Umdlali we-movie oneminyaka engu-44 ubudala, u-Ben Affleck, kwiphepha lakhe lezonxibelelwano loluntu, wabhala umyalezo ongalindelekanga esithi wayenobunzima bokusela utywala ixesha elide, kwaye ngenxa yenkxaso yomfazi wakhe, uJennifer Garner, wakwazi ukujamelana nokuxhomekeka.
Incoko ye-Facebook ye-Affleck
Ngo-2001, uBen waqonda ukuba wayengasayi kuba khona ngaphandle kotywala. Kwaye ngoko wayekhumbula ukuba kwakuthetha ntoni ukuba nguyise onxilisayo, kuba uyise wayenobuthathaka obu buthathaka. Njengomntwana, u-Affleck wabona abazali abaninzi bexabana ngenxa yokuba uyise wayela. Lo mkhwa waholela ekubeni ubaba washiya intsapho, kwaye umama wakhuphula uBen nomntakwabo yodwa. Emva koko i-Hollywood umdlali wecala wazithembisa ukuba akaze asela. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthandwa, imali kunye nobomi baseHollywood kuyimfuneko yokuziphatha, kwaye uBen utywala utywala. Kulungile ukuba umdlali-mdlali waqaphela kwangaphambili ukuba wayefuna uncedo kule ndawo kwaye waphendukela kwiKlinikhi yokuvuselela i-Clinic eMalibu.
Ukususela ngelo xesha, iminyaka eyi-16 idlulile, kwaye uBen uyabaxelela ngokunyanisekileyo bakhe abahlobo kunye noogxa bakhe ukuba uphilisiwe. Amagama anjalo anokufumaneka kwisicatshulwa sakhe:
"Ndivuyiswe ukuxelela wonke umntu ukuba ndakwazi ukunqoba zonke iingxaki kwaye ndiphelisa utywala. Ngoku ndinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kuyimfuneko ukucela uncedo kulo mbandela, njengaye naziphi na izixhomekeke. Akukho nto ihlazo okanye imbi. Umntu nje akakwazi ukujamelana nale ngxaki. Ukongeza, kufuneka uqale uqonde ukuba unyango luya kuba lude kakhulu. Ndithatha iminyaka eyi-16 kwaye ndiyabulela kuphela ngenkxaso yohlobo olusondeleyo lokuba ndiyizalise. Ndifuna ukubonakalisa ngomzekelo wam ukuba ebomini kunokwenzeka ukunqoba naluphi na ukuxhomekeka. Ungesabi ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba emva kokunyanga unyango, unokuphila ubomi obuhluke ngokupheleleyo, oya kukukhumbula ngokuthanda kunye novuyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu kum ukuba abantwana bam noJennifer bayavuya. Ndiyabonga ngokuxhasa kwabo, ngakumbi uJen. Yonke le minyaka wenyusa omnye wabantwana bethu. Awukwazi ukucinga ukuba kunzima kangakanani oku. Ndikulungele ubomi bam bonke ukuba ndicele ukuxolelwa iminyaka eli-10 edluleyo. "
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Garner kunye no-Affleck banqume ukuba bangaqhawuli umtshato
Ngo-2005, umshicileli wanyathelisa iindaba zokuthi uGarner no-Affleck batshatile. Kwimanyano babenabantwana abathathu: amantombazana uVolet, oneminyaka eyi-11, kunye no-Serfima Rose oneminyaka eli-8 ubudala, kunye no-Samuil, oneminyaka eyi-5 ubudala. Ngo-2015, ngenxa yengxaki yotywala kaBen, isibini esithile sagqiba ukuhlala ngokwahlukileyo. Phantse ngokukhawuleza kumajelo abekho umyalezo ukuba baqale inkqubo yomtshato, kodwa abadlali ngokwabo abazange baqinisekise ezi ndaba. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule zaziwa ukuba uJennifer noBen baphinde baphile kunye.