Xa umntu ejika kwi-18, kubonwa ukuba ungena ubomi obutsha. Kwabaninzi, oku kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye bafuna ukuba lo mhla ukhunjulwe. Yingakho bonke abatsha bafuna ukugubha lo mhla ngeendlela eziphambili kunye neyona ndlela. Abaninzi baqala ukulungiselela kwangaphambi komhla wokuzalwa, beza kunye nendlela yokuyigubha ngayo. Ehlobo , kulula ukuyilungisa iholide eqaqambileyo, kodwa kuthiwani ngalabo babhiyozela ukuzalwa kwabo ebusika ? Ukuba ubonisa ukucinga kwakho kwaye ulungiselele kwangaphambili, kunokwenzeka ukuba uqiniseke ukuba le mini ikhunjulwa ngokuqala kwayo.
Izinketho, unokumakisha njani umnyaka we-18 wokubusika?
Unokwenza, udibanise itafile kwi-cafe okanye umeme abahlobo kwiqela, kwaye ulungiselele ukuhlwaya komntwana ekhaya kunye nesiqingatha sesibini. Kodwa oku akuyonto yokuqala - abantu abaselula bayabhiyozela phantse zonke iiholide kwiqela okanye kwi-cafe. Ngoko ke, uninzi lwawo, ukuzalwa okungavamile ebusika kuya kukhunjulwa. Ziziphi iingcamango ezingaphakanyiswa kule nto?
- Kungcono ukumema abahlobo ngaphandle kwedolophu. Ewe, ukuba unayo indlu encane enezindlu ezifudumeleyo. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuphawula ukuzalwa kwangokuqala ebusika kwihostele. Kulapho unako ukuqasha indlu yeendwendwe kwaye uhlale kunye nabahlobo kufuphi nomlilo, kwaye ngaphandle koko, hamba ukuhamba ngekhefu okanye i-snowboarding.
- Olunye ukhetho, njengoko unokubhiyozela iminyaka eyi-18 ebusika - kukubhuka i-limousine kwaye ujikeleze isixeko kunye nabahlobo.
- Mema abahlobo bakho kwi-ice rink okanye kwindawo yokupaka amanzi. Kukho okuqhelekileyo ukuba uhlale e cafe.
- Abo bangayazi ukubhiyozela iminyaka eyi-18 ebusika, banokuyilungiselela i -party themed ekhaya. Kule nto kufuneka ucinge ngemeko yeeholide, khetha imincintiswano nezipho.
Kodwa, ngaphezu koko, xa ulungiselela iholide, umntu kufuneka acinge ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba namhlanje ivakalisa izikhumbuzo ezimnandi kunye neemvakalelo ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, kungekhona wonke umntu othanda ukuhlwa ebusuku egumbini eligcwele umsi kwiinkampani ezidakwa. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela ukuhluka kokubakho kokubanjelwa kuzo zonke iindwendwe.