Yintoni efana nokuzalwa engekho emzimbeni wakho? Yintoni efana nokuphila emva kokuguquka kwesondo? Abagqwetha abadumileyo behlabathi babonisa amabali abo.
Kungekudala, ihlabathi lajikeleza iindaba zokuba abantu abambalwa be-transgender base-Ecuador babenentombi. Abazali beentombazana abakhange benze umsebenzi wokugqibela wokuguquka ngokwesini: bafuna ukuba umntwana akhulelwe ngokwemvelo. Ngaloo ndlela, intombazana yazalwa nguyise - uFernando Machado (nee Maria). Unina wentombazana waba nguDiane Rodriguez (owayengumfana uLuis). UFernando noDiana babebaqabane bokuqala be-transgender eMzantsi Melika, abazama ukuzala umntwana.
Indlela yabathandi abonwabileyo ayizange ifakwe nge roses. Ngoko, uMaria, abazali baxoshwa ngaphandle kwindlu xa beva malunga nesifiso sentombi ekutshintsheni ngesondo, kwaye kumaphephandaba asekuhlaleni wayebhalwa njengowesifazane oqaqambileyo.
Iindaba malunga nokuzaliswa kwale ntsapho engaqhelekanga zenza ingqalelo kwiingxaki zabantu be-transgender ezivela kwihlabathi lonke. Ngelishwa, abaninzi babo baziziva bebodwa kwaye bavuyile. Kodwa abanye bakwazi ukufumana isibindi baze bazivakalise ngokuzenzekelayo. Siyakhumbula abantu abagqwesileyo kunye nabadumileyo.
UKaitlin Jenner (oneminyaka engama-66 ubudala)
Sekunjalo kwi-com-com, naseBruce Jenner, inkwenkwezi yoluhlu lwe "Family Kardashian", kwakungenakwenzeka ukukrokrela i-transgender: umdlali-umdlali wezemidlalo, umdlali weemali we-Olimpiki, uyise wabantwana abathandathu abavela kubafazi abathathu ... Kodwa kwabonakala ukuba amadoda anesibindi angaphupha ngenguqu ngesondo. NgokukaBruce, wayehlala efuna ukuba ngumfazi, wayethanda ukuguquka ngasese kwimpahla yabesifazane kunye nopende. Nangona kunjalo, wayengeyongqingili. Umtshato wakhe wokugqibela noChris Kardashian, unina wengqungquthela uKim, wahlala iminyaka engama-23. Esi sibini sasineentombi ezimbini-eziqhelekileyo ezaziwa ngamaKendall kunye noKylie Jenner.
Emva kokuqhawula umtshato kuChris Bruce waze wacinga ngokuzibulala - inamandla kakhulu ingxabano yangaphakathi phakathi komnqweno wokuba ngumfazi kunye nokwesaba ukulilela abantu abathandayo. Ekugqibeleni, eneminyaka yobudala engama-65 (!), Wenza umsebenzi wokulungisa isondo waza wabonakala phambi koluntu ngomfanekiso omhle womfazi ogama linguCainlin. Yaye yonke into yayiya kulungile, kodwa apha ngobomi bodwa uYenner eneengxaki. Yena, njengabo bonke ubomi bakhe, njengabesifazane, akanandaba nabantu, kodwa akakwazi ukufumana umngane ofanelekileyo wobomi. Kukho amahemuhemu ukuba ngenxa yesi sizathu, uCainlin uyazisola ngeshintsho sesondo kwaye ufuna ukubuyela kumzimba wesilisa.
UChaz Bono (oneminyaka engama-47 ubudala)
Ngomhla ka-4 Matshi 1969 umculi othandwayo uCher kunye nomyeni wakhe uSonny Bono wazalwa intombazana. Ngelo xesha, isibini sasisebenza kwifilimu apho iCher yathatha indima yentombazana eyayingakwazi ukuqonda indlela yakhe yesondo. UCher wagqiba ukubiza igama lakhe ngentombi yakhe uChastity, ngokuhlonipha le heroine yakhe kwaye, njengoko bethetha, "bahamba."
