Imitshato, apho abatshatileyo banomlinganiselo omkhulu weminyaka, bahlala bephantsi kwemibutho yoluntu, umntu uhlambalaza, umntu udidekile. Kodwa ukuba intsapho inothando ithatha ukubusa, amanani awanalo.
Umongameli osemtsha kunye onomdla weFransi, u-Emmanuelle Macron, apho amaFrentshi anethemba eliphezulu, wakwazi ukumangalisa bakhe abakhethiweyo: umfazi wezopolitiko iminyaka engama-64, ngoxa yena wayeneminyaka engama-39 ubudala. I-Elysee Palace kwinqanaba lokuqala lithatha into enomdla kwaye engaqhelekanga kwimbono yoluntu yokuqala yindoda yelizwe.
Ngubani na yena - intombi yokuqala yaseFransi?
Umfazi wamanje kaMacron Brigitte wayengutitshala wakhe kwiminyaka yakhe yesikolo. Kwaye xa u-Emmanuel osemncinci eneminyaka eyi-16, wathembisa umfundisi wakhe othandekayo ukuba uya kumenza umfazi, nangona uneminyaka engama-24 ubudala kunabo. Kwaye wayengumntu weli gama, ngo-2007 batshata. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba le mzuzu mhle bafanele bahambe ngendlela ephazamisayo yezithintelo.
Konke kwaqala njani?
Ibali lothando phakathi kootitshala beencwadi kunye nomfundi we-Jesuit uLyceum e-Amiens yaqala ngumbuthano ojikelezayo, owaholwa nguBrigitte Tronier. Emva koko umfana uEmmanuel Macron wammema ukuba abhale umdlalo kunye. Ngexesha lomsebenzi odibeneyo kumdlalo, u-Brigitte waqala ukuqalisa intombazana phakathi kwabanye abafundi kwaye, ekugqibeleni, wamnqoba ngokupheleleyo.
Imithintelo yokonwaba
Xa umongameli wamanje waseFransi wathembisa ukuba wakhetha ukutshata naye, wayeneminyaka eli-16 kuphela ubudala, kwaye wayeneminyaka engama-41 ubudala. Utitshala wayengumfazi otshatileyo waza wakhulisa abantwana abathathu, enye yentombi yakhe yayingumfundi waseKimanuel.
Enyanisweni, abazali bafana benxamnye nobudlelwane obunjalo kwaye ekuqaleni babecinga ukuba unyana wabo wanqwenela ukunqwenela umfundi wakhe esikolweni, intombi yomfundisi.
Nangona kunjalo, xa beqaphela ukuba ingxelo yengane yakhe yayingekho amahlaya, kwaye loo mfana wayezimisele, abazali bakhe bamthuma ukuba bafunde eParis, kwaye utitshala ngokwakhe wacelwa ukuba ashiye unyana wakhe ubuncinane ubuneminyaka engama-18 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, ekuphenduleni, bakuva kuBrigitte ukuba akakwazi ukuthembisa nantoni na.
Emva koko imininzi yeminxeba kunye nothando lwaqala kude. Othandekayo unokulinda iiyure kwifowuni, kwaye, njengoko uBrigitte ekhumbula, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo uEmmanuel washayisa konke ukumelana kwakhe nomonde.
Nwabile kunye
Xa luthando lwe-platonic oluye lwaluba ngolwalamano lwangempela, eso sibini sithe cwaka, kwaye sithetha ukuba oku kusebenza kuphela kubini babo, ngoko le ngcaciso iya kuhlala ingummangaliso. Kodwa ngo-2007, uBrigitte wanquma ukuza eParis ukuya ku-Emmanuel.
Ngelo xesha wayeseqhawule umtshato. Ngokukhawuleza, abathandana batshata. Umyeni ngaleso sikhathi wayeneminyaka engama-30, kwaye umtshakazi-iminyaka engama-54.
Umtshato womongameli wexesha elizayo waseFransi wenziwa kwi-curator yaseLe Touquet evelele kwiholo yase dolophu. Lo mbhangqwana wanikezela ngesifungo sobomi obungunaphakade, uEmmanuel wathi unombulelo kubazali kunye nabantwana bakaBrigitte ngenkxaso, kwaye wagqiba intetho yakhe ngale ndlela:
"Nangona asikho isiqabane esivamile, kodwa sisona sibini sibini!"
Ngoku isi sibini iMacronov sele sele singumongikazi 7 oonyana bakaBridget. Enyanisweni, "umkhulu" oneminyaka engama-39 ubudala uEmmanuel akayabizwa, bamnika igama elithi "daddy" eliqhelekileyo lesiNgesi. Ngombuzo wokuba umongameli uyazisola ngokuthi wayengenabantwana bakhe, uMakron uyaphendula:
"Andiyidingi nayiphi na i-biological children, okanye abazukulu bezinto eziphilayo."
Inkokheli yaseFransi izisa ngokutsha umfazi wayo kwihlabathi, abafazi bahlala ndawonye. Kukho ivumi ukuba uBridget wanceda ngendoda yakhe kwiphankaso lonyulo, waze wabhala iintetho zeentetho zakhe, kwaye konke oko "ukuze ube kunye."