Iindlobomi ebomini babantu zidlala indima enkulu kunye nabangenalo kubo, ngokuqhelekileyo bayabakhohlwa ngokukhawuleza. Ababala kunye abamnyama nabamhlophe, bevuya kwaye bebuhlungu - bonke bawubonakaliso bamaphupha kunye namaphupha abo balalayo, mhlawumbi, yingakho bahlala bezama ukuphazamisa. Oko iiphupha ezifikile malunga nebhokisi, namhlanje kufuneka siyihlole.
Ukuchazwa kokulala
Ndimele ndithi kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha eli phupha lichazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngako oko, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uxhomekeke kwi-intuition yakho, khawuqwalasele iimvakalelo ezivakatyeweyo ngelo xesha, imo-jikelele kunye neenjongo eziqhelekileyo kunye neenkcukacha.
Nazi izinto eziphambili zokulala, apho kukho umntu ofileyo ebhokisini:
- uguquko lwemozulu;
- kugula kakhulu;
- iindaba ezide zilindele kude. Abo banomdla kwizinto ezifihliweyo ngamaphupha afiyo kwindawo yokuphila, kubalulekile ukuthobela ingqalelo kulo mzekelo, kuba ukufelwa kwabafileyo kufuneka bathethe;
- ukuba umntu oshonile ngelo xesha uya kuvela, kodwa uthe cwaka okanye uqala ukuwahlamba abo bakhoyo ngeziqalekiso kunye neziqalekiso, ulinde ingxaki;
- Ingxabano ilindele umntu obuthongayo umfi ulila;
- Ukuzibona ebhokisini kuthetha ukuba zonke izinto ziya kunyuka kwaye yonke into iza kusombululwa ngokukhuselekileyo;
- abo bacela ukuba umngcwabo kunye nomfi ebhokisini, ngubani ogula eqinisweni, ephupha, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukulinda ukuphucula kwakhe ngokukhawuleza.
Ezinye izibikezelo
Ukuba ephupheni umntu obuthongo uyazibethela ibhokisi yowokufa, kodwa ngokwenene ulindele ukuba athathe isigaba sakhe somsebenzi. Ukubuza into yokuba umntu ofileyo ephosini ngamaphupha, kufanelekile ukunyamekela ukuba ibhokisi livaliwe kwaye ingaba ubuthongo ngokwakhe wayezalisekisa umhlaba. Ukuba kwakunjalo, ngoko ngokwenene uzama nzima ukulibala nokufihla isiganeko esingathandekiyo esingamniki. Ukuba ephupheni ibhokisi elinomntu ofileyo lithathwa ethuneni kwaye livulekile, ngoko imfihlelo iya kuba yinto ecacileyo kwaye wonke umntu uya kukwazi ukuba umntu olele ufihlile.
Kwincwadi yephupha yaseRomany, ukubuza ukuba yintoni na amaphupha afileyo ebhokisini kwaye ishukunyiswa, umntu unokufumana impendulo yokuba le ngxaki. Ukuba umntu oshonile uphuma ebhokisini aze afikelele kumntu olele, ngoko ke inyaniso ikulindele ingozi. Le nto ayilungile kwaye ayifanele ikhutshwe kuyo. Kwezinye iincwadi zephupha, ukubaluleka okukhulu kunikezelwa kwisini somntu ofileyo. Ukuba ngumntu, ngoko ukuchazwa kokulala kulungile, kwaye ukuba ngumfazi, ngoko ke. Kodwa ukuba umntu ofileyo uyazibiza ngokuzenzekelayo, ke le yinto eqinisekileyo yokufa. Ukuthatha ibhokisi kunye nomntu oshonile kuthetha ukuthwala umthwalo wokukhathazeka komntu kwaye akaphuphi nantoni na into.
Abaninzi banomdla kwizinto ezinobungqina bomntu oshonile abaphuphayo, kwaye zininzi zazo. Ukuba ephupheni izidumbu zinyuka ziya eluthulini, ke ukuvuswa kulindele ukuvuka kokulala. Ukuba ephupheni umama okanye uyise ofile ufikile kumntu, kubalulekile ukuphulaphula amagama akhe ngokucophelela ngokunokwenzeka. Ookhokho bethu basemhlabeni abazange basiphazamise ngoko nje kwaye ukuba kukho into eyakhuthaza kuyo, kwabakho isizathu esinzulu. Bahlala bexwayisa ngento ethile, zama ukuzikhusela kwizenzo zokukhawuleza kunye nokukhusela abo bathandekayo.
Ukuba umntu ufile, kwaye ephupheni bayamhalalisela kwaye bhiyozele, ngoko ngokwenene umntu olalayo uya kwenza umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na, hayi