Emva kweminyaka engama-13, u-Chastity wamemezela kubazali bakhe ukuba ungumlingani wesini. Ekuqaleni babethusa, bazama ukuphatha intombi yabo kuphela, bambeka kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokuvuselela, kodwa zonke zazingenanto. Xa uneminyaka eyi-18, i-Chastity yenza i-cumming-out, i.e. xelelwa esidlangalaleni malunga nolwazi oluqhelekileyo lwentlalo. Umama weenkwenkwezi wayebonakala eyamkela le meko yeendaba, kodwa kuye kwakumothukisa xa intombi yakhe yamemezela isigqibo sakhe sokutshintsha ngesondo ngoncedo lotyando. Ubumsulwa babenemisebenzi emininzi enzima.
Ngo-2010, iCher yalahleka intombi yakhe yafumana unyana ogama linguChez Bono. Kungekudala, kodwa umculi wakwazi ukuqonda kwaye wamkela iChasa:
"Ndiyamhlonela. Ukuba ndikhe ndavuswa njengendoda, ndiza kuqala ukucinga ngethuba lokuphuma kulo mzimba. Yiloo nto uChazi aziva ngayo, kwaye ngoku ufumene uxolo. "
Ngomendo wakhe onzima, uChez Bono, intatheli yezobugcisa kunye nomlindi woluntu wamalungelo, wabhala incwadi waza wenza i-documentary.
USisters uLana (oneminyaka engama-51 ubudala) kunye noLili Wachowski (oneminyaka engama-48 ubudala)
Okumangalisa ngakumbi ibali labazalwana bakaWachowski - abadali be-"Matrix".
Bazalelwa eChicago kwintsapho yomntu wasePolish wamashishini kwaye bakhulisa amakhwenkwe aqhelekileyo. Ewe, umdala, uLarry, wayevaliwe kwaye akafumananga ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye noontanga. Kamva, wavuma ukuba wayengenomdla wokudlala kunye namakhwenkwe, wakhangwa ngamadonki kunye neengubo zokubhinqa, kwaye wambesa ngasese iimpahla zoodadewabo. Xa wayeselula, eqonda ukuba akafani nabanye, uLarry wayefuna ukuzibulala. Emva kokugqoka isigxina sakhe sobusuku, wabhala inqaku elide lokuzibulala, kodwa ngelithuba elinenhlanhla lokuzalisa iinjongo zakhe wahluleka. ULarry wayenobungane kakhulu nomntakwabo uAndy, kwaye mhlawumbi inkxaso yakhe yamnceda ukuba aphile kule nkqubo enzima.
Emva kwesikolo, abazalwana basebenze njengabachweli, kwaye ngexesha labo lokuzikhethela babetha amahlaya kwaye bahlakulela ingcamango "yeMatrix", iskripthi sayo esabuyiselwa kwi-studio yeWarner Brosers.
Siyabulela iifilimu "UNxibelelwano" kunye ne "Matrix", uWachowski baba ngabadumileyo, kodwa abazange basasaze ubomi babo bodwa, benqabe ukunikezela udliwano-ndlebe. Kuyaziwa ukuba bobabini babatshatile, kodwa uLarry watshatyalaliswa ngo-2002, waqala ukubonakala esidlangalaleni kwimpahla yabasetyhini waza waqalisa ukulungiselela umsebenzi wokulungisa isondo.
Kwaye ngo-2012, u-Larry wenza ubuqili, oboniswe kuluntu ngomfanekiso omtsha - umfazi onenwele elibomvu ogama linguLana. Ngenkomfa yenkomfa enye yezintatheli zabuza uLana umbuzo ongenamthokozo, uAndy, owayekho ehholo, wazingqinela:
"Ndiza kubetha ibhotile entloko yantoni na ocaphukisa udadewethu!"
Ngo-2009, uLana watshata kunye no-Ilsa Strix (igama langempela uKarin Winslow) - inkwenkwezi yeeklasi zeBDSM. Ngethuba esengumntu, uLarry waba ngumthengi othe rhoqo kwaye washaya umlingani-umlingane-omkhulu umfana uBuck Angel. Umva wokugqibela, ngendlela, waba ngumfazi, waphambaniswa kunye namahomoni angamadoda.
Kwaye ngo-Meyi 2016, Misa ngaphandle kwaye u -Andy waphenduka waba nguLilly. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba uAndy uyamthiya umzimba wakhe wesilisa bonke ubomi bakhe, kwaye loo ntokazi ivakalelwa ngakumbi. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba umfazi kaAndy, abaye kunye naye ukususela ngo-1991, bamxhasa.
