Ngoku e-Hollywood, "usebenzo" luyaqhubeka lubona abadumileyo kwi-harassment kunye nokudlwengulwa. Kwaye ukuba ngaphambili kwakukho abadlali abathandwayo, iimodeli kunye neemvumi ezityholwa ngabantu abacebileyo nabathintekayo kule nto, ngoko ngokukhawuleza igama lomfazi wokuqala - uMariah Carey wabonakala kumaphephandaba. Nangona kunjalo, kwakusisigxina se-iceberg, kuba izolo iindaba ezipapashiweyo zashicilela ukuvuma ngokukrakra kwe-American actor u-Anthony Edwards, onokufumaneka lula kumateyipu "I-Ambulance" kunye ne "Best Shooter", owatsho ukuba esemncinci wayexhatshazwa ngesondo ngowadumiweyo ekhokelwa nguGary Goddard.
U-Anthony njengomntwana wayengenakukwazi ukuthetha ngokuxhatshazwa
Umdlali oneminyaka engama-55 ubudala uqalise udliwano-ndlebe ngaye ngokuxelela ngokumaziyo noThixodard. Yiloo nto u-Edwards athi ngalo:
Ndaqala ukudibana noGary xa ndandineminyaka eli-12 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo ukuba umehluko kwiminyaka esineminyaka eyi-8 nje kuphela, u-Goddard wenza into enganakwenzekayo kum, waba nguyena mandla amakhulu kwixesha lam. Kuthetha ntoni kum? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokukhawuleza waba ngumcebisi wam, umhlobo, utitshala ... Wandifundisa ukuba ndixabise ubuhlobo, ndabonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde kakuhle, kwaye, eqinisweni, ufundiswe ukuba uxanduva lwezenzo nezenzo zabo. Nangona konke oku, wayeyindoda ehamba phambili.Xa ndandineminyaka eli-14 umama waqalisa incoko enkulu kunye nam. Wava iindlebe zokuthi uGary wayenamathele kubahlobo bakhe abangaphantsi. Ukongezelela kum "igundane" lethu kwabafana abafana abane. Sonke sasizungezwe nguGary. Andiyiqondi indlela akwenza ngayo ngokobuchule. Sazibona kuye isithixo sakhe kwaye sasingakholelwa ukuba wayengenomdla kuphela kuthi. Emva koko mna nomama andinakuvuma ukuba u-Goddard wayehlukumeza ngokwesini. Ukongezelela, umhlobo wam obalaseleyo wandivuma ukuba uGary wamdlwengula, kodwa andinakukwazi ukuxelela abantu abadala. Ndisaziva ngathi ungumrhwebi, umntu onokumkhusela umhlobo wakhe, kodwa ngenxa yesaba ayengakwazi.
Ndacinga ngamanye amaninzi malunga nokuba kutheni u-Gary ubaluleke kakhulu kum. Ndicinga ukuba ubaba, ongenako ukundinika uxhumano oluthile lwamavakalelo, wachaza yonke into. Wayesigula kwaye wayehlala ehlushwa uxinzelelo lwexinzelelo emva kwemfazwe. U-Goddard waqonda ukuxhatshazwa kwam kwaye wenza konke ukulungiselela le galelo ebomini bam. "
Emva koko u-Edwards wanquma ukuxelela ukuba kutheni engazange avume ubugebengu bomlawuli odumile kunina:
"Uyazi, iipedophile ngabantu banobuqili. Bayazi i-psychology yabantwana kakuhle kwaye baqonda indlela abanokusetyenziswa ngayo. Emva koko wasitshela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngothando, okubangela ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwesondo. Ukongeza, uGary wasenza sizive sinetyala malunga noko kwenzekayo kwindawo yethu. Ngesizathu esithile, bonke abafana bacinga ukuba ngokuziphatha kwabo babechukumisa i-Goddard ukuziphatha kakubi. Ukongezelela, kwakusoloko kukhoyika ulwalamano lwethu. Uloyiko lokuba ubudlelwane bethu buya kuqatshelwa ngabanye kwaye baya kugwetywa ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokwesaba ukuba siya kukhishwa ngonaphakade kwihlabathi esizijwayele. NjengoGary ubeka ingcinezelo ebantwini kubantwana, apho amaxhoba aya kuthwala ubomi bawo bonke ubomi. Ukuze ndilahle konke oku, ndibe nexesha elide lokunyangwa ngumgqirha. Ezifana ne-Goddard kufuneka zikhethwe kuluntu, ngakumbi kubantwana. "
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UAnthony wazama ukuxolela uGary
Kwaye ekugqibeleni udliwano-ndlebe naye u-Edwards wanquma ukuthetha malunga nokubona kwakhe i-Goddard ngexesha lokugqibela:
"Ngoku ngoku andiyi kuthetha ukuba ndidala kangakanani xa ndibona bonke ubungqina obuphosakeleyo noGary. Ndiyakhumbula nje ukuba kwakunzima kum kwaye ndifuna uncedo lomfo wezifo zengqondo. Kulungile ukuba abahlobo bam bathethele kum ugqirha ogqwesileyo ofundisayo ngamaqela. Xa uphakathi kwabantu abaye baphumelela njalo, kulula kakhulu ukuba uthethe ngokunyanzelana ngesondo ngokobudala. Ndaphathwa ixesha elide kakhulu ... Ulwaphulo lwadlulayo iminyaka, de ndide ndive ngathi kuba lula.Ekugqibeleni ndabona uThixodard iminyaka engama-22 edlulileyo. Le ntlanganiso yayingalindelekanga kwaye yenzeke kwisikhululo. Ndacinga ukuba siza kuphosa amagama ambalwa, kodwa uGary waqala ukucela ukuba ndixolelwe. Uthe uthi uyazisola ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo. Emva koko ndaqonda ukuba kwakuyixesha lokuxolela. Nangona kunjalo ukuba ndiyambona njengesilo, ndizama ukufumana inkcazelo ngezenzo zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, yonke into yayitshintshile iminyaka engama-4 edlulileyo, xa umshicileli wabonakala ngolwazi olulandelayo kwisondo lokuhlukunyezwa ngokwesini kunye nentombi yakhe. Ngenene, ndavutha. Andizange ndiyazi indlela yokuphila kwaye ngubani na ukuba ndikholelwe. Kwafuneka ndibuyele kumgqirha. Ngaphandle kwakhe, andizange ndiphume kwizinto ezimbi zam. "