Abazali abaselula bayayazi kakuhle ingxaki ngemidlalo yabantwana kunye nabaninzi bezinto zezingane ezingenakwaneleyo kwigumbi. Enye indlela yokuphelisa le ngxaki kukuthenga isifuba somthi. Le nxalenye encinci yangaphakathi, eya kunceda ukubeka amathoyizi kunye nezinto kwiindawo zazo, ibhokisi enzulu yenza imisebenzi yokugcina. Ekubeni iifubeni zamatye kufuneka zifakwe kwigumbi labantwana, unokukhetha ukwakhiwa okufanelekileyo nokuthakazelisayo, umzekelo ngamabhokisi amaninzi.
| | | |
Ukukhuselwa kwesifuba sabantwana
Nangona kunjalo, ukukhutshwa ngumbumba wesigxobo samagumbi ebantwaneni, kufuneka sicinge ngokuphathelele ukhuseleko lwayo malunga nomntwana. Zama ukukhetha ifenitshala enikezela ukukhutshwa kwemazi. Oku kunjalo, ukungabikho kwezinto ezinobungozi ezibukhali eziphathekayo zesibhobho sabantwana bokhuni, kunye neendawo ezinokuthi zifakwe emacaleni, kunye nokungabikho kwesibuko. Iindawo ezinjalo ziya kunceda ukuphepha amanxeba kunye nezinye izinto. Isifuba samaplanga esinezibuko sinokufaneleka ngakumbi kwigumbi lomzali okanye igumbi lomntwana omdala kunomntwana osemtsha ongayiqondi ingozi yeglasi ephukileyo kwaye unokukwenza lula ukulimala. Ukongezelela, umsebenzi obalulekileyo wesibhobho sabantwana bokhuni yi-blocker yokuvula abadwebi, apho kulula kakhulu ukunqumla iminwe yakho.
| | | |
Isifuba sabadwebi ngaphakathi kwegumbi labantwana
Ewe, ifenitshala kufuneka ikhethwe ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana, umsebenzi ofunekayo kunye nommandla ongaphakathi. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci kakhulu, umntwana, kulungele ukusetyenziswa kwimeko yakho iya kuba ngumthi wamatye wokutshiza.
| | | |
Umama osemncinci, le yintsimbi efanelekileyo kakhulu, njengoko ikuvumela ukuba ulondoloze indawo esoloko iswelekile kwaye igcinwe kuyo yonke into efunekayo kwinkqubo yokutshintsha umntwana.
Efanelekileyo ngokusemgangathweni kumabhokhwe kunye neenkuni zamatye kunye neebhokisi ezinemibala, umninci omncinci wendawo yefenitshala yefowuni uya kufuneka ukuba atye.
| | | |
Ubume obuqinileyo kunye obubi kakhulu ngaphakathi kwebhokisi lomthi wabakhonkco kunye noyilo phantsi kweentsuku ezindala kunye nokufakwa okufakwe emifanekiso, ukuba ivumela ifenitshala ejikelezileyo.
| | | |
| | | |
Ngokuqhelekileyo unokujamelana neengxaki zokungabikho kwesithuba kwigumbi. Kule meko, ungathenga umbhobho omhlophe wamatye omthi , onokubonga umklamo wemibala kunye nobukhulu bawo, uhambelana nantoni na ngaphakathi.
| | | |