UHarisu (iminyaka engama-41 ubudala)
UHarisu ngumculi waseMzantsi Korea odlawayo, umzekelo kunye nomdlali. Wazalelwa ngo-1975 yinkwenkwana egama linguLi Kyung-Yip kwaye wayengomnye wabantwana abahlanu kwintsapho enkulu. Sekuncinane ebuntwaneni, umntwana wabonisa indlela yokuziphatha kwentombazana.
Xa uneminyaka eyi-15, emva kokuzama ukuphumeza ubudlelwane kunye noontanga wakhe, u-Lee wacinga ngokutshintsha isondo waza waqala ukuthatha amahomoni. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, wakhululwa kwinkonzo yemikhosi enyanzelekileyo, ecinga ngokugula ngengqondo. Ekupheleni kweminyaka engama-90, u-Lee waphawula iphupha lakhe ngokwenza isondo, isifuba kunye nentambo, kunye ne-rhinoplasty. Abazali bakaLi bebuhlungu gqitha, kodwa ngoku bayaziqhayisa ngokuphumelela kwentombi yabo.
Kwiminyaka emininzi "intombazana esandul 'yenziwe" yaseJapan, apho yajoyina i-aging agency, ngoko yathatha inkohliso eyiHaris. USlava weza kuye emva kokudubula kwi-DoDo izimonyo.
Le ntombazana ayizange ifihle inyaniso ngokutshintsha isondo, yaye ngokuthe rhoqo kuthiwa: "unobungcono kunabesifazane ..."
U-Harisu uthathwa njengowesifazane. Kwiminyaka engama-10 ubudala, utshatile umculi we-rap waseKorea.
U-Andrea Pežić (oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala)
Uhlobo lweAndrogyne uAndrew Pezhich wazalelwa eBosnia naseHerzegovina. Xa wayeneminyaka engama-9, yena nonina kunye nomzalwana omdala bafudukela e-Australia. Xa nje ekhumbula, uAndrei wayefuna ukuba intombazana. Ukususela esemncinci, wayenomdla kwiingubo kunye neenwele zeenwele, kwaye kwibhola lebhola yayingenamdla, kunokuba athukuthele umzalwana wakhe. Xa wayeneminyaka eyi-17, u-Andrey wayekho shishini. Ukubonakala kwakhe okungafaniyo kwamvumela ukuba adlulise iingubo zamadoda kunye nabasetyhini. Ngoko, kumboniso weGautier ungcolise kwengubo yomtshato.
Ngo-2014, u-Andrew wanquma ukulungisa isondo waza waba intombazana egama linguArena. U-Andrea uvakalelwa kakhulu kwaye uhlala omnye wemifanekiso ethandwa kakhulu. Ubomi bakhe bomntu, akavakalisi, kodwa uyavuma ukuba amaphupha okuba ngumama, yaye kungekudala wayenomngxube wokubambisana ngomunwe wakhe.
ULea Ti (oneminyaka engama-34 ubudala)
ULeah Ti, ubuhle obubuqili baseBrazil, ukuziqhenya kwindlu yefashini uGivenchy, kuvela kwakhona, wazalwa yinkwenkwe eyanikwa igama elithi Leonardo ekuzalweni. Uyise (okanye wakhe) utata ngumdlali oyiBhola waseBrazil uToninho Cerezo. Ukususela esemncinci, uLeonard waqonda ukuba akafani namanye amakhwenkwe, kodwa wawafihla ngokucacileyo le nyaniso. Abazange baphuphe ngomsebenzi wokwenza umzekelo, bephupha ekubeni yinyango yezilwanyana. Ubomi bakhe bokuzola kunye nokulinganiswa kwatshintsha emva kokudibana nomklami wefashoni uRicardo Tishi, umlawuli wangoku wekhaya laseGivenchy. KwakunguRicardo owamcenga uLeonardo ukuba avele phambi koluntu ngomfanekiso wentombazana. Basebenzisa ngokugqithiseleyo umfanekiso wesimo esizayo kwaye baya eParis, apho uLea ngokukhawuleza waba yinkwenkwezi yehlabathi lefashini. Wayekhenkcelela izembozo zamaphephancwadi amaphephancwadi amaninzi, wabonisa iimpahla zabesifazane kwi-podium, ethatha inxaxheba kwiifotshane zezithombe.
