Iingcamango malunga nezigulane azikwazi ukuhlulwa njengezona ziqhelekileyo, kodwa akukhuthazwa ukuba ziphathwe ngokulula. Yaye ukuba iphupha elinjalo liphupha, kuyacaca ukuba kucacise ngokucacileyo ngentsingiselo yalo, ingqalelo zonke iinkcukacha. Ngokomzekelo, kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ukufumanisa oko kukuluma kwesicabangulu okuphuphayo. Ngenxa yokuba kuxhomekeke kumongo, iphupha elinjalo lingahunyushwa ngokubhekiselele kokulungileyo nokubi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni inxalenye yomzimba eyadywayo yi-insect, yintoni ubungakanani obuyiyo, uhlobo luni lovakalelwa ngumntu ngexesha elifanayo.
Yintoni isigqwirha esilungelayo?
Ukuba umlingo wawubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye awubuhlungu, kwaye le mvakalelo ayizange iphele emva kokuvusa, ngoko kufuneka ulindele iingxaki ezinkulu ebomini bakho. Sekunjalo unokuthetha ngokukhohlisa kwezihlobo okanye abantu ababaziyo. Amadoda afana nala maphupha athembisa ubunzima ekusebenzelaneni "nabangaphambili" - mhlawumbi umfazi wamandulo okanye umnkosikazi uya kumxelela ngaye, eneze iingxaki kwaye enze ingxaki kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Kodwa ukuba i-bite ayinabuhlungu - ke yile mqondiso omhle, impumelelo ethembisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba isilwanyana sesilumko sisesandleni siphupha ntoni. Eli phupha libhekisela kwimeko ebandayo okanye ebushushu. Kuya kuba yinto enqabileyo yokukwazi nokuba malunga neliphi iphupha lokuluma kwesicabungqina emlenzeni, kukuhambo okanye nokuba luhambo olude.
Ukuluma kwesicabucabu esikhulu ekulele-ngaba kulungile ukuba uloyike?
Ubungakanani bezinambuzane bubalulekile. Ngenxa yokuluma kwesicabucu esikhulu kwiphupha, ngokukrakra ngokugqithisileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo kuyingozi, kuyinto engafanelekanga, ebonisa ukugula okukhulu kunye nokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu uyafa kuyo ephupheni, kufuneka umntu alindele ukulahla ukungabikho komthetho kunye neengxaki ngokukhuselekileyo. Kwaye iphupha elimhlophe elimhlophe, elikubethayo, lifanekisela inhlanhla eninzi. Oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala into into enhle iya kwenzeka kumntu kwaye, yintoni eyona nto imnandi, engalindelekanga.