Kususela ngobuntwana sele sisetyenzisiweyo, ukuba ngo-Matshi, ngowesi-8 yiholide yoomama. Kwaye nangona ngoku kubonakala kwikhalenda "Usuku lukaMama", ngo-Matshi 8 sisaphila isipho kwaye sivuyiswa ngeliholide, okokuqala, kumama. Ngaphambi kokwenza oku, kufuneka uqikelele ukuba yiyiphi na into ekunika umama wakho ngoMatshi 8. Ingxaki, eqinisweni, ayiyona into elula, kodwa iyalungiswa.
Kususela ngobuntwana sele sisetyenzisiweyo, ukuba ngo-Matshi, ngowesi-8 yiholide yoomama. Kwaye nangona ngoku kubonakala kwikhalenda "Usuku lukaMama", ngo-Matshi 8 sisaphila isipho kwaye sivuyiswa ngeliholide, okokuqala, kumama. Ngaphambi kokwenza oku, kufuneka uqikelele ukuba yiyiphi na into ekunika umama wakho ngoMatshi 8. Ingxaki, eqinisweni, ayiyona into elula, kodwa iyalungiswa. Indlela elula kukuba ulungelelanise ukuphenywa (okanye ucele ngobumnene ngubani osondeleyo) malunga noko uMama angathanda ukufumana ngomhla kaMatshi 8. Enyanisweni, le ndlela ayifanelekiyo wonke umntu, umntu akaqapheli ukuba abuze imibuzo enjalo, kwaye umntu uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba isipho kufuneka simangaliswe, kwaye emva koko uhlupheke, uzame ukumangalisa. Ewe, ulungile, ungafuni ukwenza lula ubomi bakho, musa, kufuneka ucinge. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ngo-Matshi 8, nangona iholide yabamama bethu abangabalulekiyo kunye nabathandekayo, kodwa ezixabiso (ngokulinganayo kwemali) izipho onika zona azivunyelwanga, kwaye ngokwenene, akukho mntu ulindele. Ngoko ukufumana enye into ebiza, enhle kwaye engenamsebenzi ayinangqiqo, ngoko uza kubonisa ukungahloneli ngokupheleleyo kumama wakho kunye nemibuzo yakhe. Ngendlela, malunga nokunyamekela, isipho esihle kumama siya kuba luncedo ekulungiseleleni isidlo sakusihlwa ngo-Matshi 8, enesiqhelo seentyatyambo zakho ozithandayo. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubukho bakho kule sidlo, kuba into ephambili umama wakho ayifunayo kukuba sinokuyinyamekela, esiyiqhele ukulibala ukulibala, ukuphazamisa kwimicimbi yemihla ngemihla yobomi abadala.
Ukunyamekela nokunyamekela, kodwa ufuna ukunika into engaphezulu? Akukho nto elula, ingcamango yesipho iza kukhawuleza ingqondweni yakho, ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukhumbule ukuthanda kunye nonqweno lwenyoko. Umthandi wokububula ngenxa yeentando zesithandabuzo zeencwadi ezinobumnandi mhlawumbi uya kuvuya kunye nencwadi (mhlawumbi ayikho enye) yombhali oyintanda, kodwa umzukulu uya kuwamkela ngokunyanisekileyo umqulu kunye neengcebiso zabalimi begadi okanye ii-bulbs zeentyatyambo ezintle.
Khumbula, ebuntwaneni sasiyicinga ukuba unina umncinane nomhle? Ewe, ngokwenene into ayitshintshile, mama, njengaphambi kokulungileyo, kodwa ngubani owathi awukwazi ukumnceda azive ekhangayo ngakumbi? Unokwenza oko njengesipho, enye into efanelekileyo yokufumana, into ephuma kwiziqholo zokunyamekela okanye isatifikethi sokutyelela kwi-salon yobuhle. Okanye mhlawumbi unyoko, le nkosikazi iyasebenza kakhulu kwaye iye yamangaliswa ngokumzisa umgangatho wayo kwimeko efanelekileyo ehlobo? Kule nqwenela, unokukunceda ngokunikela into ebonakalayo kwimpahla yezemidlalo kwiklasi ekhaya okanye ukubhalisa kwigumbi lokuzilolonga (pool). Yaye ukuba uthe waya kwigumbi lokuzilolonga kwaye uqala ukuhamba nayo, ngoko akufanele unike isipho esingcono - njani, ithuba elinjalo ukukubona rhoqo.
Kucatshangelwa ifomu elibi ukunika abesifazana izitya zasekhishini ngo-Matshi 8, bathi, ngoko uya kumvumela ukuba le ntokazi iqonde ukuba ngumpheki kuphela. Kodwa ukuba unyoko uyakuthanda ukupheka kwaye akukho nto inomnandi kunokuba uyithokoze intsapho yakhe kunye nolunye udidi lwezobugcisa bokutya, ngoko isipho esivela kulolu chungechunge siya kufunyanwa ngaphezu kokuhle.
Ngaba ayikho indlela yokuthenga into ebiza ngaphezu kwebhokisi yee-chocolates kunye neentyatyambo ezincinane? Kulungile, ukhumbula nje ukukhanya okuvuyayo emehlweni omama wakho xa wena, njengomntwana, uthwala imidwebo yakhe ngemibala eyomileyo njengesipho. Ku khunjulwa? Ixabiso, akunjalo? Ngoko kukuthintela ukuthini ukuphinda ukuphinda kubakho ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana? Akuyimfuneko ukudweba into ethile, nangona kukho ubuchule kunye nomnqweno, nceda nceda. Unokwenza, umzekelo, ukubhaka ikhekhe lokuzalwa (ikhekhe) kunye namagama afudumele, unikezele kumntu othandekayo kunye nomntu othandekayo emhlabeni.