Wonke umzali oya kuthumela umntwana wakhe kwisikolo esandulela isikolo, ukukhathazeka malunga nokulungelelaniswa komntwana kwi-kindergarten kwakulula kwaye kunika inkxaso. Uhambo lokuqala ukuya kwirejista, ukuqhelanisa nemeko entsha kunye noontanga bashiya izinto ezininzi ezibonakalayo kwintsana, ngoko abazali kufuneka benze izimo eziyimfuneko zokulungiswa komntwana kwi-kindergarten.
Ixesha lokutshintshela kwi-kindergarten kumntwana ngamnye uhlukile. Ezinye iintsana zidinga iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuba zisetyenziswe kwindawo entsha, abanye badinga iiveki kunye neenyanga. Ukuze ulungelelaniso lomntwana kwi-kindergarten ukuba angammangazi, abazali kufuneka banikele ingqalelo indlela yokuziphatha, izakhono kunye nomsebenzi wemihla ngemihla ekhaya:
- Ixesha lokulala lomntwana ekhaya kufuneka lihambelane nexesha lexesha elilileyo kwi-kindergarten;
- umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukuziphatha etafileni aze adle eyedwa - sebenzisa i-spoon, ifom, indebe nezinye izinto;
- Ingane kufuneka ikwazi ukulala ngokuzimela, ngaphandle kobudala babantu;
- i-crumb kufuneka ikwazi ukuhlamba yodwa, icele i-potty;
- Umntwana kufuneka anqunywe kumkhwa wokutshiza ingono;
- Ingane kufuneka ikwazi ukugqoka ngokuzimeleyo kunye nokwahlula, apho izinto zayo, kunye nalapho kungaziwa khona;
- umntwana kufuneka abe namava amancinci okuthetha kunye noontanga kunye nabantu abadala abangazalanga.
Ukuba umntwana akanazo izakhono ezingentla, uhambo lokuqala ukuya enkulisa lungabangela uxinzelelo olunzulu kuye. Ukungabikho kwamava oonxibelelwano kubangela ukubonakala kweentlobo ezahlukileyo kwintsana, enokubangela ukuba umntwana uya kufuna ukuzinza kwaye aphephe abanye abantwana. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokunika umntwana inkulisa, abazali kufuneka bahlabele iindawo zokudlala kwaye banike umntwana ithuba lokudlala nabanye abantwana.
Enye yeengxaki eziphambili zokulungelelanisa kweso sifana nesimo sengqondo somntwana. Yintoni ebonisa ukuba umntwana uya kufumana ngosuku lokuqala luxhomeke kakhulu kumgcini-nkonzo kunye nomoya jikelele kwiqela. Ngoko ke, abazali bayacetyiswa ukuba baqhelane nomqeqeshi kwaye bathethe noomama kunye noodade babanye abantwana abavakatyelayo inkulisa efanayo. Ukulungelelanisa abantwana kwi-kindergarten kwakulula, abazali kufuneka bahambe kumntwana kwindawo entsha kwiiyure ezimbalwa kwiintsuku zokuqala. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokutyelela okokuqala kwintanga yesibini yithuba apho abantwana basebenzisa kwisitalato okanye badlala ixesha elingaphandle. Kancinci, inani leeyure umntwana asebenzisa kwi-nursergart kufuneka linyuswe. Ekubeni ixesha lokuzilungelelanisa kwi-kindergarten yomntwana ngamunye ngabanye, musa ukukhawuleza uze uzame ukushiya umntwana kusasa yonke imini.
Ukuguqulwa komntwana kwi-kindergarten kukhawuleza xa umntwana esele ejikelezwe ngezinto eziqhelekileyo kwizinto ezintsha
imeko. Ukwenza oku, abazali bayakhuthazwa ukuba bavumele umntwana ukuba alethe amathoyizi abo abathandayo kwi-kindergarten.
Ngelishwa, akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuhlaziya i-maladaptation. Iimpawu ezisemgangathweni zokulungelelaniswa kakubi komntwana ukuya kubantwana bezilwane: ukukhubeka, ukungafuni ukuya enkulisa, ukungafuni ukutya, ukuphazamiseka kokulala. Kule meko, abazali kufuneka basombulule ingxaki kunye nomqeqeshi. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba unesimo esihle sengqondo kumntwana kwi-kindergarten. Ekhaya kunye nosana kubalulekile ukuchitha ixesha elide, ukunxibelelana nalo nokuthetha ngolo hlobo lwezilwanyana ezinomdla kakhulu. Ukuba awuqali ukuxazulula ingxaki yokuguqulwa okungafanelekanga komntwana kwirejista ngexesha, iintlungu ezahlukahlukeneyo zingaqala emzimbeni wakho ngenxa yokunyamezela - isisonguluko, ukuxhalaba, ukukhulelwa komkhuhlane.