelekileyo.
Ungalokothi udide kunye nokuhamba, kodwa ungagqibi nxamnye nalo. Kufuneka ugibele kuphela apho ufuna khona ngokwenene.