Ngo-2012, uLea waba yinto intombazana yokwenene, esebenze ukulungiswa kwesondo. Naphezu kwempumelelo enkulu, uLeah ufuna ngelinye ilanga alahle umsebenzi wakhe wokuzibonakalisa kwaye azalise iphupha lakhe lokuba ngumntwana ngokuba ngunyamazilwanyana.
UGina Rosero (32 ubudala)
Kodwa uGina Rosero, imodeli edumile yase-Amrican, i-swimsuits yokukhangisa kunye neengubo zangaphantsi zabesifazane, malunga neminyaka eyi-10 igcina imfihlo yento eyayisetyenziswa ngumfana. Umzekelo wesikhathi esizayo, waseFilipina ngokuzalwa, wazalwa eManila. UGina ukhumbula indlela eneminyaka emihlanu eyayibeka ithawula entloko yakhe kwaye wacinga ukuba yayiyizinwele zakhe ezide.
Ngobutsha bakhe wathatha inxaxheba kwimibhikano yecansi kwaye wathatha indawo yokuqala. Nangona kunjalo wayephupha ukuba ngumfazi, kwaye kungekhona nje umfazi, kodwa ubuhle. Ukongeza kwonyango le-hormone, uGina uye wenza imisebenzi emhlophe yokukhwela kwesikhumba. Kwaye eneminyaka engama-19, ehamba kunye nonina, onalo lonke uncedo lwakhe, uGina waya eThailand, apho ngoncedo lwabagqirha bokuqala abagqibeleni baba yintombazana.
Emva koko imodeli yahlala eMelika, apho yenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo. Kuze kube kutshanje, kwakungekho nanye wabahlobo bakhe baseMerika abaye bazi malunga nokudlulayo kwakhe, kwaze kwaba yilapho uGina enqume ukuthetha inyaniso inyaniso. Wenza oku ukwenzela ukuxhasa abantu be-transgender emhlabeni wonke, ukuxhatshazwa yedwa kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle abo bathandekayo.
Laverna Cox (iminyaka engama-32 ubudala)
Umdlali weqonga elidumile, inkwenkwezi yochungechunge elithi "U-Orange - i-hit of the season" yazalwa kwidolophu encinane yaseAlabama. Njengomntwana, umdlali wekamva watshutshiswa waza wahlwayelwa esidlangalaleni, ngenxa yokuba akafuni ukugqoka iingubo zamadoda aze afake ingubo esikolweni. Emva koko wayenamaphupha amabini axabisekileyo: ukuba abe ngumfazi kwaye asebenze kwiifilimu.
Yaye zombini yazaliseka, xa iLaverna yathuthela eNew York, yangena kwikholeji eqhubayo kwaye yenza umsebenzi ukutshintsha isondo. Ilixa elihle kakhulu liye lahlaselwa ngo-2013, emva kokukhululwa kwechungechunge "u-Orange - ukuwa kwexesha," apho wayedlala indima ye-transgender ye-female transgender uSophia Barset.
U-Eidian Dowling (iminyaka engama-29 ubudala)
U-Eidian Dowling ungumqambi onobuqambi, ubhulogi kunye nomgqugquzeli woluntu. Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa ukuba le ndoda yayisisentombazana. Ngaphambi kokuba usebenze utshintsho ngokwesondo, u-Eidian, ngoko intombazana eyintombazana, wayenebudlelwane bokuthandana nabantu bakhe. Omnye wabo wathi: "Kutheni ungabi yindoda?" La mazwi aphembelele kakhulu kwixesha elizayo le-Adian. Akazange nje enze ukulungiswa kwesondo, kodwa naye waqala ukubandakanya ngamandla kwimidlalo, ukuxubha imisipha emihle.
Ngomnyaka ka-2015, wathatha inxaxheba kumncintiswano wokuba ngumviwa womntu, oza kuhlaselwa kwiphepha leMagazini yeMpilo yeMadoda. Ngenxa yokuvota, wathatha indawo yesibini kodwa yena waba yindoda yokuqala ye-transgender ukuba avele kwiphepha lephephancwadi labesilisa eliphambili: wafotshwa kunye nabanye abagqityiweyo kwimicimbi ekhethekileyo yeMpilo yeMadoda.
Ngoku, i-Adian iyaqhubeka idlala imidlalo, igcina ibhulogi yakhe kwaye ilwa namalungelo abantu be-transgender. Ubomi bakhe bomntu, konke kulungile naye: uyavuya nomfazi wakhe.