Ukukhulelwa ngumcimbi obonwabileyo ebomini bonke abafazi, xa omnye umntu ehlala ngaphakathi kuye. Yintoni enokuyichazela iphupha owazibona ngayo kule meko, zama ukulijonga.
Kutheni sifuna ukukhulelwa?
Ukuba loo nto iphupha ibonwa yintombazana encinci, ke kukho ixesha elizayo apho kungcono ukuba ungaqali ulwalamano olutsha, kwaye ngelo xesha abantu abakuzungezile bangayiqondi. Iphupha lomfazi omdala lithembisa izithintelo ezingabalulekanga eziza kubalwa ngabahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nezihlobo. Sekunjalo kunokuthintela ukuvela kweengxaki zempilo eziya kudibana neengxaki zokugaya, izintso kunye nesibindi. Ukuba intombazana isoloko iphupha ukuba ikhulelwe, ngoko ebomini boqobo iya kujikelezwa yintetho kunye neengxoxo ezahlukahlukeneyo emva kwayo.
Kwabesetyhini abakhulelweyo bezocwangco zesini, iphupha elinjalo lingabonakalisa ukwesaba ukubeletha kunye nokuxhalaba ngempilo yomntwana. Ukuba ibhinqa elingakhange libele umntwana linephupha apho ivakalelwa kukuba umntwana uyasichukumisa esiswini, oku kuwuphawu lokuba amathamsanqa amatsha amnandi kunye namathuba amatsha okuphunyezwa aya kuvuleka phambi kwakhe.
Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha lokuba ukhulelwe yinkwenkwe - lo luphawu oluhle oluthembisa ukuqhubela phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, ukwandisa umvuzo kunye nokuphucula imeko yezemali ngokubanzi. Iphupha okhulelwe ngayo intombazana kukubonakalisa ubunzima obukhulu kunene.
Kutheni isisu somfazi okhulelwe uphupha?
Ukubetha isisu sakho ephupheni kukubonakalisa ukuba utshintsho lungcono, kwaye ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana uphonswa, ubomi buya kuzinza ngaphandle kweengxaki. Ubonile ukuba isisu sisanda kangakanani ngobukhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kufumana impumelelo emsebenzini kunye nayiphi na imizamo.
Yintoni umfazi okhulelweyo ephuphayo, wazala ntoni?
Ngokusoloko eli phupha linxulumene ngqo namava angaphakathi. Kwakhona, ubuthongo bunokuba yi-harbinger yokuzalwa okulula ebomini bokwenene. Umtoliki unikeza enye ingcaciso - ukuba ukuzalwa kuphumelele, ngoko kwixesha elizayo ungaqinisekanga ngezenzo zakho, kodwa ukwesaba kuya kuba ngeze. Ukuba ukuzalwa kwenzeka ngobunzima, kuyacetyiswa kungekudala ukuba ungaqalanga nayiphi na imeko, kuba isiphumo asiyi kuphumelela.