Amaphupha akuvumela ukuba ukhangele kwixesha elizayo kwaye ufunde ngokubakho imicimbi evuya kunye neengozi. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uchaze ngokuchanekileyo oko ubonayo. Ngaphambi kokuchazwa, zama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha eziphambili zesalathisi kunye nomthwalo wemvakalelo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufanisa phakathi kokutolika kunye neemeko zento ekhoyo.
Kutheni uphupha iingubo ezibomvu?
Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi malunga nelophupha elinokuthi libonise ukuba izithintelo ezikhoyo ngaphambi kokuba ufinyelele iinjongo eziza kutshabalala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uya kufumana ithuba lokubona oko kwadalwa. Ukulala, okwakunomdlalo omdala obomvu, ungathatha isincophiso sokuba kwezinye iimeko ungathatha ithuba. Ngesondo esifanelekileyo, eli phupha liwuphawu lokuzonwabisa, umdlalo kunye nomtshato. Ukubona intombazana egqoke imbobo ebomvu kuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kwaye kungabi kubalo kubanda. Oku kungathathwa njengesilumkiso sokuba ngokukhawuleza kufuneka sibhekane nesisombululo esinamandla. Ukubona ingubo ebomvu kumhlobo ephupheni kuthetha ukuba uyamthobela ubomi boqobo.
Umbono ebusuku, apho ubeka ingubo ebomvu, ubonisa ukuba ungumntu onobuqili. UDreambook uya kukuxelela ukuba unokufeza injongo yakho ngenxa yesifiso sakho. Ukubona ephupheni ingubo ebomvu emide, ithetha, ngekhontrakthi iya kulawula ukwabiwa kwisihlwele. Ngaphambi kwakho ulindele impumelelo kuluntu, kwaye unokufumana uncedo oluxabisekileyo. Ukuba ubeka ingubo emfutshane ebomvu, ngoko unokudibanisa imisebenzi eyonwabileyo yemihla ngemihla.
Iphupha apho ingubo yomtshato obomvu ibonakaliswe ngumqondiso wesithando,