Yonke into iyaziwa ukuba sikhetha umyeni wethu, kwaye izalamane zakhe ziza kusifumana njengebhonasi. Kwabaninzi, ngokwenene, ibhonasi enkulu, umama wesibini kunye noyise, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ulwalamano ngesizathu esithile alufaki. Umhla wokuzalwa womama-mkhwenyana unokuba sisihlandlo esihle kakhulu sokuseka ubudlelwane nawo, ukubomeleza ngakumbi kunye nokugcina iminyaka emininzi ngenxa yezipho ezikhethiweyo nezikhethekileyo.
Sisiphi isipho sokunika umamazala?
Ukuqala, iindidi zeentyatyambo ziyimfuneko. Bonke ngaphandle kokuba abesifazana bathanda iintyatyambo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantu bayalibala ngoku. Ukuba uyazi ukuba unyokokazi wakho ugcina iintyatyambo kwiibhotile kwifestile, ke endaweni yesigqabi esivamile ungathenga isityalo kwindawo, ngokukhethekileyo ngexesha leentyantyambo. Kuba abathandi bamnandi kwi-oda benza izimbali zeesekese, ngaphezu koko, xa kuthengiswa ungafumana iibhanki zeibhaluni.
Kwaye ngoku ... sijika kumyeni wam, kuba lo unina. Yaye uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyayithanda kwaye akayithandi oko amaphupha akhe ayenayo ixesha elide, kodwa akayi kuthenga into yakhe yokuhlala. Kuyenzeka, kunjalo, kwaye ke amadoda awakhumbulanga ngokukhawuleza ahlaselwe ngumama wakhe: "Umenzi wekhofi efanelekileyo ekhaya," ngoko wenze izilungiso zakho "zezilwanyana".
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akufuneki ukubuza umamazala ukuba isiphi isipho afuna ukufumana. Okokuqala, unokukujonga oku njengobonakaliso bobuvila kunye nokuhamba ngokukhethekileyo kwintsebenzo yokubongela, kwaye okwesibini, ukumangaliswa akuyi kuza kwenzeka.
Yintoni endinokuyenza umamazala?
Cinga ngezinto afuna ukuzenza, khumbula izinto ezithandwayo kunye nokusebenza. Cinga ukuba umpheki obalaseleyo akadingeki ukuba anike izimbiza. Njengomthetho, banalo ngobuninzi, phakathi kwazo iintlobo ezintandokazi, kwaye isipho singenakulungele iimfuno zayo. Kwimeko yobudlelwane obunzima, isipho "sekhishini" siya kubonwa njengento yokungabikho kwezakhono okanye ngakumbi. Kuyafana okufanayo malunga nemveliso yomzimba kunye nokukhathalela umzimba, ingcambu inokuma ixesha elide ngenxa yezinto ezingabonakaliyo, kwaye isipho ngokwawo siya kubhekisela kwiingcamango zokubonakala kakuhle okanye ukuzinyamekela ngokwaneleyo.
Zama ukwenza umama wakho umama, ngokomzekelo, ubophe i-good steal okanye uhlambe iimboli zangaphambili ezihlalweni, umzekelo, ekhitshini. Imihlobiso esuka kumabhondi, i-napkins eneemfashiso - izipho ezinjalo zithatha inxalenye yomphefumlo wakho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ziya kuyanconywa nangona umkhwekazi oqinileyo.
Isipho sikamamazala ngomcimbi wokubhiyozela
Leli bali lihluke kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngemihla ejikelezayo isabelo-mali sesipho sinyuka kakhulu, ngoko, nesipho ngokwayo sidinga indlela ekhethekileyo. Ukuba umyeni kuwe ngale ndlela akayiluleki, zama ukuqhagamshelana nomkhwezala, ukuba kukho ithuba elinjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba umfazi wakhe angathanda ntoni, ngoko ke iingcebiso zakhe zinokunceda kakhulu umsebenzi wakho.
Isipho esiphumeleleyo singasenza umhlobiso wegolide, kodwa kulo mbandela ufana nokuthanda okanye ulwazi